No masturbation, does it really affect you in a positive way?

[Shivastorm_88]

I suppose if you don't spank the monkey for a little while you get hornier around girls which would help shyness and overcome the fear of exposing your sexuality to the girls... Is that really true? or a huge load of BS?

 

[azanon]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=20053

 

[sexybeast]

Didnt read the link, but all I will say is "give it ago" and see how you begin to feel very little fear and start acting on your desires..... routins and all that crap dont even entre your head, you just go after the girl.

think of not jacking of like not eating. you are starving you will do whatever it takes to get that food. same applys when you stop wanking... you do whatever it takes to realise your love gunk.

 

[FoolsCause]

It can make you appear desparate.

 

[NickBe]

I think it is important to masturbate regularly, I think you would go crazy if you do not do it. If you are having sex regularly than no masturbation is fine but I think you need need to c*m regularly to keep your sanity.

 

[bachelor]

I agree with Nickbe...

 

[Charm]

At least once a week if you are getting no sex. When I knocked out masturbation completely for a while, I started hitting the gym heavier and heavier.

 

[jtrain 289]

I hate that word desperate you can say anythign you want to a girl and she wont think your desperate as long as thats not the only girl you go up just because you say blatant sexual remarks about her does not mean your desperate.

 

[sexybeast]

Nick have you ever tryed not jacking of for a whole week?

 

[J-Bone]

hey if you do it every once in a while then it decreases the chances of prostate cancer, so i hear anyways. but if you do it too much, then you will know this and feel less confident because you may start to feel that you have to because theres not a girl around to do it. but on the other hand you don't wanna get too bad off and go humping every girl you see. in some cases the longer you go the lower a persons standards can start to decrease. maybe this helped some

 

[sexybeast]

do whatever you want, as long as you do it in moderation. this whole "does not masturbating affect you" etc is bullsh!t.

simple not true in most cases...

It's all about the mood when it comes to talking to girls. If you're in the mood to be talking to a girl and making her like you, then you can do that regardless of masturbating before or not.

yeah this is true of course, but if your feeling horny you will BE in the mood to chat more girls up.

It honestly gives me that sexual edge I need to get things done.

 

[B4IFURU18?]

OP,

If you want to funk your junk 5x a day, do it. We all do it, some more than others. Frequency isn't a big deal, and it certainly doesn't contribute to feelings of desperation, and affect confidence. At least for me anyway. Your mileage may vary...

 

[NickBe]

Nick have you ever tryed not jacking of for a whole week?

I get regular sex so I rarely masturbate but even if I had my reaction to no masturbation would really have no bearing on this thread. I know two friends that tried it and they didn't do too well.

 

[sexybeast]

I get regular sex so I rarely masturbate anymore these days

cool, not all guys get sex on the regz unless there in a relationship or have amazing game.

Im not in a relationship by choice but i know when i have been I dont feel that drive/desire to get out there and seduce new girls. Maybe its just me.

All i can say is for guys not getting sex on a regz or have problems going after what they desire, cutting down on masturbating will "help" you achieve that.

 

[lildevil]

What i think

I get regular sex so I rarely masturbate anymore these days

cool, not all guys get sex on the regz unless there in a relationship or have amazing game.

Im not in a relationship by choice but i know when i have been I dont feel that drive/desire to get out there and seduce new girls. Maybe its just me.

All i can say is for guys not getting sex on a regz or have problems going after what they desire, cutting down on masturbating will "help" you achieve that.

Masturbate less (at least once a week)it will keep u much more energetic....

Sexybeast....when theirs nothing doing...might as well choke it...

Sexy beast masterbating can make a lower sex drive...make women seem less important(personal experiment)...I think the mind kind gets confused and feels satisfied...thats why u get that effect

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Frequency of masturbation is determined by many factors, e.g., one's resistance to transient sexual tension, hormone levels influencing sexual arousal, sexual habits established during youth, peer influences, health, intensity of the ejaculatory urge, and one's attitude to masturbation formed by culture.

The physical benefits of masturbation and having an orgasm or ejaculating creates heightened arousal while epinephrine courses through your body, producing the flushed face, shallow breath and post-climactic euphoria.

It is held in many mental health circles that masturbation can relieve depression, stress and lead to a higher sense of self-worth (Hurlbert & Whittaker, 1991).

In 2003, an Australian research team led by Graham Giles of The Cancer Council Australia concluded that frequent masturbation by males appears to help prevent the development of prostate cancer.

Masturbating frequently presents no physical, mental or emotional risk in itself, but masturbation can be used to relieve boredom or stress. In either case, as with any "nervous habit", it is more helpful to consider the causes of the boredom or of the stress, rather than try to repress the masturbation.

There is some discussion between professionals and other interested parties as to the existence or validity of sexual addictions. Nevertheless, there are lists of warning signs such as when sexual activity affects a person's ability to function in everyday life, or is placing them at risk, for example, of pursuing illegal or destructive activities. Very frequent and compulsive masturbation may be seen as a sign of sexual addiction

Some info. from Wikipedia.

 

[Docs]

Masterbation. Too much = Hard time cuming when you want to during sex.
Same with drinking and hardness.