On saturday night I got a few numbers, in particular this girl who seemed a bit pissed off already before I spoke to her. I kind of made fun of her about it and she was complaining about all of these guys who think they can just get a kiss or whatever without making any effort. We ended up exchanging numbers and having a brief kiss (on lips, but not a full on). She actually called me later that night but I was a bit busy at the time and basically pushed the convo to a close really quick.
Anyway 2 days later (yesterday) I called her on my land line (she didn't know this number) and pretty much said hi, and she HUNG UP THE PHONE! So I was like, she didn't even know who that was. I'll wait 10 mins and try again on my mobile cos she has that number. So 10 mins later I called, knowing my name came up in her phone. The line went dead. I think she hung up on me again, and this time knowing who I was.
I guess this would have been a good time to just delete the number! I nearly did. But I decided, persistance is worth giving her one least chance.
So I called back one last time, and she answered. Convo went something like this.
ME: hey
HER: Hey, how are you!
ME: yea good thanks. dont like strange numbers calling you eh?
HER: yea sorry about that I was on the toilet!
ME: hahah! that's the only excuse i would accept, you sure u are finished now? sounds a bit echoey
HER: yea im back in my room
ME: sounds like youre in a box. you live in a cupboard or something?
HER: yea the cupboard under the stairs
ME: you live in the cupboard? haha
HER: it's a palace!
ME: you got that cupboard decked out like a palace? four poster bed & chandeleir?
HER: yea, and it's all pink
ME: Sounds very girly. And you said you dont have a favourite color. I knew that was bull****.
HER: No, I really don't. Why does nobody believe me?
ME: because everyone has a favourite color. I think you're repressed.
HER: (laughin) repressed?
ME: yea, you have a favourite color deep down, but you can't handle the emotions and you've blocked them away. I knew you were a tough cookie to crack. You just need someone to open you up.
HER: (still laughin) Is that what you thought about me?
ME: Yea, to be honest, my first impressions of you were "she's a crabbit bastard" --- we say this in scotland, like "a moody *****"
HER: (laughs some more)
ME: But i got the feeling theres a sweet playful little girl trying to get out, that's why I kept talking to you.
HER: Yea maybe youre right...
Some more banter about the nighth we met, similar vibe with me making fun of her in a playful way. I arranged to meet her in the city centre near where she lives 2 days later. I didn't actually arrange a place to meet, just said I'd call her when I get into town. She said she's be "waiting for the call". Whole conversation lasted about 20-25 mins, and I think we had a good vibe and rapport. I got pretty close to being "rude" and got away with it. But I seriously think she was enjoying it. I've really paraphrased it best I could and missed loads out, but the playful sarcastic vibe.
Anyhow, she just sent me a text message with a pretty lame excuse to cancel. Didn't suggest another meeting. I don't really like her lol, but she's hot and I'd like to get physical.
Not sure if it's worth trying to set another date. Any thoughts?
Anyway 2 days later (yesterday) I called her on my land line (she didn't know this number) and pretty much said hi, and she HUNG UP THE PHONE! So I was like, she didn't even know who that was. I'll wait 10 mins and try again on my mobile cos she has that number. So 10 mins later I called, knowing my name came up in her phone. The line went dead. I think she hung up on me again, and this time knowing who I was.
I guess this would have been a good time to just delete the number! I nearly did. But I decided, persistance is worth giving her one least chance.
So I called back one last time, and she answered. Convo went something like this.
ME: hey
HER: Hey, how are you!
ME: yea good thanks. dont like strange numbers calling you eh?
HER: yea sorry about that I was on the toilet!
ME: hahah! that's the only excuse i would accept, you sure u are finished now? sounds a bit echoey
HER: yea im back in my room
ME: sounds like youre in a box. you live in a cupboard or something?
HER: yea the cupboard under the stairs
ME: you live in the cupboard? haha
HER: it's a palace!
ME: you got that cupboard decked out like a palace? four poster bed & chandeleir?
HER: yea, and it's all pink
ME: Sounds very girly. And you said you dont have a favourite color. I knew that was bull****.
HER: No, I really don't. Why does nobody believe me?
ME: because everyone has a favourite color. I think you're repressed.
HER: (laughin) repressed?
ME: yea, you have a favourite color deep down, but you can't handle the emotions and you've blocked them away. I knew you were a tough cookie to crack. You just need someone to open you up.
HER: (still laughin) Is that what you thought about me?
ME: Yea, to be honest, my first impressions of you were "she's a crabbit bastard" --- we say this in scotland, like "a moody *****"
HER: (laughs some more)
ME: But i got the feeling theres a sweet playful little girl trying to get out, that's why I kept talking to you.
HER: Yea maybe youre right...
Some more banter about the nighth we met, similar vibe with me making fun of her in a playful way. I arranged to meet her in the city centre near where she lives 2 days later. I didn't actually arrange a place to meet, just said I'd call her when I get into town. She said she's be "waiting for the call". Whole conversation lasted about 20-25 mins, and I think we had a good vibe and rapport. I got pretty close to being "rude" and got away with it. But I seriously think she was enjoying it. I've really paraphrased it best I could and missed loads out, but the playful sarcastic vibe.
Anyhow, she just sent me a text message with a pretty lame excuse to cancel. Didn't suggest another meeting. I don't really like her lol, but she's hot and I'd like to get physical.
Not sure if it's worth trying to set another date. Any thoughts?