Nice to have BPD radar

[051AV]

Its nice to be able to spot BPD women lol, seen one today I was in the local grocery store. This woman looked to be in her late 20s early 30s the guy she was with I assume was her BF he looked like a bad boy type guy. I walked by her she gave me the look I have her the glare, I thinking to myself your a nuts b*tch aren't ya.

She reminded me of my ex she even looked like my ex, this woman is a little taller, she woman had the look of she hides behind a mask. She glared at me when she was leaving the store I glared back thinking to myself ya I know your probably phucking nuts, my ex would give me the same glare, you know the one where they will hold it for a good 5 seconds.

You know it gives me the shudders when I run across a possible BPD it reminds of the BS I went through with the ex I wouldn't ever get involved with a woman that is nuts ever again. Watching this woman being a control freak loading her grocery bags her doofus boyfriend just stood there she wouldn't let him put anything in the bags. My ex is a control freak she wanted control of everything she didn't always get it with me.

Once you've been with a BPD is sure in the hell raises your awareness of nutso women, its the little cues that you notice about the woman before you even talk to her.

 

[stovepipe]

Beautiful empty eyes+a few secs of eye locking=more than likely cluster B. My ex was notorious with that crap with almost every man she talked to. She looks at them like shes going to rape them or already puked them. Watching her talk to her male friends with that deep, dark, seductive stare made me very uncomfortable.

I noticed it the sec we first met and I continued to analyze it for two years while her. I once asked her if she phuked all her male friends, but of course she denied it. I will say, that stare is unlike anything I ever witnessed before. Its as if she is looking deep in your soul, not at you.

Having been thru, I can look back and see a few other girls I almost hooked up with that had the same exact stare and behaviors. Two of the three got prego within a month or two of me turning them down. Something deep in my core told me to stay at that time. This last ex got me in the most vulnerable time of my life and I feel for it all hook line and sinker.

Wanted to add this event that happened recently. A buddy of mine whom has cheated on basically every women he ever dated is thought to be a pysco or BPD. I asked him if he was BPD, he said his therapist actually just diagnosed him.

So he finally met this girl whom he hasn't cheated on yet and treats her like gold. First thought was she has to be Cluster B like him. He finally introduced her to the group. The sec our eyes made contact, she gave me that stare for a few secs followed with that seductive smirk. Lets just say she was flirting with us all hardcore, some of it was inappropriate. Curious to see how long their relationship lasts.

 

[wifehunter]

BPD/NPD identification = look for selfish, prideful, entitled, arrogant attitudes. These days, people like this make me sick, so there's my indicator!

lolz!

 

[Red Legg]

Its nice to be able to spot BPD women lol, seen one today I was in the local grocery store. This woman looked to be in her late 20s early 30s the guy she was with I assume was her BF he looked like a bad boy type guy. I walked by her she gave me the look I have her the glare, I thinking to myself your a nuts b*tch aren't ya.

She reminded me of my ex she even looked like my ex, this woman is a little taller, she woman had the look of she hides behind a mask. She glared at me when she was leaving the store I glared back thinking to myself ya I know your probably phucking nuts, my ex would give me the same glare, you know the one where they will hold it for a good 5 seconds.

You know it gives me the shudders when I run across a possible BPD it reminds of the BS I went through with the ex I wouldn't ever get involved with a woman that is nuts ever again. Watching this woman being a control freak loading her grocery bags her doofus boyfriend just stood there she wouldn't let him put anything in the bags. My ex is a control freak she wanted control of everything she didn't always get it with me.

Once you've been with a BPD is sure in the hell raises your awareness of nutso women, its the little cues that you notice about the woman before you even talk to her.

Even if you know all about BPD's it's easy to get sucked in if you don't watch out for the love bomb attacks.I have been dealing with them for years and still must constantly stay vigilant.

 

[attic]

Don't underestimate them.

 

[darksprezzatura]

I've been where you are. Ranting about my traumatising affair. Considering every other girl BPD. Soon when you are indifferent, you'll look back and laugh at this.

Understand that BPD is a spectrum disorder. We all have some traits of BPD. The degree and extent is the difference.

Instead of focusing on woman, I tried establishing my own boundaries and susceptibility to women who feed my narcissism by flattery with love bombing.

Controlling, bitchy, jealous, power playing behaviour is instantly regarded as pump and dump.

There is no need to play against an opponent who has nothing to lose.
Just my two cents.

Protect that heart mate.

 

[Julian]

Yeah I know exactly what you mean. Last year broke up with my bpd ex..couple months later Im at a bar...and I notice this chick...to everyone around she seemed normal. But I read her face/body language/aura and I just KNEW she was fked in the head. It was an indescribable intuition..but it reminded me of my ex in such ways that it was uncanny. I put the thought out of my mind, 15 minutes later im outside and I see her rush out of the bar, looking PISSED...i remember seeing those black eyes....these bpd sloots all seem to get those dark black eyes when they start getting nutty. my bro was with me and I laughed and I was like told ya bro...because prior to that i mentioned to him the wierdness I felt regards to that chick.

the crazy thing is when i first encountered her she was all smiles and ****...to everyone else she seemed normie...but I knew...I knew...i could sense it. something was "off".

 

[QuadDeuces]

Consider BPD a pink elephant, the more you try to stop thinking about a pink elephant the more you think about a pink elephant.

Instead find a blue elephant to think about instead.

 

[GhostOfCordon]

One of the big giveaways imo is in the eyes. They tend to have very deep set, dark eyes. And I don't mean dark as in color, I mean as in darkness surrounding their eyes in the skin,