No Virgin Girls

[GirlsAreTrix]

I know we are living in the 21st century, but I still hate the fact all 99.9999% of girls give up their virginity before they are married or in their teens. I've gone out with plenty of girls, and all of them always lie at first, saying they are a virgin or they've only had sex with 1 person, then the cat comes out of the bag and they admit to doing 5 or more guys, some of them ONS.
Now I see why most guys I know want to wait until they're 30 to get married. Who wants to get married when you know you're wife's body has been explored and penetrated by a handful of *******s before u? I probably am only one to think like this but I just wish girls were more conservative in giving up their body.

 

[Paul Owen]

I second that.

 

[es_mer8]

saying they are a virgin or they've only had sex with 1 person, then the cat comes out of the bag and they admit to doing 5 or more guys, some of them ONS

They don't like to be viewed as sluts. A lot of girls do give it up in their teens or early 20s but there are millions of girls out there, some of them attractive, that will not give it up until marriage. They are out there and they're probably in church groups, not at clubs. They are probably more impressed with a man's personality than other superficial features, etc. I know of three 9s that are very religious and has absolutely refused to give it up until marriage. They admit that they want to have sex but they just won't do it until they are married.

 

[GirlsAreTrix]

I have found even the ones in church groups are hypocrites and are sometimes the biggest freaks, they just like to appear like they're angels.

 

[MDgood]

Originally posted by GirlsAreTrix
I have found even the ones in church groups are hypocrites and are sometimes the biggest freaks, they just like to appear like they're angels.

Yes and no. I've found in my church that both exist.

On one hand you have the girls who always attend church, are at all the functions, and I swear to God they'll fukk the brains out of any guy who asks them. I am not kidding you. They like to pretend and act like they're innocent. I think they attend church only because their morality is at odds with their nymphomaniac desires. It's like the pedophiles who hold jobs in the church... they know what they're doing is considered wrong, but they want people to think they're ok, so they think that working in a church gives them an air of purity.

On the other hand, I know far many more HB9s and up who attend my church on a regular basis, are total virgins, and don't give up shyt to any guy. They're not frigid, they just have self-respect.

You gotta look in the right places. For both getting laid and finding the girl of your dreams, I recommend hanging out at a church.

 

[OleRyder]

Someone commented that "women who don't believe in sex before marriage, don't believe in sex after marriage, either" - not an exact quote. Wake up people... so she's not a virgin, so what?

 

[MysteryWoman]

You really want to have your cake and eat it. Watch out for virgin, they make up for lost time later. Because they idolise sex so much that when it fails to live up to what they expected,they start to fcuk around or turn their backs on sex altogether

 

[ShortyBrown]

have a read of this

http://bulletin.ninemsn.com.au/bulletin/EdDesk.nsf/All/4119F9A158A22FF8CA256D58000B230A?OpenDocument

Sorry stuffed up the link.

 

[Good_ol_boy]

Women like sex as much as you do. If you are a virgin, you'll find women who are also. If you'll slam anything with a hole and a heartbeat, you'll find women just like you too. They aren't that different in this respect.

 

[GirlsAreTrix]

To be honest, even if a girl wasn't a virgin, but she lied and said she was a virgin, and had no diseases, I would be ok with it. I hate the ones that start sharing their sexual history along with details. I can never get emotionally attached to a girl who ever told me a guy's name she would give head to and receive anal. If everyone likes to F around, what the hell is the point of marriage? I would hate walking down the street and then we see an ex bf of hers, and then all of a sudden I imagine that the prick has gotten head from my wife before. Marriage is worth crap nowadays it seems like, except when u accidentaly have a baby and are forced into it for the kid's sake.

 

[icepick]

Re: have a read of this

Originally posted by ShortyBrown
http://bulletin.ninemsn.com.au/bulletin/EdDesk.nsf/All/4119F9A158A22FF8CA256D58000B230A?OpenDocument

Sorry stuffed up the link.

Holy sh*t! That is a good article.

They would always say BEFORE:

"Oh, we did a study that said that men reported an average of 2,000 partners each; but women only reported 1.01 partners each. Obviously, the men are lying!"

I've always known that most all girls that say they are virgins were lying. (Come on! What are the chances of running into so many girls that just "happen" to want to lose thier virginity to you...sheesh...some guys can be SO led by thier ego!) But this is pretty incredible.

ARTICLE SUMMARY

Girls that thought thier answers would be read, said:

2.6 partners each

Girls that thought they were hooked to a LIE DETECTOR, said:

4.4 partners each

Guys that thought thier answers would be read, said:

3.7 partners each

Guys that thought they were hooked to a LIE DETECTOR, said:

4.0 partners each

Wow! Even guys lower the number!

But there is still a difference, 4.4 vs 4.0?

I think it is proof that women (18-25) go for older guys (26+) more than guys (18-25) go for younger girls (17-). [No way in hell the 18-25 year old girls are gonna f*ck with guys below 17, more than the guys 18-25 are gonna f*ck with gals below 17, no way.]

I've noticed that being 23, the incredibly hot 18 year olds that I used to dream about when I was 18 (strangely, they were off f*cking the upperclassmen) tend to really warm up to me (IYKWIM). Surreal almost?

Does anybody else noticed that the 'cream of the crop' of the girls tends to ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS have a boyfriend at least 2 years older?

Anyway, don't get down guys! You get free points just for being older! (Ha! Who says women don't like more dominant/in-control men? )

Oh! But of course, men are SICK for doing this! I forgot! Even though thats what women want.

Mark yet ANOTHER politically incorrect act by human sexuality.

I am surprised that nobody has tried to SUE human sexuality!

 

[The Business Man]

That is a pretty wild study, icepick!

It's a shame I guess, but there's nothing we can do about it. We just need to play fair and try not to be hypocrites ourselves!

 

[apollon_312]

there's some weird thoughts going through THIS thread..

most people (male or female) who are still virgins by the time they marry (whenever that is), are probably repressed to some degree or doing it to appease someone, something or some idea..
like someone else mentioned above, when THESE ones let the dragon out of the cave, watch out!

to the first poster: you're reading these posts in order to score more potential hits.. so in effect YOU are contributing to an effect your complaining about ie. girls who have been banged multiple times. With that kind of thinking, you are bound to wind up depressed.

why not accept the fact, that women are like men, and if they like someone, they might too wanna engage in horizontal dancing. this puts things back into reality.. and stops guys developing the 'she's gotta be a madonna, or else she's a *****' and the 'i only wanna marry a madonna' syndrome, which has done more bad than good.
it also stops perpetuating the drawn out 'i must be a good girl' myth that girls are still taught to believe. further it makes for less spade work when DJ'ing.

 

[usdaprime]

I once was dating this woman and she said she was a virgin. Then in the same convo she said she lives alone with her daughter!!!! Yeah she wasn't to sharp...

 

[BobbDobbs]

Originally posted by GirlsAreTrix
but I still hate the fact all 99.9999% of girls give up their virginity before they are married

Okay. You are in the wrong forum. The Bible Study group is NOT here.

 

[KiInCollege]

Girls not originally from the US are more likely to be virgins. Their cultures may be more reserved.

Do you know how hard it is to convince a virgin to give it up? You have to give her a lot of time, and she has to be very attached. I find it interesting that the thread starter wants a virgin specifically.

For me, it's really just a "bonus" of sorts...there are advantages and disadvantages to being with a virgin. You get to adapt after finding out.

Disadvantage: Potential hymen. Potential blood.

Advantage: Your ego gets a boost, knowing you're patience and dedication paid off. You're her first.

D: You may have to train her. Well, this could be a good thing, now that I remember teaching my girl...

A: Hey, it's sex. She'll look to you to introduce her into this new territory.

D: She probably isn't interested in giving head. If she is, while she may try, she "scrapes."

<cringe>

A: She will never forget you. She will want to love you, if she doesn't already.

D: Don't expect her to have earth-shaking orgasms until you've broken her in, so to speak.

A: If you're terrible in bed or aren't well-endowed, at least you know she won't be comparing you. I, uh, hope this advantage doesn't apply to anyone here.

D: If you leave her, everyone will think you are scum.

A: If you both decide for her to become your fiance, you'll enjoy a certain sense of purity.

So make the best of the situation and current girl you come across.

 

[MrMetropolis]

I don't know about U? but, when I was 19 I was dating a 21 y/o chick. now that I am 24 I am getting 18-21 y/o chicks. it never changes for me. LoL I keep getting older and they stay the same age. Life is great. I am gonna be the next Max Hardcore. Hah hah hah.

 

[GirlsAreTrix]

The whole point I was trying to make in this thread is that marriage carries no meaning anymore. Marriage is supposed to be a union that bonds two people more than they have ever been bonded with anyone else, physically and emotionally. To me, a girl who has slept with 5 different guys is as bad as a girl who has married 5 different times. They put no value in sex or marriage, and are therefore not marriage material. Noone can claim to believe in God and at same time sleep around before marriage. That is like commiting adultery on your future spouse. These are my beliefs and may not seem DJ or logical to some people, but they get me frustrated at the small percentage of quality girls that are left.

 

[TheCloser]

Yeah that pisses me off, especially when they lie..."well only 1...but then sure enough it comes out "well i was in this gang bang one time, but I only count it as one not 14!"

It's no good...but remember, you only need to find 1.

 

[Solomon79]

GirlsAreTrix...

I sympathise with your feelings 100%.

I think you just have to accept that there are a lot of people out there who are stupid, and all they know is the pressure society puts on them to have sex. It's everywhere, in advertising, on TV, in films, in music. The message that goes out, every day, all the time, is IF YOU'RE NOT HAVING SEX YOU'RE A LOSER.

I say, bol.locks to that. I am NOT an animal. Yes, everybody wants to get their genes into the next generation blah, blah, blah, with the best possible mate, blah blah blah, but we are still NOT animals.

I understand what you say about sleeping around before marriage being akin to cheating on your future wife. I feel exactly the same way. That's why I agree with the other posters about church groups being a great way to meet decent girls. Some Christian chicks are SO hot it's unbelievable, and a lot of them do want to save it until marriage. Not only that, but these girls seem to have it more together - they tend to not be as selfish, they're more socially concerned...in short, they are the kind of girl you can fall in love with.

However, falling in love can bring problems of its own. This is something I'm struggling with at the moment. You can wait until you meet this fantastic girl, but what if you DO meet her, and then it doesn't work out? What then? There are no easy answers.

Unlike a lot of the guys on this board, I like to refrain from sex. Sex is a very powerful life force. I haven't even masturbated for about two weeks now and BOY do I feel good. I have never felt this awake, this fresh, this energised for a LONG time. Ejaculating costs you valuable energy, whether it takes place inside a girl or out. You need to get working on some other projects in your life, and channel your energy into them instead.