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moneyisking

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I am sophomore in college and unfortunately do not own a ride. Briefly, my bro who goes to UT wrecked a car in highschool, but parents decide to buy him a car any ways at sophomore year. I am here now trying to catch ride from friends and somehow got over being pissed off at the fact of this unfairness.

But hey, I am a man of my own and an alpha male who is positive and does not take blames but fix problems. So I don't blame on my parents although the situation is kind of unfair and bull sh!t. I take this matter into my own hand.

I got a job and am going to work and get about $500 a month I think. I will buy a motorcycle. If my pops ask me what the fvck is wrong with me, I could just say they didn't help me out when I needed a car bad, so had to take a cheaper motorcycle with my own money.

Anyways, one of the reasons my game is not doing very well is b/c I do not own a car. It will be so much easier to ask her out, I mean... all you need to do is "hey let's hang out sometime", get her number, and call her 2-3 days later. But I don't have a car, so I can't really ask her out. So gentlemen, I have decided to collect a sum of money and buy a motorcycle to get rid of an obstacle that is stunning my game growth. If you would like to help financially, send me a check lol. Good day
 

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Props to you, but just one thing. Motorcycles are no joke, even a small 250 will turn you into an organ donor quickly. Don't skimp out on training and don't do things on your bike you don't feel comfortable doing. Always wear a helmet and leathers.
 

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moneyisking said:
I am sophomore in college and unfortunately do not own a ride. Briefly, my bro who goes to UT wrecked a car in highschool, but parents decide to buy him a car any ways at sophomore year. I am here now trying to catch ride from friends and somehow got over being pissed off at the fact of this unfairness.

But hey, I am a man of my own and an alpha male who is positive and does not take blames but fix problems. So I don't blame on my parents although the situation is kind of unfair and bull sh!t. I take this matter into my own hand.

I got a job and am going to work and get about $500 a month I think. I will buy a motorcycle. If my pops ask me what the fvck is wrong with me, I could just say they didn't help me out when I needed a car bad, so had to take a cheaper motorcycle with my own money.

Anyways, one of the reasons my game is not doing very well is b/c I do not own a car. It will be so much easier to ask her out, I mean... all you need to do is "hey let's hang out sometime", get her number, and call her 2-3 days later. But I don't have a car, so I can't really ask her out. So gentlemen, I have decided to collect a sum of money and buy a motorcycle to get rid of an obstacle that is stunning my game growth. If you would like to help financially, send me a check lol. Good day
Just because you say it doesn't mean it's true. This whole post is nothing but a whiney beta post. Having a car doesn't ruin your game it just changes it. I ran some of my best game when i didn't use wheels. They can come to your place.

Trying to guilt your parents into buying you a car by using a motorcycle as the alternative?? Yeah, that's real alpha there...

I'd suggest your game is suffering because you lack inner game. I think giving up on chicks and working on yourself short term might be a good idea.
 

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i use to think the same way as u. a car means nothin. im 27 and have always owned 2 cars at a time and now im down to no vehicle due to the fact that im tryin my hardest to be a law abiding citizen. when i lost my vehicles and all my other material possesions i thought that i wouldnt be able to get no chick until i got back all those things.

thats cuz my self worth was wrapped up in material sh!t. i kept sayin that as soon as i get a car again im bout to be gettin on all the chicks but as a 14 credit hour college student with no time for a full time job i wont be getting a car soon so it was either say fVck it or become a monk. what ive discovered is that chicks dont care and besides i try to only holler at chicks wit cars anyway. but due to the fact that i do have my own place that makes up for me not havin a vehicle.

now i got a friend who is 31 still living at home wit mom and dad and just recently bought a car but was always having to borrow the family van and he get more pvssy than (tryin 2 think of somethin witty) whatever, he gets alot of it and i dont know how his bum ass do it. the point is he doesnt let his material circumstances affect his game and neither should u
 

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face it. not saying that chump becomes a player when he gets a car, but it does make it easier to ask a girl out. i mean.. .think?
 

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A car don't make the player, the player make the car.

When the player spits game he gets so far.

If you define yourself with a car, you're more likely to catch gold-diggers. Make sure the women are interested in you for who you are and not what you have.
 

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OMG haha, I am not saying that getting a car is going to bring a success or connecting my success with women to cars alright? It's just an obstacle and if I take care of it, it will make my life easier not change everything around. I am not saying getting a car=success. You guys might not know the difficulty, but not being able to have a car for 20yrs and me having to get a transportation by myself is pretty rare case. Having a car will not boost me up to Master DJ level, but it opens new opportunities and it will be Easier to ask a girl out. Understand?
 

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moneyisking said:
OMG haha, I am not saying that getting a car is going to bring a success or connecting my success with women to cars alright? It's just an obstacle and if I take care of it, it will make my life easier not change everything around. I am not saying getting a car=success. You guys might not know the difficulty, but not being able to have a car for 20yrs and me having to get a transportation by myself is pretty rare case. Having a car will not boost me up to Master DJ level, but it opens new opportunities and it will be Easier to ask a girl out. Understand?
no because you're ignoring what everyone in this thread is telling you, everyone has their excuses, not having a car is yours and you'd rather ***** and moan about it then do anything about it or get over it.
 

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DJDanny said:
no because you're ignoring what everyone in this thread is telling you, everyone has their excuses, not having a car is yours and you'd rather ***** and moan about it then do anything about it or get over it.
at least my parents didn't spoil me with your first mercedes b!tch. what hardships did you go through? your spoiled white azz can't do anything but type negative stuff in your room on the keyboard. You are a true keyboard jokey. At least I go out and get girls numbers, and occassionally crash and burn. You probably masturbate in your room while writing sh1t about people who do their best to excel, you're just a negative buzzkillton negative fvck. I am not the one to get over anything but my own obstacles. You need to man up and learn how to respond not like a little sissy chump pvssy
 

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I am a sophomore in college and am also without a car. I take the bus b/c it is included in my tuition so I can ride as much as I need - maybe you can take the bus. Most people don't have a car (parking is a b!tch & crazy expensive, and car parts get stolen) and use the university buses to get around anyways. Not having a car does make it difficult to go out on the "tradition date" aka I'll pick you up and take you to dinner, no doubt. This is where you need to get creative and find ways around it. It really depends if you have places within walking distance of your university I guess. Use whatever type of resources you have.
 

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K.Pez said:
I am a sophomore in college and am also without a car. I take the bus b/c it is included in my tuition so I can ride as much as I need - maybe you can take the bus. Most people don't have a car (parking is a b!tch & crazy expensive, and car parts get stolen) and use the university buses to get around anyways. Not having a car does make it difficult to go out on the "tradition date" aka I'll pick you up and take you to dinner, no doubt. This is where you need to get creative and find ways around it. It really depends if you have places within walking distance of your university I guess. Use whatever type of resources you have.
haha well of course, I am not gona take her to the traditional routine date, I learned a lot better than that thanks to the forum. Anyways man, there are always somethings to overcome, and I am gona get it
 

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moneyisking said:
at least my parents didn't spoil me with your first mercedes b!tch. what hardships did you go through? your spoiled white azz can't do anything but type negative stuff in your room on the keyboard.
who's the negative ***** here really? the one complaining about everything or the one whose telling him it's his game that's lacking. Up til 3 years ago I drove a 86 nissan dude, that's a far cry from a mercedes, didn't even pay $1,000 for the POS and i drove it into the ground.

Spoiled... right... I worked my ass of to start my own company and invest in RE. The only thing my parents have ever done for me financially was cosign a loan. boohoo life didn't shove a silver spoon down your throat, perhaps one day you'll quit *****ing about your situation and do something to change it, until then feel free to keep playing the martyr card.
 

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Man dont blame your parents for not buying you a car. They dont need to buy you a car, you buy your own car. People these days are so ungreatful !

I bought my own car when i was 19 , worked full time and went to college full time. I paid it off in 2 years ...it was honda accord coupe 2002 with 37000 miles for $11 000 ..

My point is dont blame your parents for not having a car, blame yourself. Let me guess thay pay for your school too ?

They fed you for 18 years, they bought you clothes for 18 years...wasn't that enough?
 

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A car is a factor to your game, I don't know why people are saying it isn't. It's actually a fairly large factor.

But don't blame your parents for not having a car, my parents told me to get my own **** and I will.

Even if they bought my brothers their car, I don't give a **** I'll show them I can get my own ****.
 

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I respect ppl who take matters to their own hands, not getting hand outs from parents or others. Ya, these days, people take too much from parents for granted. Anyways, Taurus 93 was real comedy bro.
 

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LoL funny thread. I was thinking the same thing for a little while, but deep down I knew my game was what I was lacking. And from your posts, it's what you are lacking.

I'm a senior in college, and I drive a 93' Dodge Caravan, with paint scratched off the hood and a missing grill. This van is a real piece of sh** in my eyes. I hate driving it, so I rarely ever do.

Keep in mind, the type of University I go to is real superficial. especially with clothes and cars. Most students have cars and they are nice or decent looking cars at that. So my car stands out like a sore thumb. So imagine how I feel. But it doesn't blow my chances with females. I'm usually the reason I blow my chances with the ladies. I can only think of one time that beat up car made a female "reject" me. And if a chick won't mess with you because you don't drive, she can go to hell. Why would you even want to deal with a chick like that?

But you know what? I know dudes who don't have cars and they still get plenty of women. Hell, your in college. No 18-21 year old girl is going to expect you to pull up in a BMW. To be honest, I know guys with no cars and they pulls chicks, and use the chick's car, or make her drive them around. And I think that's the most pimp sh** ever. I have a special admiration for guys who can do that.

You just need to admit that you lack confidence and game. And you need to find a solution to that problem.

As far as going out on dates or whatever, make them b**tches drive... LoL
Or do something on campus. You shouldn't be trying to take these college chicks out on dates, you should be trying to get them back in that dorm room.

But I do have to admit that driving a nice car gives you confidence. Last weekend my step mom came to town and asked me to drop her off somewhere and take her car for the night. She has a 2007 Volvo S40. So I took the car downtown to go joyriding and "Parking lot pimpin". My confidence was through the roof and I was just in a good mood. I ended up getting quite a few numbers.

It was just a sense of false confidence though. Deep down I knew it was. I know if I can somehow duplicate that confidence within myself without having all the flare I will be a better man.

:up:
 

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moneyisking said:
I respect ppl who take matters to their own hands, not getting hand outs from parents or others. Ya, these days, people take too much from parents for granted. Anyways, Taurus 93 was real comedy bro.
I was making a point too. Just get any cheap car to get you from point a to point b.
 
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