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bugsquish

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On saturday night I got a few numbers, in particular this girl who seemed a bit pissed off already before I spoke to her. I kind of made fun of her about it and she was complaining about all of these guys who think they can just get a kiss or whatever without making any effort. We ended up exchanging numbers and having a brief kiss (on lips, but not a full on). She actually called me later that night but I was a bit busy at the time and basically pushed the convo to a close really quick.

Anyway 2 days later (yesterday) I called her on my land line (she didn't know this number) and pretty much said hi, and she HUNG UP THE PHONE! So I was like, she didn't even know who that was. I'll wait 10 mins and try again on my mobile cos she has that number. So 10 mins later I called, knowing my name came up in her phone. The line went dead. I think she hung up on me again, and this time knowing who I was.

I guess this would have been a good time to just delete the number! I nearly did. But I decided, persistance is worth giving her one least chance.

So I called back one last time, and she answered. Convo went something like this.

ME: hey
HER: Hey, how are you!
ME: yea good thanks. dont like strange numbers calling you eh?
HER: yea sorry about that I was on the toilet!
ME: hahah! that's the only excuse i would accept, you sure u are finished now? sounds a bit echoey
HER: yea im back in my room
ME: sounds like youre in a box. you live in a cupboard or something?
HER: yea the cupboard under the stairs
ME: you live in the cupboard? haha
HER: it's a palace!
ME: you got that cupboard decked out like a palace? four poster bed & chandeleir?
HER: yea, and it's all pink
ME: Sounds very girly. And you said you dont have a favourite color. I knew that was bull****.
HER: No, I really don't. Why does nobody believe me?
ME: because everyone has a favourite color. I think you're repressed.
HER: (laughin) repressed?
ME: yea, you have a favourite color deep down, but you can't handle the emotions and you've blocked them away. I knew you were a tough cookie to crack. You just need someone to open you up.
HER: (still laughin) Is that what you thought about me?
ME: Yea, to be honest, my first impressions of you were "she's a crabbit bastard" --- we say this in scotland, like "a moody *****"
HER: (laughs some more)
ME: But i got the feeling theres a sweet playful little girl trying to get out, that's why I kept talking to you.
HER: Yea maybe youre right...

Some more banter about the nighth we met, similar vibe with me making fun of her in a playful way. I arranged to meet her in the city centre near where she lives 2 days later. I didn't actually arrange a place to meet, just said I'd call her when I get into town. She said she's be "waiting for the call". Whole conversation lasted about 20-25 mins, and I think we had a good vibe and rapport. I got pretty close to being "rude" and got away with it. But I seriously think she was enjoying it. I've really paraphrased it best I could and missed loads out, but the playful sarcastic vibe.

Anyhow, she just sent me a text message with a pretty lame excuse to cancel. Didn't suggest another meeting. I don't really like her lol, but she's hot and I'd like to get physical.

Not sure if it's worth trying to set another date. Any thoughts?
 

AKA FLEX

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What did the barber say? "NEXT!"

This is the type of situation that usually happens when you try to call a chick whose # you get at a bar or club. That's why when I meet a chick at a place like that, I'll try for the f-close that night, and if it doesn't happen, good riddance. I don't even go for the # at that point, and if she gives it to me anyway, I don't call.
 

COD

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I disagree......heres why.........she's hot, you are interested.

U made the effort to meet so when a chic gives you a little resistance you give up.............nah you are better than that.

First forget the unknown number stuff...........its 2008 use a enticing text to get her to answer your call.

Next..........wait a day or so and say "whats up with cancelling on my a ss......this is all new to me, not used to kinda cute chics kicking me to the curb. I got my nails done, got some new threads, had tickets to blah blah and was planning a great dinner at yada yada"...........its okay to stretch this part.....your goal is to make her feel bad with an obvious sense of humor.

Then INFORM HER WHERE YOU WILL MEET............."here is what I am going to do....what day do U have available............great..........meet me at XYZ bar......and you better not excuse your way out of this"

Lastly........number closes at clubs require more comfort building to avoid flaking. Extracting digits too fast increases your flake percentage on average.

LET US KNOW WHAT HAPPENS......and who's advice worked the best........AHEM........TOOT TOOT!!!!
 

Jeffst1980

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I agree with COD. Don't next her yet. Send a text or call her and tell her that she owes you for canceling like that. Tell her you want her to make you dinner in her cupboard palace, even if she can't cook--otherwise you want a divorce. She seems like she responds well to humor and fantasy, and you have the conversational skills to win this one over.
 
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