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Nice Guys Do Not Finish Last

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usernamedox11

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Let me sum it up for you:

She's saying looks matter to girls and that they want to date their equals or better looks wise. She's also saying guys shouldn't just pay attention to the looks of girls. She's making it sound like good-looking girls are terrible. Why? She wants a bigger population of males to herself. She also mentions that she'd breakup with a guy if he was unemployed for a year. This is further proof that a woman's love is conditional.

Would you breakup with your girlfriend if she was unemployed for a year? Nope.
 

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JohnChops said:
Know this, women give the worst advice about women. That is all.
Getting advice from a woman is like getting advice from a burglar on how to keep your home secure.
 

usernamedox11

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4north1side2 said:
You are the biggest sucka in the world if you stay with an able unemployed bum beyond 3 months. That's ****ing ridiculous and the reason why a lot of men who have stay at home wives get played.

Sometimes it's hard finding a job in today's economy. It took a couple people I know 8-12 months to find jobs and finally get hired. They were also constantly always looking for jobs.

Btw, If I were married I'd prefer a stay at home wife to take care of the kids, clean, and cook. If she's not gonna do that, don't see the point to marriage.
 

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2:52...that's all I could take of that rambling twit.

I wonder how many guys she rejected during her high school days while she was growing up as a ''popular girl''. Jenna Marbles. Seriously?
 

adam225

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HyperAnalyze said:
Getting advice from a woman is like getting advice from a burglar on how to keep your home secure.
:crackup:

I agree. :yes:
 

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JohnChops said:
Know this, women give the worst advice about women. That is all.
This is usually true, for tons of reasons including:

(1) They have no experience dating women
(2) They often don't know what they want
(3) Even when they WANT something, giving it to them often LOWERS your chances (because what they want is to find A GUY, not to find you).

(3) is a key point many men do not realize. Women want you to take it slow and do all this other really bad dating strategy not to increase your chances with her but to delay her having to make a choice so she can explore other options etc.

As for why nice guys do not necessarily finish last.. it's quite simple really, it isn't that nice guys finish last, it is that guys who are not SEXUAL finish last. You have to be sexual.
 

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^^^Read this again!!!^^^

Women give the worst advice on dating women.

You don't ask Pokémon how to catch them, you ask someone who's great at catching them.
 

CrimsonPanther

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applegoo said:
Would you breakup with your girlfriend if she was unemployed for a year? Nope.

hell yeah i would. and i have. unemployed girl means only trouble. when girls have too much time on their hands, they will be bored. and girls chase away boredom with some good old drama. i don't need no drama.

i'd go as far as to say i wouldn't even consider LTR'ing a girl without job (except if she is a student)
 

jimjam

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Wow. She is classy, class e! Where can I get her number?
 

usernamedox11

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CrimsonPanther said:
hell yeah i would. and i have. unemployed girl means only trouble. when girls have too much time on their hands, they will be bored. and girls chase away boredom with some good old drama. i don't need no drama.

i'd go as far as to say i wouldn't even consider LTR'ing a girl without job (except if she is a student)

My ex was less drama when she was unemployed lol. It's all relative.
 

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Great thread! Though I have to say to HyperAnalyze asking a burgler how to secure your home probably would be a good idea, he'd know the trade secrets you should look at. Like how Hannibal helped the cop in Silence of the Lambs. Bad example but I know what you mean ;) loved the Pokemon quote haha

JoshSway has it down to a tee, basically women don't understand themselves, never mind their gender as a whole. I avoided telling a girl I was trying to f*ck that I was f*cking someone else as I was putting myself in her position. If I found out a girl was flirting with me and she was f*cking another guy I'd drop her like a stone (usually), whereas when she did find out she couldn't get my c*ck inside her soon enough.

Strange creatures.
 

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Espi said:
When a guy is unemployed, he is a "lazy bum."

When a woman is unemployed, she's being "discriminated against."
That's the truth right there.
The contrast is even greater considering that the vast majority of jobs lost in this economy have been "male" jobs.
 

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She's right.

If you're not getting laid AT ALL, it's NOT because you're too nice. It's may actually be because, among other possible things, you're an azzhole.

But, in addition, it's probably because you're too poor, too boring, too needy, or too unattractive. In addition to being an azzhole.
 
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