Nice time, then women going cold and distant

[Safari]

Hey fellas, I'm having a recurring trend developing here and need some input. I've hung out with three women in the past three weeks, having a nice time out with some great two-way kino.

Next time I see them, they go cold and distant, I assume to send the signal that they aren't interested.

I really haven't put a lot of effort into these women. I really don't care much about any of them...I just got two more numbers this week, so I'm not really sweating any particular one.

I'd just like to put the trend to a stop.

It makes me wonder if their egos are so out of check, them thinking they've got me attracted to them, when I'm just really having a good time with them, and then get their numbers in case they want to hang out again.

 

[WatchMeWalk]

Aaaahh. Hot/Cold girls (nods like a quack doctor). First of all, this is not a "trend" you're experiencing. Encountering these messed up h0s is a given in the journey of a DJ nomatter how much game you have. Don't waste energy analyzing their mindsets, just move on to other women and maybe they'll pop their heads out their asses.

 

[Safari]

I'm not sweating their thoughts so much, but I have to consider the possibility that there is a possible mistake or pattern in my behavior. Has anyone had this issue?

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

They could be interested in you but their using reserved game. As long as their showing up for dates, responsive to kino thats all that really matters.

If your dating a girl and you've been on a few dates and she starts to flake it's usually because she's more interested in another guy.

 

[Dee-Zy]

Watch me walk and Dust 2 Dust answere'd perfectly.

I don't think I can add anything else.

Worry about what you want - not what they do. If they pass the tests (Show up to dates, do what you want to do - not because you are the only thing to do on a fri night, ect)

then it's all good, they are test'N you - don't let it bother you.

 

[Safari]

What are they testing for?

One in particular, our date was over two weeks ago. I didn't ask for a second date because of this hot-to-cold behavior. Also because she told me on the first date that she was going out with another guy the very next day. I took this as a jealousy test and didn't respond or ask questions. Try again or move on?

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

Originally posted by Safari
Also because she told me on the first date that she was going out with another guy the very next day. I took this as a jealousy test and didn't respond or ask questions. Try again or move on?

Go ahead and share her with other guys. Your not in an LTR so why should you care as long as she gives you some ***** too.

 

[violator]

Sure she is giving you the jealousy test. But, the less you care the more she will be intrigued. So just ignore the bytch and move on to greener pastures. Until you guys are exclusive each of you can see other people.