***Official Late Night with BPH Interview Thread***

[HumbleNinja]

***BPH is a SS poster from the H.S section who I’d originally talked to (I believe about POF) as NaughtyNinja. He’s in college in N.C. where I’d lived for a short period and we’d BS’d about it on SS PM before he’d actually started college there. BPH has a pretty extensive journal about pretty much every week before and while he’s spent in college there. (Chicks, parties etc.) Last I heard since he’s in his first year of college he’s at 14 chicks slept with (from none previously)? GoodLookingLoser heard about BPH (I think) from seeing BPH’s journal and was impressed after visiting SS (possibly due to finding threads in Google I’d made titled off his own title about his own way of banging chicks off POF).***

BPH Journal from H.S. to College below:

//The Chronicles of BPH\\

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=182072


Here's your questions:

What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?

What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?

Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?

How did GoodLookingLoser find your “Chronicles of BPH” thread that you know of? Have you been in contact with Chris from GLL?

How many chicks have you slept with?

What was your worst and or best experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)

Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it?

Most chicks you’ve talked to/were seeing at one time?

How do you handle having no chicks?

Dress style for going out to meet chicks?

For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, introduced through family, work or whatever else..

Being you’re away in college how do you handle seeing chicks you previously slept with or tried to get with possibly getting with other dudes you may know or don’t?

How do you handle (if you’ve had that problem) other dudes at college getting jealous or trying to sabotage you when you are getting with a chick they were trying to or had been with previously?

Have you been able to get in Frat parties whom you don’t belong to? If so. How? Friends?

What are the quality of chicks in or around the college and what is your average looking chicks you’ve been able to get with and why do you think so? ( I remember the area BPH is in college and there were MANY insanely hot chicks in that area. Warmer weather at the nightspots, beach, and on Halloween was RETARDED.)

Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)

Do you ever see yourself getting married?

Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?

Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?

Favorite So Suave posters?

Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?

 

[BPH]

What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?

It all started one day, I think in high school, when I Googled “how to pick up girls”. It brought me to highschoolpuas.proboards, which was run by Grape if I’m not mistaken. It was a good place to understand the concept of improving yourself to improve with women, but the advice wasn’t always tailored to high school guys, and some of the higher-ups on that site weren’t all that successful with women (had a few that were friends on Facebook, dating some pretty ugly girls). So one day somebody replies on a question I ask recommending sosuave.net. I checked it out, and the rest is history.

What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?
There’s a lot of good advice I’ve received when it comes to women:
• Women WANT to be f***ed
• If a woman wants to f*** you she will find a way to make herself available
• Judge women (and people in general) by actions rather than words

Another friend that had never practiced pick-up but was naturally good with women gave me a good analogy for escalation. He told me that you never know how fast you can take a turn until you crash. This meant that I’ll never know how far I can escalate unless I’m stopped by her. This piece has helped me with quite a few lays or near-lays.

Aside from the regular white knight bullsh** the worst piece of advice I’ve received is that “***** is *****”. If men didn’t care about the appearance of the women they f***ed I don’t think there would be so many pick-up forums. Everyone wants to f*** Kate Upton while nobody wants to f*** Rosie O’Donnell.

Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?

I’ve posted a little bit on GoodLookingLoser, MPUAForum, and highschoolpuas. Most of the posts were to ask a question and get a different perspective, but I rarely posted then and I never post now. I barely have the time to update my own journal nowadays.

How did GoodLookingLoser find your “Chronicles of BPH” thread that you know of? Have you been in contact with Chris from GLL?

I think I asked Chris some questions when he came to this forum and asked him to look over my journal and tell me what he thinks. I find that he and others on GoodLookingLoser are good guys because they want to get laid a LOT while some people on here simply want a girlfriend or two. I’ve probably talked to him back and forth on his YouTube channel, on his site, and on here for probably somewhere between 6 months and a year now.

How many chicks have you slept with?

14, but I'm just getting started.

What was your worst and or best experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)

I’m sure there are better ones than this if I really took the time to think about it, but the one that comes to mind right now is my 18th birthday. I wanted birthday sex and there was this girl in my journal, absolutely gorgeous, that I had been talking to over Facebook and hung out with the day before. I’m very open with my family about this stuff and had them clear out the house for me when I had her over. She was f***ing great and that was fun to f*** a new chick on the day where I became an adult. She was my friend with benefits for a while before I went off to college, I miss that girl

Worst experience was either the weekend my ex and I broke up, or 2 weeks ago when a jealous girl I had been hooking up with came over and punched me in the balls because she thought I was hitting on other girls. One sucked emotionally and one sucked physically while also being one of the most disrespectful things anyone’s ever done to me.

Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it?

I’m sure I have but I can’t remember specifically. And whenever this was I don’t think I ever got out of it. That kind of thing happens rarely these days; I’m either too aggressive and the girl just plain doesn’t interact with me, or I’m aggressive enough to get in her pants. I actually friendzone quite a few chicks these days when I think they're good friends to have a good bridges to other girls.

Most chicks you’ve talked to/were seeing at one time?

4 or 5. I’m currently spinning 4 plates right now but I’m pretty sure it’s gotten to five earlier this year. Maybe more, I don’t know.

How do you handle having no chicks?

Well it sucks. When I have no girls that I’m currently gaming or f***ing I usually just go to places to meet them, like malls or parties, and just play the numbers game and see who bites. BoyToy on GoodLookingLoser describes this as treating sex like a business; advertising to the customers that are interested and having a big market of women to advertise to.

Dress style for going out to meet chicks?

Pretty simple. If it’s a party I’ll usually go with some well-fitted jeans and a shirt that’s just a little tight. If it’s a nice club or a more fancy party I have a nice black button-down that I usually go with. I don’t wear the nicest shoes because I’ve stepped in puke before and I’d rather not do that with my nicer shoes.

For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, introduced through family, work or whatever else..

My most successful way to meet girls has always been direct approaches during the day. I’ve had a lot of girls tell me they liked how I had the balls to come up to them when I’m not drunk and make them feel pretty. Even if I don’t number close or something then and there, I almost always find them at a party and have them come up to me all happy telling their friends that “this is the guy that came up to me and hit on me last week”.

Social circle game is good but I don’t always like it because the girls I really want aren’t always in my social circles. Probably one of the easier ways to get laid though, there was a girl last year who I f***ed at the beginning of my freshman year in our social circle that started with me and ended up f***ing 2 or 3 of my other friends.

Online game is the worst in my opinion. I’ve tried it a little and can only remember being successful once or twice, once was with the girl I had on my birthday, but that was partly because we had prior history since I saw her at fundraisers for my cousin’s baseball team. The really hot girls are getting bombarded by guys daily I’m sure, and I do much better in person anyway.

Being you’re away in college how do you handle seeing chicks you previously slept with or tried to get with possibly getting with other dudes you may know or don’t?

Girls I’ve slept with that I see get with somebody else doesn’t affect me at all. Sometimes this actually makes me happy because while I love regular sex, I hate clingy girls. If I see a girl I want hook up with another guy it kinda sucks because I know that if she likes somebody else there’s not a whole lot I can do about it.

How do you handle (if you’ve had that problem) other dudes at college getting jealous or trying to sabotage you when you are getting with a chick they were trying to or had been with previously?

You mean getting c***blocked? Doesn’t happen often. I’m kind of a big dude and so far nobody has tried to do anything really stupid around me. If a guy tries to AMOG me I usually handle him as if he were off in another land (as they are usually wasted) and send him on his way. Pretty sure the time I got hit in the balls was because other guys were jealous of this girl I was making out with at the party, and in an attempt to get with her, made it seem like I was talking to other girls so she should be free to talk to other guys, AKA them.

 

[BPH]

Character limit...

Have you been able to get in Frat parties whom you don’t belong to? If so. How? Friends?

All the time. This year most of the frat parties are closed to girls and brothers, which kinda sucks, but if I really want to go I usually have a way in. I often have friends in different frats that will tell me to “go to the party when it’s around 12ish and everybody’s drunk and doesn’t care”. Or I’ll bring a bunch of girl and they’ll make an exception. Sometimes it’s been because I can name a brother and they let me in, and finally, sometimes you just gotta pay a few bucks for your cup.

What are the quality of chicks in or around the college and what is your average looking chicks you’ve been able to get with and why do you think so? ( I remember the area BPH is in college and there were MANY insanely hot chicks in that area. Warmer weather at the nightspots, beach, and on Halloween was RETARDED.)

I like to think the quality of the women I sleep with is pretty high. I’ve never been one to lower my standards for the purpose of getting laid. If I f*** a chick it’s because I’d want to f*** her again and again and again. I’m more of a boob guy, my type are usually blondes with good boobs, a nice firm butt, with tan skin and a pretty face.

Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)

Yes, several times. I’m currently on no contact with 1 or 2 girls actually. I don’t always go no contact because a girl burned me though, sometimes I just do it because I’m lazy haha.

Do you ever see yourself getting married?

Maybe on my deathbed as I approach the final moments of my life.

Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?

Yeah I read it when I was newer here. I believe I read the whole thing actually, though these days I remember very little of it.

Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?

Yeah I met up with 2 of the guys in the high school forum. I visited Atlanta and hung out with LearningSlowly and another guy from the forum at one of the malls over there, though I can’t remember his name. I’m trying to visit AlexLefty sometime because he’s just been a great friend. Maybe NorwegianDJ when I go home for Thanksgiving.

Favorite So Suave posters?

AlexLefty, NorwegianDJ, bradd80 and HumbleNinja of course

Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?

I liked SoSuave when I was new to it but today I find that it’s hard to know which people to listen to. It’s easy to be a keyboard jockey and get a high rep by posting stuff that sounds good in the discussion forum. Whether or not they actually get laid a lot, or by good-looking women is an entirely different story (one of my friends from highschoolpuas had super high rep and gave advice that sounded good…but was dating a chick that was ugly as hell). Do I have a solution to this? No, I just wanted to address something that might be a problem when newer guys listen to whoever has the longest rep bar.

Aside from that, I think this post is pretty much wrapped up. Sorry it took so long for me to reply to it, had a girl over last night for a while and that turned into kind of a long thing

Peace SoSuave.

 

[JoeMarron]

I’m very open with my family about this stuff and had them clear out the house for me when I had her over.

Hah what? You're very open with your family about trying to fvck as many chicks as possible?

I liked SoSuave when I was new to it but today I find that it’s hard to know which people to listen to. It’s easy to be a keyboard jockey and get a high rep by posting stuff that sounds good in the discussion forum. Whether or not they actually get laid a lot, or by good-looking women is an entirely different story (one of my friends from highschoolpuas had super high rep and gave advice that sounded good…but was dating a chick that was ugly as hell). Do I have a solution to this? No, I just wanted to address something that might be a problem when newer guys listen to whoever has the longest rep bar.

I agree and disagree with this. Yes it's best to get advice from dudes with experience but the experienced ones aren't necessarily the only dudes who know what they're talking about. For example, from reading about and learning of the experiences of others we can all know that its not a good idea to judge a woman by her words, even if we've never talked to a woman in our lives. I'd say that the worse to best advice is in this order. The AFC, the dude who studied the DJ bible or learned from good mentors, the dude who's done all of that and has experience to back up his knowledge.

 

[BPH]

Hah what? You're very open with your family about trying to fvck as many chicks as possible?



I agree and disagree with this. Yes it's best to get advice from dudes with experience but the experienced ones aren't necessarily the only dudes who know what they're talking about. For example, from reading about and learning of the experiences of others we can all know that its not a good idea to judge a woman by her words, even if we've never talked to a woman in our lives. I'd say that the worse to best advice is in this order. The AFC, the dude who studied the DJ bible or learned from good mentors, the dude who's done all of that and has experience to back up his knowledge.

I'm open with my family about the fact that I'm sexually active. My stories don't surprise them.

As far as the advice goes, I just know guys that have NO IDEA what they're talking about post in the discussion forum for a little while, get a decent rep bar, come back to the high school forum, and preach like they suddenly know something because they got repped.

 

[HumbleNinja]

I'm open with my family about the fact that I'm sexually active. My stories don't surprise them.

As far as the advice goes, I just know guys that have NO IDEA what they're talking about post in the discussion forum for a little while, get a decent rep bar, come back to the high school forum, and preach like they suddenly know something because they got repped.

Yo B. If you want copy and paste the title of your interview, and use the question mark icon as well as copy and pasting the question/responses you gave into a thread on the HS forums for posters there to read. (Or maybe Bradd80 can move it over to the HS forum instead.)

You could do the same interview thing with NorwegianDJ AlexLefty etc. in your section.

Just copy the questions themselves, thread title with their username, and question mark icon for interviews there so other posters there can read their responses after they answer them. (It's good to break up reading the same old same old and find out a little bit about each poster with them answering the questions and maybe other questions dudes ask in each of their own threads.)

Good interview dude.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

I liked this. I cant see you during thanksgiving though, I messed up my tickets and didnt end up buying any. You could try hitting up Amo if you wanted

I'd also love to do a similar Q&A thing sometime.

 

[LearningSlowly]

Reset my password so I could comment on this. I like this thread a lot.

BPH the other guy we hung out with was OhBe. That night was complete with me having an epic fail on a prearranged hook up. Also I'll message you on FB later to get your advice on this one chick.

NDJ I'm going to try to come up after Christmas. I have a friend to stay with, it should work out.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Reset my password so I could comment on this. I like this thread a lot.

BPH the other guy we hung out with was OhBe. That night was complete with me having an epic fail on a prearranged hook up. Also I'll message you on FB later to get your advice on this one chick.

NDJ I'm going to try to come up after Christmas. I have a friend to stay with, it should work out.

YES!
Im back on the 13th!

 

[AlexLefty]

Yo B. If you want copy and paste the title of your interview, and use the question mark icon as well as copy and pasting the question/responses you gave into a thread on the HS forums for posters there to read. (Or maybe Bradd80 can move it over to the HS forum instead.)

You could do the same interview thing with NorwegianDJ AlexLefty etc. in your section.

Just copy the questions themselves, thread title with their username, and question mark icon for interviews there so other posters there can read their responses after they answer them. (It's good to break up reading the same old same old and find out a little bit about each poster with them answering the questions and maybe other questions dudes ask in each of their own threads.)

Good interview dude.

I really like this Interview series of threads; it's interesting and is actually something useful.

I'm not sure if this is what you were saying above, but after all the interviews are completed we should make a "Master" thread that links to all the interviews to create a consolidated list -- and for future reference.