Victory Unlimited
Master Don Juan
Yo Troops!
I was just thinking about many of the Love Wars I’ve fought in during my most recent tours of duty in this MAN’s army. Lost some. Won some. I’ve always spent too much time debriefing myself over the details of my losses. Rarely have I spent the same amount of time analyzing the victories I’ve won when it comes to relationships with the opposite sex.
Hindsight, as they say is 20-20. What has occurred to me is that the women who didn’t want me acted in ways that I couldn’t ignore. You know, the usual: Cold, distant, unavailable, less affectionate, etc. For the burgeoning DJ, these signs become more and more easy to read. Thanks SO SUAVE!
By now, many of us soldiers of love know how to tell when a woman has NO serious interest in us. (See ATTENTION *****). But how many of us know when a woman has only a semi-serious/ passing interests in us as opposed to a serious interest?
For me, deciphering this code has become the primary objective in my fight in my war to find a worthy woman. What I’ve been doing for the past 4 months or so is change my methods of attack. Before coming to SO SUAVE, I used to charge into battle armed with the weapons of my sincerity and depth---which always eventually got me thrown into the Friend Zone Brig by the women that I wanted.
After SO SUAVE, I turn down the volume of my sincerity and depth and turned UP the volume of my C & F and my smoldering sexuality. Now what’s happening is , I’m getting women, but they’re more interested in me dropping SEX BOMBS on’em than they are in pursuing a deeper, more fulfilling relationship. At this point in my life, I’m feeling like I’d ultimately like an LTR more than the plethora of F-Buddies I’m now generating.
I Know that the key somehow is to find a balance between the SPIRTITUAL me and the SEXUAL me. But as I’m trying to do this, I’m discovering that the women tend to see men in one of two ways:
Mr. Right Now = the good time guy who they enjoy for fun, entertainment, and sex.
Or
Mr. Right = the good time guy who they enjoy for fun, entertainment, sex, AND long term commitment.
I, for one, am losing interest in women who only think of me as Mr. Right Now. There comes a time when you want to know HER INTENTIONS. And if you’re looking for something real, the sooner you know, the better. I’m familiar with the signs of general high interest, what I’m looking for are some examples of the signs of SERIOUS high interest---when a woman views you as a potential mate.
What are some of the signs a woman gives you EARLY ON (during the first 3 dates or so) that she is looking for a man of style AND lasting substance? I’ve done a search and checked the DJ Bible, and it mostly brought up the subject of interest level in general---but not SERIOUS interest.
I recently met a single, childless, intelligent, woman built like a brick sh!thouse who really has her sh!t together! (This has been a helluva find, compared to what I usually encounter.)
Here are some of the signs of possible SERIOUS interest that women display when they are looking for Mr. Right. And also, some examples of the signs this woman displayed when I took her out this past Saturday on a Romantic MANUEVER:
1. When woman practically orgasms every time she discovers you have things in common: Every time she found out we had something in common, she announced it out loud, as if jotting it down on her mental checklist----and probably hoping I’m doing the same.
2. When a woman takes a serious interest in your life: She was taking an active GENUINE interest in my life and entrepreneurial endeavors. (Not in a Gold Digger way, but with an excited curiosity. This particular chick already has BANK. She has her own customs brokeridge firm so she sure ain’t after me for my money. LOL. I had to stop HER from talking about MY plans.)
3. When a woman doesn’t want an already LONG date to end: She didn’t want the date to end so she suggested we go to the park (more intimate) rather than go shoot pool (less intimate) after dinner. She expressed a desire to not want the conversation to end. By the way, I sprinkled lots of kino and sexual innuendo in between the more meaningful subjects. She was very receptive and reciprocated the kino).
4. When a woman practically asks you out for a second date on your FIRST DATE. After a passionate kiss close. This woman expressed a desire to see me on next weekend. She said “I hope I can see you again next weekend, if you’re free…”(And not in a desperate, needy, stalker kind of a way,….but very happily, calmly, and decisively.)
These are just a few of the ways I believe women show they MIGHT be looking for Mr. Right instead of Mr. Right Now.
What do you guys think of this concept? And if you believe there’s a difference between general interest and serious interest, what are the signs that you look for right from the start?
I was just thinking about many of the Love Wars I’ve fought in during my most recent tours of duty in this MAN’s army. Lost some. Won some. I’ve always spent too much time debriefing myself over the details of my losses. Rarely have I spent the same amount of time analyzing the victories I’ve won when it comes to relationships with the opposite sex.
Hindsight, as they say is 20-20. What has occurred to me is that the women who didn’t want me acted in ways that I couldn’t ignore. You know, the usual: Cold, distant, unavailable, less affectionate, etc. For the burgeoning DJ, these signs become more and more easy to read. Thanks SO SUAVE!
By now, many of us soldiers of love know how to tell when a woman has NO serious interest in us. (See ATTENTION *****). But how many of us know when a woman has only a semi-serious/ passing interests in us as opposed to a serious interest?
For me, deciphering this code has become the primary objective in my fight in my war to find a worthy woman. What I’ve been doing for the past 4 months or so is change my methods of attack. Before coming to SO SUAVE, I used to charge into battle armed with the weapons of my sincerity and depth---which always eventually got me thrown into the Friend Zone Brig by the women that I wanted.
After SO SUAVE, I turn down the volume of my sincerity and depth and turned UP the volume of my C & F and my smoldering sexuality. Now what’s happening is , I’m getting women, but they’re more interested in me dropping SEX BOMBS on’em than they are in pursuing a deeper, more fulfilling relationship. At this point in my life, I’m feeling like I’d ultimately like an LTR more than the plethora of F-Buddies I’m now generating.
I Know that the key somehow is to find a balance between the SPIRTITUAL me and the SEXUAL me. But as I’m trying to do this, I’m discovering that the women tend to see men in one of two ways:
Mr. Right Now = the good time guy who they enjoy for fun, entertainment, and sex.
Or
Mr. Right = the good time guy who they enjoy for fun, entertainment, sex, AND long term commitment.
I, for one, am losing interest in women who only think of me as Mr. Right Now. There comes a time when you want to know HER INTENTIONS. And if you’re looking for something real, the sooner you know, the better. I’m familiar with the signs of general high interest, what I’m looking for are some examples of the signs of SERIOUS high interest---when a woman views you as a potential mate.
What are some of the signs a woman gives you EARLY ON (during the first 3 dates or so) that she is looking for a man of style AND lasting substance? I’ve done a search and checked the DJ Bible, and it mostly brought up the subject of interest level in general---but not SERIOUS interest.
I recently met a single, childless, intelligent, woman built like a brick sh!thouse who really has her sh!t together! (This has been a helluva find, compared to what I usually encounter.)
Here are some of the signs of possible SERIOUS interest that women display when they are looking for Mr. Right. And also, some examples of the signs this woman displayed when I took her out this past Saturday on a Romantic MANUEVER:
1. When woman practically orgasms every time she discovers you have things in common: Every time she found out we had something in common, she announced it out loud, as if jotting it down on her mental checklist----and probably hoping I’m doing the same.
2. When a woman takes a serious interest in your life: She was taking an active GENUINE interest in my life and entrepreneurial endeavors. (Not in a Gold Digger way, but with an excited curiosity. This particular chick already has BANK. She has her own customs brokeridge firm so she sure ain’t after me for my money. LOL. I had to stop HER from talking about MY plans.)
3. When a woman doesn’t want an already LONG date to end: She didn’t want the date to end so she suggested we go to the park (more intimate) rather than go shoot pool (less intimate) after dinner. She expressed a desire to not want the conversation to end. By the way, I sprinkled lots of kino and sexual innuendo in between the more meaningful subjects. She was very receptive and reciprocated the kino).
4. When a woman practically asks you out for a second date on your FIRST DATE. After a passionate kiss close. This woman expressed a desire to see me on next weekend. She said “I hope I can see you again next weekend, if you’re free…”(And not in a desperate, needy, stalker kind of a way,….but very happily, calmly, and decisively.)
These are just a few of the ways I believe women show they MIGHT be looking for Mr. Right instead of Mr. Right Now.
What do you guys think of this concept? And if you believe there’s a difference between general interest and serious interest, what are the signs that you look for right from the start?