Nicest way to fvck her off?

[Romanemp22]

So last night I slept with this girl I've been hanging out for the past few days. She was very chill and cool up until the point where we fvcked. She stayed over at my place and everything was legit, normal.

Now today, I had family BBQ at my parents house, all of my family was there, my brother sister their kids etc. It was nice hanging out and spending time with my family until the girl I banged night before showed up. I was fvckin shocked. I asked my family members is this some kind of joke to invite her here then my sister said she called her and said she is my gf, so she wanted to come. I was terrified about how the hell did she even knew about my familys bbq because I didn't told her but even more terrified about her behavior. My family were nice and they accepted her proposition to have a meal with us. But here is the most fvcked up part. My mother was questioning her like what do you do in life etc and then she mentioned her plans for the future, which in her mind also include me and her giving birth to our baby. I did use a condom last night so I don't get what's the point of that story. She really thinks that we're together now.
Now here is the deal. How to softly tell her hey you're coming of to strong, fvck off?I really suck at nice talking and sometimes I may be to direct so I don't want her to stalk me or anything crazy in future by pissing her off.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

This is psycho behavior. Run!

 

[Romanemp22]

This is psycho behavior. Run!

If I just ghost her I think she will be even more crazy. Need to tell her straight in the face.

 

[Desdinova]

If I just ghost her I think she will be even more crazy. Need to tell her straight in the face.

She's a fvcking nutcase. You NEED to get the fvck out early. I had a chick like that and the bytch stalked me for a year. Couldn't go meet new women because SHE WAS ALWAYS THERE to c0ckblock me.

Stop contacting her and when she initiates a date, tell her you're busy and just hope to hell she gets the message.

 

[Dam44]

So last night I slept with this girl I've been hanging out for the past few days. She was very chill and cool up until the point where we fvcked. She stayed over at my place and everything was legit, normal.

Now today, I had family BBQ at my parents house, all of my family was there, my brother sister their kids etc. It was nice hanging out and spending time with my family until the girl I banged night before showed up. I was fvckin shocked. I asked my family members is this some kind of joke to invite her here then my sister said she called her and said she is my gf, so she wanted to come. I was terrified about how the hell did she even knew about my familys bbq because I didn't told her but even more terrified about her behavior. My family were nice and they accepted her proposition to have a meal with us. But here is the most fvcked up part. My mother was questioning her like what do you do in life etc and then she mentioned her plans for the future, which in her mind also include me and her giving birth to our baby. I did use a condom last night so I don't get what's the point of that story. She really thinks that we're together now.
Now here is the deal. How to softly tell her hey you're coming of to strong, fvck off?I really suck at nice talking and sometimes I may be to direct so I don't want her to stalk me or anything crazy in future by pissing her off.

It's scary reading this. She probably has an obsession problem. Is she young and attractive?

 

[Romanemp22]

She's a fvcking nutcase. You NEED to get the fvck out early. I had a chick like that and the bytch stalked me for a year. Couldn't go meet new women because SHE WAS ALWAYS THERE to c0ckblock me.

Stop contacting her and when she initiates a date, tell her you're busy and just hope to hell she gets the message.

Ahh its fvckin pissing me off because she's such a fine piece of azz and she is amazing in bed. I really thought she was legit ltr but so many red flags in span of few hours, damn. She already called me 2 times after that and wants me to come with her to the burger bar.

 

[Romanemp22]

It's scary reading this. She probably has an obsession problem. Is she young and attractive?

Yes she's 20 and to a scale I would call it close to 10. Beautiful face and nice fit azz. What confuse me is while we were just hanging out she was so cool and fun to hang out with. When we slept she became obsessed but how it's been like 22 hours since that. How so fast? Sh1t

 

[Dam44]

Yes she's 20 and to a scale I would call it close to 10. Beautiful face and nice fit azz. What confuse me is while we were just hanging out she was so cool and fun to hang out with. When we slept she became obsessed but how it's been like 22 hours since that. How so fast? Sh1t

If she's that young and beautiful, it could be maybe a obsessive disorder or she wants a relationship badly

Maybe you try to distance yourself slowly and avoid her and any form of contact in hopes she gets the message. If she doesn't, you may have no choice to tell her you're not interested in that. If she doesn't stop after this, you could change your number, I guess you would have to tell your family too, and maybe involve the police with evidence

Hopefully, it doesn't reach that stage

 

[Romanemp22]

If she's that young and beautiful, it could be maybe a obsessive disorder or she wants a relationship badly

Maybe you try to distance yourself slowly and avoid her and any form of contact in hopes she gets the message. If she doesn't, you may have no choice to tell her you're not interested in that. If she doesn't stop after this, you could change your number, I guess you would have to tell your family too, and maybe involve the police with evidence

Hopefully, it doesn't reach that stage

Very good point. The main problem is that she lives in a building across the street of mine. My living room is basically looking at her bedroom window 10 meters away. I see her almost every day since we live in the same street, that's how I met her actually. She knows I work in police dep. so I don't think she will go far far.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Proof everything. Texts, pictures, call logs.
Just export it.

Call me paranoid, but I have an entire folder with consent texts, screenshots from every woman I've been with since years.

Never know which one turns out to be a nutcase.

 

[Romanemp22]

Proof everything. Texts, pictures, call logs.
Just export it.

Call me paranoid, but I have an entire folder with consent texts, screenshots from every woman I've been with since years.

Never know which one turns out to be a nutcase.

That can surely go in to your favor but unfortunately I don't have to much time for all that.

 

[darksprezzatura]

That can surely go in to your favor but unfortunately I don't have to much time for all that.

That's your call. Hardly takes 5 minutes tho. Avoids a lot of trouble if some chick flips out.

I never used to bother with it either till I had my share of crazy chick experiences.

Crazy chicks probably have way more partners than regular women.

I'm sure lots of members here have had their fair share.

 

[Dam44]

Very good point. The main problem is that she lives in a building across the street of mine. My living room is basically looking at her bedroom window 10 meters away. I see her almost every day since we live in the same street, that's how I met her actually. She knows I work in police dep. so I don't think she will go far far.

I guess you just have to gently explain to her you don't want a relationship. It's good you work in the police department

 

[BackInTheGame78]

If I just ghost her I think she will be even more crazy. Need to tell her straight in the face.

Just tell her I am sorry but her actions are unacceptable and that you don't want to see her anymore.

 

[Romanemp22]

If I see her later this night I'm definitely going to explain her that this is not right.

 

[Desdinova]

If I see her later this night I'm definitely going to explain her that this is not right.

Don't fvcking do this in person. She could very well go full psycho and become violent. Been there. Texting is the best way to break off any relationship.

 

[death_wish. .]

i sure wish i was in your shoes right now roman , i'd just keep her at a distance and keep on ****in'.
which is obviously easier said than actually done.
can you warn your family of her stalking issues and make them aware that she wasn't invited? is that even the way that you want to handle this? maybe you should pull her aside and tell her what you wish to do
dont break it off keep gettin the good ass , just set firm boundaries and put her in her place

 

[death_wish. .]

do you really want to **** her off , roman?

 

[BeExcellent]

Advice from the old lady:

Listen. You stuck your djck in crazy. Now. I realize you may not have understood just HOW crazy....but now you have the memo.

She’s 20 and great in bed. Ummmm. She didn’t just get good in bed. She learned that from men who she is fvcking and/or she got dumped by the men who taught her.

In any case she’s nuts. And you are saying to yourself....

“But she’s HOT!” Ok. Keep at it. She’s sexed you once and showed up unannounced and uninvited and told your family she’s going to have your kid.

No woman with any elegance or class would do those things...EVER. So she is trashy.

Hot and trashy. You got a beautiful loser there. A bunny boiler. Go watch Fatal Attraction if you don’t know what a bunny boiler is....

Best course of action is to move. You chose to shjt where you eat and you picked a crazy girl who knows where you live & what you drive.

Screw her until you move. Then just vanish. Otherwise you are asking for more trouble (complaints about you as a peace officer, lies about what you did or said, vandalism and property destruction, etc. etc.).

Move, vanish & then don’t do this again.

Facepalm

 

[death_wish. .]

That's your call. Hardly takes 5 minutes tho. Avoids a lot of trouble if some chick flips out.

I never used to bother with it either till I had my share of crazy chick experiences.

Crazy chicks probably have way more partners than regular women.

I'm sure lots of members here have had their fair share.

brother, how much time do you have?