Not Getting the Number Online

[Juan_Man]

If a girl says that she doesn't give out her number online, does that mean rejection? A part of me says yes, but another part is hoping that there could be another explanation. What do you think?

 

[DJDamage]

Originally posted by Juan_Man
If a girl says that she doesn't give out her number online, does that mean rejection? A part of me says yes, but another part is hoping that there could be another explanation. What do you think?

Ask her to meet you in person and give you her number then. If she refuses and finds another excuse then she is just wasting your time.

NEXT!!!!

 

[Juan_Man]

I tried it. We'll see what happens.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I still don't understand why guys are so enamored with just getting a telephone number. It's just another step that can be easily omitted and still get to the objective; a fvcking meeting!

Think about it, a woman will give you her telephone number just to get rid of you; face it, it happens. Her IL has little to do with whether she gives you her number.

Now if she agrees to meet you somewhere, that is a definite indicator of a relatively high interest level. Yeah, she could just want a free meal but you have control over where you go and what you do. If she insists on dinner, guess what type of girl she is. It's all about qualifying...

 

[KarmaSutra]

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
It's all about qualifying...

A-FVCKIN'-MEN! The end result is what's important.

 

[Juan_Man]

She just told me she had plans for the whole weekend. Oh well. NEXT!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Juan_Man
She just told me she had plans for the whole weekend. Oh well. NEXT!

Umm, there's five other days in the week. Now, she's busy, no big deal. Did she give you a counter offer? Women who are interested may not always be readily available but they will offer a time that they are if they want to see you.

This isn't to say that you don't make an offer, but do it the DJ way. Don't just ask if she's free, tell her specifically what you'd like to do and when. She'll either counter with a day that she's available or make an excuse as to why she can't. Either way, you now know what you should do.

 

[Juan_Man]

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Umm, there's five other days in the week. Now, she's busy, no big deal. Did she give you a counter offer? Women who are interested may not always be readily available but they will offer a time that they are if they want to see you.

This isn't to say that you don't make an offer, but do it the DJ way. Don't just ask if she's free, tell her specifically what you'd like to do and when. She'll either counter with a day that she's available or make an excuse as to why she can't. Either way, you now know what you should do.

This girl didn't even counter-offer. To be honest, I'm just looking to get some. This girl is far from a dreamy hot chick, but she a cute girl on the big side but was do-able. I don't want to make myself look any more desperate than I may have already done so. I just told her to have fun. Thanks for the advice though. Much appreciated.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Juan_Man
This girl didn't even counter-offer. To be honest, I'm just looking to get some. This girl is far from a dreamy hot chick, but she a cute girl on the big side but was do-able. I don't want to make myself look any more desperate than I may have already done so. I just told her to have fun. Thanks for the advice though. Much appreciated.

Then set your sights on another target; you should usually have a few in the pipeline. Don't dwell on the past, it'll hold you back. Just learn something from the experience, make your adjustments, and then move on.

ACT WITH PURPOSE