nexting question?

[wvpimp00]

if you next a girl, does this include girl friends?
my girl frined hasnt called me or wanted ot hang out with me for liek 3 weeks, and thats a long time..
she tells me she has issues but she still goes partying a lot and goes out with friends..
and this is pretty messed up, at first i was sorta sad but now I odnt care.. really dont I just want to break it off because thats the only way she will ever treat me with Respect..
she told me last time when I walked away and came back that she was sooo happy to have me back and now that im back, she dont have ot fight for me anymore.. thats pretty harsh!

so what woudl you gusy do? Im thinking ignore her for a few days then when she starts wondering and asking me ot come see her, tell her we are OVER! is this a good or bad idea?
i still have feelings for her but i cant let her treat me liek crap..
no way no how!!!

 

[FlyGuy]

You've set up a pattern of behavior in this relationship in which she is in control. You can stick around and try to break this pattern if you want, personally I think it would be a better option for you to ditch her and start fresh with a new chick. Better yet, start looking for a new girl but don't ditch her yet. Keep her on the line for now... if she comes around you can get some easy sex but keep yourself EMOTIONALLY DISTANT from her. Don't call her, let her call you. Make her come to you! And like I said, in the mean time go out and work on finding a new woman. Once you get a few new girls in the mix, tell your girlfriend that you want to see other girls. Who knows, she might even get jealous and start fighting to keep you!

If you don't think you can be emotionally distant from her then don't bother with the games, just go next her now.

 

[wvpimp00]

I have already done the emotional distance thing, and thats why im bring up leaving her..
I have began to flirt and see other ladies, and its wonderful..
and they are always nice to me and usually make me forget her..
Peace...

 

[FlyGuy]

Word.

So then keep it up, but if you're getting frustrated with her and she's not responding then ditch her. Simple. Take it easy bro...

 

[wvpimp00]

yep im trying ot forget her, i have a few other females who are of interest to me right now.. but see im 18 and this one who i thinks really cool and use ot be a model also has a baby and shes 22..
makes me wonder what her habits and past lifestyle use to be..
but now she seems ot be really into her daughter and always makes sexual comments otwards me and does that whoel sexual harassment in the work place, but i like it so it isnt harrassment..
and then some other form where i workout at who i catch looking at me.. so who knows maybe it'll work out for me in the end.. since my g/f has always treated me liek crap maybe i'll find a good one and be happy for a while..

but thanks for the help, im out like a fat girl in dodge ball.. lataz..