She keeps telling me to move on with my life, forget and I could talk to him, bring it up with him about his years of harrasment, bullying, threatening behaviour which I said I reported him to the police etc
Which I publically stated his police investigations
She is best friends with his fam members she told me she has said nothing and they have said nothing
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My one year younger than me at 32 who has emotionally abused me for a long long time
Between 2005-2012 she didn't wish to talk to me and spoke to me angry
She also at spoke to me angry at times after that after I asked her a question like an angry dog
So many times she put me down
Twists and Distorts things
Very manipulative
I asked her for camera shots from a WhatsApp group and I was entitled like others but she kept saying why
She said 'whatever' she says I'm going USA to cause trouble which is ridiculous
She tells anyone any info about me
She is untrustworthy
She has for a long long time put me down
She won't respect my wishes
She bossed me and my father about Saturdays saying put this away and this, that
At an important time She will keep quiet when I badly need her support even if I provided proof to her she will keep quiet
I can't defend myself to her because she will twist things, its like arguing with Hitler
She has everything in her marketing degree, marketing career albeit still junior level I think after 10 years, social life, holidays, car, family life she had everything Her friends 1-2 may resent me
She doesn't wish to listen which is her lack of respect
She most likely tells anything and says nothing if another person has happened
She will manipulate things and I sense she is controlling
I've been bullied and emotionally abused and she lacks sympathy
She is very untrustworthy and says nothing to me and says anything what others want to know passing free info
She obviously lacks respect.
Its emotional abuse too
It does hurt, her lack of respect, she probably doesn't tell the truth to others and they'll say things, its all most likely down to her lack of respect, shes very untrustworthy too
She should just stop giving info freely and respect her own family
And she doesn't ever recipricate any info to me
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I've had problems with my father who is saves £310 as a pensioner, which is far far superior to a lot of pensioners in the UK, has savings accounts, mortgage paid off, has his son to pay half the bills of or nearly three years he just complained and argued
I do the chores, chase this that, do this that, take him places, research etc and I've done too much for him in the past
He doesn't listen to me, he didn't let me move jobs, he let my sister stay in hotels at 20, however at 33 he doesn't let me stay at hotels, he doesn't give me support, he doesn't tell others anything about me. Didn't let me hold a party. He doesn't say anything
He let the cousin go and he says what if the cousin pushes me
Why's he pleasing people? Is this cousin and his family who could do me in giving him money, paying for his bills, giving food, helping him? No?
He's telling me now just for dry hands to go to accident and emergency just for that for him, my hands are even worser.
I took today off to sort out many things, new car, get things however he tells me to come to accident and emergency in the freezing snow all the way there just for dry hands? He's telling me he needs to do something
Is he going to phone the clinic at 8 or 111? Why can't he phone them? I told him yesterday
He's throwing away my life, as he seen actual pensioners crying on much less then him? With no support?
He says get a women to cook for him
He isn't seeking balance, his mindset must I sacrifice for his life, my sister isn't helping at all
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I believe its lack of respect from both my sister and father and the way my sister conducted herself even after the cousin scenario at the top not telling him nothing, she herself not reciprocate anything and telling me to talk to him despite no apology from them and she says 'omg you still on about this'.
I believe she's played it down when it series and they'll look to take control
What's your take on my sister and the cousin scenario
Which I publically stated his police investigations
She is best friends with his fam members she told me she has said nothing and they have said nothing
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My one year younger than me at 32 who has emotionally abused me for a long long time
Between 2005-2012 she didn't wish to talk to me and spoke to me angry
She also at spoke to me angry at times after that after I asked her a question like an angry dog
So many times she put me down
Twists and Distorts things
Very manipulative
I asked her for camera shots from a WhatsApp group and I was entitled like others but she kept saying why
She said 'whatever' she says I'm going USA to cause trouble which is ridiculous
She tells anyone any info about me
She is untrustworthy
She has for a long long time put me down
She won't respect my wishes
She bossed me and my father about Saturdays saying put this away and this, that
At an important time She will keep quiet when I badly need her support even if I provided proof to her she will keep quiet
I can't defend myself to her because she will twist things, its like arguing with Hitler
She has everything in her marketing degree, marketing career albeit still junior level I think after 10 years, social life, holidays, car, family life she had everything Her friends 1-2 may resent me
She doesn't wish to listen which is her lack of respect
She most likely tells anything and says nothing if another person has happened
She will manipulate things and I sense she is controlling
I've been bullied and emotionally abused and she lacks sympathy
She is very untrustworthy and says nothing to me and says anything what others want to know passing free info
She obviously lacks respect.
Its emotional abuse too
It does hurt, her lack of respect, she probably doesn't tell the truth to others and they'll say things, its all most likely down to her lack of respect, shes very untrustworthy too
She should just stop giving info freely and respect her own family
And she doesn't ever recipricate any info to me
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I've had problems with my father who is saves £310 as a pensioner, which is far far superior to a lot of pensioners in the UK, has savings accounts, mortgage paid off, has his son to pay half the bills of or nearly three years he just complained and argued
I do the chores, chase this that, do this that, take him places, research etc and I've done too much for him in the past
He doesn't listen to me, he didn't let me move jobs, he let my sister stay in hotels at 20, however at 33 he doesn't let me stay at hotels, he doesn't give me support, he doesn't tell others anything about me. Didn't let me hold a party. He doesn't say anything
He let the cousin go and he says what if the cousin pushes me
Why's he pleasing people? Is this cousin and his family who could do me in giving him money, paying for his bills, giving food, helping him? No?
He's telling me now just for dry hands to go to accident and emergency just for that for him, my hands are even worser.
I took today off to sort out many things, new car, get things however he tells me to come to accident and emergency in the freezing snow all the way there just for dry hands? He's telling me he needs to do something
Is he going to phone the clinic at 8 or 111? Why can't he phone them? I told him yesterday
He's throwing away my life, as he seen actual pensioners crying on much less then him? With no support?
He says get a women to cook for him
He isn't seeking balance, his mindset must I sacrifice for his life, my sister isn't helping at all
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I believe its lack of respect from both my sister and father and the way my sister conducted herself even after the cousin scenario at the top not telling him nothing, she herself not reciprocate anything and telling me to talk to him despite no apology from them and she says 'omg you still on about this'.
I believe she's played it down when it series and they'll look to take control
What's your take on my sister and the cousin scenario
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