Sorry dude, he was born gay. I vividly recall being 4 years old and asking myself why he behaves like a girl - he was only 5 years old at the time. And this was in the 80's, it was before the era of mass mainstream media pimping out the gay agenda.
Well let’s look at science and see. Once the embryo evolves into a fetus, every emotion, every consideration, all the stress, all the ideas are causing the replicated DNA, called RNA, is recorded and as such causes development of the fetus to prep itself to survive in the world it’s about to be born in. The mothers world is what he’s being born into. Single moms produce the most dysfunctional children because there is no father there while it’s in the womb. Unless the child is deaf, he hears most everything.
His actual blueprint, called DNA, is no different than yours. Unless it has an anomaly called a mutation. These are less than 4% of births and we call it a birth defect.
Between birth to right around 6 years of age, the child is actually in a brain state similar to hypnosis. Actually he is recording everything in his environment. This is a brilliant survival mechanism. But it’s misplaced in our present culture. These recordings become the actions and emotions that the child will experience the rest of his life.
The subconscious mind is a million times faster at calculations than the conscious mind.
This is why a person can read a self help book, change his ideas, but still squanders around in life and never achieving what he wants.
Buddhists know how to reprogram it. Psychology knows nothing because it can’t change the programming.
However one can change his own programming by knowing that his programmed subconscious is a recording and is working against him. With everyday work, spotting faulty thinking, he can rewrite it over time. IF he can let go of his ideas that keep reinforcing his subconscious mind.
