Night totally ruined (partly) because I went out alone

[Le Parisien]

Hey guys, I usually don't post whiny post, but I just got back from my local club, totally pissed. Some stupid sh*t just ruined by night that could have been really great.

I go to this club every thursday to dance and have fun, sometimes trying get girls if there's a good shot, and I usually go by myself because most of my friends hate the music they play there.

So today was just like another Thursday, but in the middle of the night some dude came up to me and said he's gonna beat the sh*t of out me. At the beginning I didn't get it, I don't even know him, and I didn't do anything, I just finished dancing with the break dancers.

And he kept telling that if I don't buy him a drink, he's gonna call all his football player friends and beat me up big time. Ok I was laughing the whole time because it was SO ridiculous, and finally some of his friends came and took him away, they were saying to him something like "nah he's the wrong guy...". I didn't know what was going on, but I must admit that I was a little scared. Becasue I was there, ALONE, and I'm not a big guy. He and his friends could have just been some chumps who got jealous about my break dancing moves, maybe their female friends said something positive about it; or maybe it was just a prank to show around how tough they are; or maybe they just wanted to rob me. I don't know.
But that just disturbed me and my whole night was ruined. I felt powerless and I started to think too much: if I get some cute girls and some losers get pissed at me, they might beat me up; if some losers' female friends liked me they might get jealous and want to beat me up; or maybe the girls just want them to beat some one up randomly for "fun".

The night was totally ruined because I was having so much fun with the break dancers, the music was very good tonight. And midnight passed, just after I switched to the seduction mode (there just happened to be a lots of cute girls tonight, which is very unusual) when the dances were over, this sh*t happens to me.

And the worst part of the story is that this might affect my opinion towards African Americans. So far I have no negative stereotypes against them. But these guys were like the stereotypical thuggish black football players, "escorted" by their stereotypical totally sluttish trashy blond girls. Now I'm just trying to "forget" about it and NOT become a racist.


Damn tonight could have been so great, so many cuties...

 

[jakethasnake]

They are just ignorant fvckheads. Trust me, if you had an Azn crew and you rolled up in there and all were breakdancing, those dumb ass black fvcks would not have done a thing. They know that they're nothing without numbers. Just let it slide.


And besides, you're in bumfvck PENNSYLVANIA. What do you expect, as an Asian man in a bumfvck state? No disprect to you people there, but that state is a piece of shiet. You need to move to Cali bro, where the Azns have numbers. The blacks will not fvck with you here, esp. if you come with a crew. You were just an easy target for some zero-IQ havin' football gorillas.

 

[jordanz]

Thanks

Thanks for showing your true colors Jake. If I had known this about you upfront, I wouldn't have wasted my time debating with you ealier.

 

[Mercenary]

Re: Thanks

Originally posted by jordanz
Thanks for showing your true colors Jake. If I had known this about you upfront, I wouldn't have wasted my time debating with you ealier.

 

[TurboLover]

Originally posted by Le Parisien
And the worst part of the story is that this might affect my opinion towards African Americans. So far I have no negative stereotypes against them. But these guys were like the stereotypical thuggish black football players, "escorted" by their stereotypical totally sluttish trashy blond girls. Now I'm just trying to "forget" about it and NOT become a racist.

You have no negative STEREOTYPES against them. But these guys were like the STEREOTYPICAL thuggish black football players, "escorted" by their STEREOTYPICAL totally sluttish trashy blond girls.

LOL

 

[Le Parisien]

Hey guys please don't flame on Jake, he was just trying to make me feel better.

You have no negative STEREOTYPES against them. But these guys were like the STEREOTYPICAL thuggish black football players, "escorted" by their STEREOTYPICAL totally sluttish trashy blond girls.

Sorry, my English is not that good, I meant "I hold no negative preconceived ideas". The stereotypes are already out there, they are not invented by me. Last night, they just happened to be true. I just don't want them to become part of my opinions.

Again this thread is not about race, it's about me being pissed by a ruined night. I think the reason they picked me was because they didn't see other Asians around me, so they assumed that I was alone. And they were right, only the reasoning was totally wrong: 95% of my friends are either Europeans or local Americans or Africans, I also know a lots of people from the Middle East.

Damn it was just a bad timing since every friday (like today), I go out with a bunch of university auxillary cops .

 

[Dim sum]

" Location: PSU, PA, USA "

Hehe, how old r u? which club ( Egypt? Shampoo? Deco? Club 27? Circa? Flow? ) you go to? hmm, I didn't know they have good club night on thursday here in philly. I usually go on Friday or Satursday when the crow are more mature. I never seen a fight at this clubs yet. If someone bump into me, they usually try to shake my hand, said sorry or smiles.

 

[Le Parisien]

Dim sum:

Actually PSU means Penn State University.
The college town is called State College.

Yeah people are usually friendly at clubs, never seen a fight. I wasn't worried about being inside since I know the break dancers who work there and also some bouncers but about afterwards.
Since my friends are never with me to this club, I always walk my way home BY MYSELF. Again, I think it's more about the ruined mood than about safety concerns.

 

[Dim sum]

hehe, I know PSU stand for Penn State University, I didn't know they got clubs up there in cow town ( atleast that what my little brother call PSU Harrisburg because his going there too ) ;-).

 

[jakethasnake]

Re: Thanks

Originally posted by jordanz
Thanks for showing your true colors Jake. If I had known this about you upfront, I wouldn't have wasted my time debating with you ealier.

Honestly, I'm not concerned what you think. If they were a bunch of white guys, I would've called them 'white fvcks'. If they were Vietnamese or Ecuadorian, I would've called them 'Viet fvcks' or 'Ecudorian fvcks'. If you're an ass-hole of a certain color, I don't save the blistering comments no matter what. You're such a reactionry BABY it makes me smile. I'm an equal oppurtunity hata - as long as they've done something to deserve my vitriol.



Mercenary, you're just bent out of shape like a little biatch coz I decided to talk about black men in my other post about internalized racism (which is on point.... don't you dare throw around your retarded links again like you're some kind of bigshot). You're another sensitive baby. I could've just as easily used Asian men/women as an example, and talked about their barely perceptible self-hatred, and their slanted eyes instead of black mens' thick lips, noses, etc.. Just because I am daring enough to talk openly and boldly about sensitive issues like race and racism, it doesn't make me some 'black man hata'. But I do know how you feel though.... I know a lot of Asians who will jump down your throat for merely MENTIONING the word 'Asian'. Very sensitive people, I guess.

 

[OldNumb3r7]

Im from bum**** Ohio

That night sucks man........it prob wouldve shook me a bit. Dont let it get to you too much. Theyll all probably die of syphyllis or something.

 

[jordanz]

No offense taken

I mean "low Iq gorilla" can be seen as a compliment in some parts.

Funny thing is you think you are being honest and bold with statements like these.

But then when you confronted you hide be hind the old " I was just talking about THOSE guys not all of you" excuse or the "I don't care what you think" line.

Why not be a man and come all the way out with your feelings. You would get more respect that way.

I mean if had the nerve to call a group of annoying cliquey asian party goers a bunch of yellow rice dic nerds I would expect any asian to be offended ....

So yes it's true you dont care. You aren't a racist after all Jake.

...You're just an ignorant Prick!

 

[jakethasnake]

Re: No offense taken

Originally posted by jordanz
I mean "low Iq gorilla" can be seen as a compliment in some parts.

Funny thing is you think you are being honest and bold with statements like these.

But then when you confronted you hide be hind the old " I was just talking about THOSE guys not all of you" excuse or the "I don't care what you think" line.

Why not be a man and come all the way out with your feelings. You would get more respect that way.

I mean if had the nerve to call a group of annoying cliquey asian party goers a bunch of yellow rice dic nerds I would expect any asian to be offended ....

So yes it's true you dont care. You aren't a racist after all Jake.

...You're just an ignorant Prick!

Oh, I see where this is coming from. In the past, blacks have been maligned as 'apes and monkeys' - probably stemming from their stereotype as being unintelligent (I disagree with this sentiment). And by coincidence I had called those athletes, who happened to be black, "gorillas" in my previous post.


That was an unfortunate coincidence, one that I overlooked and do regret. I was calling those guys low 'IQ-havin' gorillas' because they fit the archetype of the super-thick headed steroid-monkey football player - not because they were black (though I made it clear that I would've slammed *******s of *any race* in my previous post).


I regret that confusion occured, though I doubt you'll take that at face value. Oh well.