not having a car in high school sucks!

[Boricua_33015]

I hate not having a car! Girls in high school go for guys with cars and a job. Im too young for neither. I am still 16 years old. I can have a car but I dont have a license, not even a restricted. Getting a job at 16 is very hard unless you have a hookup.

One question, if I dont have a car, how am I supposed to take women out? My freinds have cars but I dont dammit and it pisses me off. THey are all also at least a year older than me.

 

[Nocturnal]

don't say not having something sucks until you've had it. you can't change it, do your best.

 

[Brandon]

No no no.

Please get these thoughts out of head immediately. I recognize everything your saying because I said the same things intially in high school, and as a result I never tried to pick up girls. I would rather hide behind the excuse that all scared younger men do tend to hide behind (and believe me, most do) and say it's because of the fact I don't have a car. Don't let the lack of a car become a crutch to you. Don't say things like girls will only date guys with cars. That is not true, not in the least. Sure, there's a couple of them out there, but if they are that shallow, do you really want them? Hell no. Use this instead as a building opportunity. Get a job. Get a license. Try to save up for a car. You will feel better about yourself. Not to mention, it WILL impress girls that you have the drive and intiative to work for something. If you have to, get girls to meet you at places, get a ride to their house, theirs ways around not having a car. And if all else fails, mack on a cutie that has a car and bum rides off of her.

 

[Oxide]

VERY NICE REPLY!

SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME. NO excuses man. enjoy your HS life

im 18 and now im almost done with school and i never drove untill this year. GOD i wish i could have had those days back!!!!!
i made same excuse. trust me, if she likes u she will come up with something.

 

[Lt dan]

"don't say not having something sucks until you've had it. you can't change it, do your best."
not having a car or in my case a truck, sucks.
haha i had one....for about two days.
it does suck, but for me its an independence thing. my mommy drives me everywhere. mostly, other times i get my girlfriend to get me there. in scenario two she gets somebody else to get me since she doesnt drive. but guys have a tendency to give into her commands (except me) so my advice is date a hot chick. with a car if you can, but if you cant get her to do the work.

 

[ilyadaimpaler]

Umm Im sixteen and I have both a car and a good job, don't blame your problems on being too young.

And no I didnt get the car because I'm a spoiled rich brat, I worked my ass off for it.

And you know what I didnt have a hook up or any work experience and I still ended up with an $8/hr job

And I still have girl problems but I never expected a car or a job to change that.

 

[Smooth as Anything]

The only excuse you have not to "mack" a girl is if she:

Has a boyfriend.
Is a lesbian.

...anything else is bs.

 

[Mikelo2k]

...anything else is bs.

Hmm i wouldnt say so... also IMO another excuse not to mack on a girl is if:
- She has sexually transmitted diseases

 

[Oxide]

nice way to put it smooth.
and she rejects you, just mack her anyway!

 

[Duff]

That doesnt suck, what really sucks is something like having six toes

 

[Smooth as Anything]

Originally posted by Oxide
nice way to put it smooth.
and she rejects you, just mack her anyway!

I've done that...

It actually gets you social proof with your friends if they see you doing it, aslong as you laugh your ass off about it later and keep a smile on your face.

"...**** off" - girl
"Hey, I don't think I'm getting the clue here, so what's your #?"

I used to do that. I'm really glad I did. I'm seriously numb to girls now, and don't give second thought to anything. I used to, and at first doing that kind of thing was hard for me -- because i cared about what the girl thinks.

Now it's just like, haha whatever lets have a good time no matter what we do.

Typically if your just macking a girl (assuming you don't know her) you won't know if she has STDs. Rumors go around about girls having them, but are they ever really upfront about it?

You shouldn't go past kissing without asking if she has STDs anyway... Good rule of thumb in my opinion.

 

[Abbott]

Proof that car and job doesn't matter that much.

Hey Mac, quit whining. No one wants to hear you whine. I only indulge your post with a response because I think what I'm going to say will help you.

I have a recent model vehicle ('99 Ford Ranger*) and I've been working since age fourteen.

And yes, my mother bought my truck for me and I didn't have to pay for it, so money isn't really a problem (I'm not rich either but I'm not broke).

But guess what Mac......the fact that I have a nicer vehicle than most of the students (at my school anyway) and that it was actually my sixteenth birthday present. And the fact that I've been working since age fourteen.....how much did that help me with women? Doesn't help me jack-squat! If anything the women who did notice me generally had no idea what kind of car I drive, or what job I hold. They noticed my actions and personality, which you can fix with little or no cash or financial means at all.

So in short: Don't worry about your transportation needs, and it's possible to have fun with limited cash.

Hope that helps.

On a side note:

Originally posted by Smooth As Anything:
(paraphrased)
The only reasons not to hit on a girl is

Has a boyfriend......

Why not? It really depends on what kind of relationship you want. Some people just want ƒuck-buddy relationships. It all depends on what each person wants.

Ben

P.S. Girls who would be with a guy just because of his car?? Give me a break! Who are they? Gold-digging or image-conscious 13 year olds? C'mon a car isn't a big deal, and after age 17-18 cars are commonplace anyway.

*-1999 Ford Ranger Extended Cab 4x2 XLT 4-cyl 5-speed

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

dude, i'm ****ing 16 years old...and currently don't have a car, but will this june, SUMMERTIME PIMPIN'!! but dude i felt just like you at the beginning of my school year, but then i realized who gives a ****......and i'm still DJing girls here and there.....they even give me rides to lunch(to have lunch) and its cool and ****........cuz i know how to handle the ladies, better than most fellas in my grade, they are so insecure...but i must say..finding this Don Juan website has been like a treasure in the sea and everyone in this discussion board including me, have had the advantage of upping or macking powers far more than if we haven't have found this site.......anyways back to the subject, don't worry about the cars and the jobs, a true girl doesn't look for that **** in a guy unless she's one stuck up and conceited ****, but who wants a ***** like that....

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

why the **** did i put 16....oops my bad..i'm 17

 

[Smooth as Anything]

Originally posted by Ded_Skin_Mask13
why the **** did i put 16....oops my bad..i'm 17

There's an edit button for that dude

 

[;) ;)]

I'm in high school.

I have a 3000GT.



I've been flashed by girls at least 3 times while driving.

 

[upcomingDJ]

i think the problem isn't the car itself specifically but what it could do for a DJ... as a DJ, you have to show them a good time (using the car as a transportation) and some more alone time... i'm not saying the only way you can get girls is to have a car cuz i can pick up girls like it's nothing without a girl but the hard part is keeping them interested cuz they WILL get bored of you (taking the bus and all that sh*t or whatever.. the point is it's just harder..


i have the same problem but it wont be anymore when in 3
weeks (when i get my license, got a car already)... transportation is all part of the game or else it will be 100x harder to get the girl(s) alone

 

[MicCheck1-2]

I'm sorry to tell you, but that's just a tough break. You can live your life without girls.