Gold Heart
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My second tip.
The minute you encounter these signs, you have an idea that she isn't someone worth your time.
o1. Flaky girls - This is the most common one. In fact, I had one of them call me up today to tell me that her grandmother was sick and had to take care of her when her grandma lives in another country! That's a straight up next. She either has a low interest level or is over-testing you.
o2. Not your type - If you're outgoing and fun, and she's very silent and shy, and can't make eye contact with you, she is either a shy girl which you don't want, inexperienced which you might not like, or just can't carry a convo. It depends on your taste. But if she is obviously not your type, and doesn't share the same interests, that is a definate next. Don't waste your precious time trying to make it work.
o3. Very busy and no time on their hands - This type of girl has a busy schedule and it's not because she's seeing other guys. Maybe she has 3 jobs and works 24/7 or has 10 extra curricular activities. She's not even avaliable on the weekends because she might have family problems. You won't enjoy this kind of girl. No matter how fine she is, it doesn't matter if she is a 10. She's undateable. And let me add, if she has more problems than you do, next her.
o4. No social life - If you are her only social life, I'd say you next her unless you're only out for a ONS (one night stand.) In a relationship or a person you are dating, you want to meet new people too. A girl comes with many other things than herself, and her friends are one of them. If she has no friends, you have nothing to gain. Maybe a new sex position or technique, but nothing too valuable in the long run. Remember: Girls come and go, but REAL friends are forever.
o5. Boyfriend - Unless you're out to steal her from her man or she obviously wants to be stolen by you, next her. Putting effort to be with her if she isn't interested in a side thing is a sure way to earn yourself an enemy. Depending on the type of person her boyfriend is, you might even earn yourself enemIES. Don't be an idiot, just next her.
o6. Too far away - This is mainly for LTR's but can also apply to other situations. If she suddenly moves away, like another country or coast to coast. Even out of state and she is NOT coming back, NEXT HER. If she IS coming back and you're already in a SERIOUS LTR (about a year) and you "love" her, tell her you two need to separate until she comes back. This way, you won't be lonely, and you never know, there might be a better girl coming your way!
Like all tips I've posted so far in the HS Forum or in here, I've done it from the top of my head. There may be MORE than 6 types of women, so FEEL FREE to add to this list. After all, SoSuave is a COMMUNITY. So add anything you feel I left out.
Good day fellas.
The minute you encounter these signs, you have an idea that she isn't someone worth your time.
o1. Flaky girls - This is the most common one. In fact, I had one of them call me up today to tell me that her grandmother was sick and had to take care of her when her grandma lives in another country! That's a straight up next. She either has a low interest level or is over-testing you.
o2. Not your type - If you're outgoing and fun, and she's very silent and shy, and can't make eye contact with you, she is either a shy girl which you don't want, inexperienced which you might not like, or just can't carry a convo. It depends on your taste. But if she is obviously not your type, and doesn't share the same interests, that is a definate next. Don't waste your precious time trying to make it work.
o3. Very busy and no time on their hands - This type of girl has a busy schedule and it's not because she's seeing other guys. Maybe she has 3 jobs and works 24/7 or has 10 extra curricular activities. She's not even avaliable on the weekends because she might have family problems. You won't enjoy this kind of girl. No matter how fine she is, it doesn't matter if she is a 10. She's undateable. And let me add, if she has more problems than you do, next her.
o4. No social life - If you are her only social life, I'd say you next her unless you're only out for a ONS (one night stand.) In a relationship or a person you are dating, you want to meet new people too. A girl comes with many other things than herself, and her friends are one of them. If she has no friends, you have nothing to gain. Maybe a new sex position or technique, but nothing too valuable in the long run. Remember: Girls come and go, but REAL friends are forever.
o5. Boyfriend - Unless you're out to steal her from her man or she obviously wants to be stolen by you, next her. Putting effort to be with her if she isn't interested in a side thing is a sure way to earn yourself an enemy. Depending on the type of person her boyfriend is, you might even earn yourself enemIES. Don't be an idiot, just next her.
o6. Too far away - This is mainly for LTR's but can also apply to other situations. If she suddenly moves away, like another country or coast to coast. Even out of state and she is NOT coming back, NEXT HER. If she IS coming back and you're already in a SERIOUS LTR (about a year) and you "love" her, tell her you two need to separate until she comes back. This way, you won't be lonely, and you never know, there might be a better girl coming your way!
Like all tips I've posted so far in the HS Forum or in here, I've done it from the top of my head. There may be MORE than 6 types of women, so FEEL FREE to add to this list. After all, SoSuave is a COMMUNITY. So add anything you feel I left out.
Good day fellas.
