Not getting tinder matches

ink_wizard

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I'm blown away....I'm not an ugly guy, every time I go out I always get told by women how handsome I am and even men make comments that I'm good looking guy. It's the same on social networks, always have girls liking and commenting on my photos and they are the same photos I'm using on tinder. They are just selfies as well.

I don't understand what I'm doing wrong? I'm lucky if I get a match a day considering I like heaps of girls photos on there....are any other guys experiencing the same problem?? I've been on it for 2 weeks and have only got 3 numbers who which have flaked but one counter offered.....

Any advice guys ?
 

PeasantPlayer

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Same thing with me, I guess I am not photogenic because I have decent looking girls come up to me from time to time. Or they will send there friend over, maybe your not photogenic, but remember its not all about looks. It was funny because today I seen a dude who I met through a girl I know....they met off POF....the girl who met him who I know said he was ugly and what not and not her type. See this guy today with a really cute girl at a festival, hotter then the girl I knew....lol
 

Rainman4707

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You're not doing anything wrong. Just continue & your will see an increase :)

I was getting 4 out of 5 matches that I clicked green for the first week, then I was getting like one out of 20. Strange. Just keep going.
 

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Apps like tinder that require you to press 1 button should be liked till there is no one left. What I found out is that its really a waste of time to look through a girls profile to decide whether or not she's your preference or attractive. So you're better off just mashing the like/love/hot button instead of being picky. Once you get a couple matches, you can just rummage through them and judge their profiles then. You can delete the ugo's and keep the hot ones. It shouldn't take long to get to "no ones left" just by mashing it.
 
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Same thing happened to me . I used better pictures , let your pics do the talking. The most important is the first 1(remember everybody swipes left or right based on first pic)
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

Meisterman

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I have 200+ matches on tinder in my first month but I literally swipe right on everyone, or at least 95% without looking. Why? It's a lot easier to sort out who's worth talking to after you've already been matched and you can deal with it then. So I got a ton of fat girls I'm matched to and I don't un match them but I also don't message them first. You should be swiping right on every photo as fast as you can within a 100 mile radius until it says "searching for more people nearby". Yes it's a shallow technique, but tinder in itself is extremely shallow so I really have no guilty doing this and I'm pretty sure most other guys do the same thing.

Also, things I've noticed that help a lot: Having a photo with an animal in it (pet, dog, cat, etc.) and possibly one shirtless pic if you have good aesthetics (but not your default). Also be sure to add something in your profile to give girls something to go of off. You want to in some small way be rememberable. If you put literally nothing in your profile you won't be rememberable and girls will be less likely to swipe right because they have so many other options why would they bother trying to get with a dude who leaves his profile blank? Just a thought...
 
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