Observation

[Nn877]

Something that I have been noticing. Before sosuave I would bite the bait. Girls sometimes while talking to you will try to increase their value indirectly.

Example: "I was at a bar last night and this guy tried to ask me to marry him." Or "Today at work, this guy was staring at me and said I was so beautiful." Some of the plates I've been spinning have said this. It's funny how girls try to convey their value to you this way. Any thoughts or experiences with this? I would even go on a limb and say they stretch the truth out or exaggerate. Just an observation.

 

[Don_Dom]

They all do this kind of thing at some point or another. Either they talk about all the guys who are chasing them and complement them, or they complain about creepers hitting on them, doing something "inappropriate" or the like.

My observation is that it's usually the ones lower on the attractiveness scale that are on about this the most. Which probably confirms your theory that they are pumping up their value. But one of the hotter ones I've dated in the last few years was always talking about somebody always telling her how hot she is.

It would seem most women are just straight up insecure on some level.

What's really funny is threads about this invariably pop up on the kink sites couple times a year...Bunch of women b1tching about inappropriate advances, touching, etc being made at kink events. Which is entirely legitimate...honoring limits is a huge deal in that world. But to hear most of these women, apparently, guys just can't seem to control themselves around them and can't help trying to fvck them every moment of every event. Then you look at their profiles and you wouldn't go near most of these beasts with someone else's d1ck much less fvck them with it.

What's that quote? Methinks the lady doth protest too much?

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

They all do this kind of thing at some point or another. Either they talk about all the guys who are chasing them and complement them, or they complain about creepers hitting on them, doing something "inappropriate" or the like.

My observation is that it's usually the ones lower on the attractiveness scale that are on about this the most. Which probably confirms your theory that they are pumping up their value. But one of the hotter ones I've dated in the last few years was always talking about somebody always telling her how hot she is.

It would seem most women are just straight up insecure on some level.

What's really funny is threads about this invariably pop up on the kink sites couple times a year...Bunch of women b1tching about inappropriate advances, touching, etc being made at kink events. Which is entirely legitimate...honoring limits is a huge deal in that world. But to hear most of these women, apparently, guys just can't seem to control themselves around them and can't help trying to fvck them every moment of every event. Then you look at their profiles and you wouldn't go near most of these women with someone else's d1ck much less fvck them with it.

What's that quote? Methinks the lady doth protest too much?

Yep.

When a girl says something like this to you

They're trying to show their value, impress you. Qualify themselves to you. It's also somewhat of a $hit test as well, to see how you react.

You: oh yeah. Anyways, *changes subject*

or

You: he probably likes you, *changes subject*

 

[Nn877]

Yeah is agree with both of you guys. My response is oh that's cool, and start talkin about somethin else. Basically unfazed by her remark. It's funny the lengths girls will go to or say to make them seem valuable in your eyes but I guess if the girl is doing this it's a good thing.