next or not

[MacAvoy]

I have been seeing this one girl since New Years eve. We talked for a couple months prior to that.

I have kept it very casual and non-commital. Early on she tried to make it exclusive but I nixed that pretty quickly. Since then, she hasn't tried to force the issue. Although a couple of times she asked if I was seeing anyone else, I said no at the time but I have since seen other women. (I was upset at her one weekend so I went out and laid 2 different women)

There have been several times wheres she has upset me and I simply withdraw slightly and punish her. I know this has no long term possibilities, even if she thinks otherwise.

So my question is, should I keep her hanging around for the occasional lay. She knows I am very busy and that is the perfect excuse to keep her at bay or should I totally next her?

 

[CyranoDeBergerac]

When in doubt next.

You already said you have no further use for her, so why keep her around as long as you can get laid elsewhere?

Oh yeah, and then there's that courtesy of not leading a person on. You don't like it when women do it to men and what's good for the goose is ood for the gander.

 

[ScrewIt]

if she still has a high IL in you, dont Next her just yet.
keep the game going.

but if you find out she's starting to flake on you, NEXT!

 

[MacAvoy]

She has very high IL in me. Oh yea, one of the reasons why there is no ltr potential from my aspect is because she was just divorced last year. She found out her husband was cheating in the fall. She said she had her rebound guy already, but I know she still has sh1t to deal with.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Why would you next a perfectly good lay you can have whenever you practically want without strings attached?

 

[Genghis Juan]

I agree with CyranoDeBergerac, I wouldn't string her along and play word games with her. What goes around comes around. If you found out a girl was stringing you along you would next her in a second right?

If you're getting laid and action from other girls, just cut this one loose. Another reason to next her would be her excess baggage. Screw that.