NEXT! (Bluelemond gets his wish)

[The Comeback Kid]

I know some of you haven't read my last two threads regarding one particular girl:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=84148

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=83263

At first, she seems liek the greatest thing since sliced bread. But as I soon discovered, she is very weird.

I'll keep the story short...Me and this girl began talking again (we knew each other before) and this past Monday, I asked her about "hanging out" with me (just a start - don't worry, I didn't really ask her out). She eagerly said yes. Later that day, in school, she said she'd go anywher, although she is busy with volleyball. Either way, times were very good.

That night began the mayhem. First, I discovered she BLOCKED me online. Then in school, she starts avoiding me! She lowered her shield a tiny bit a couple days later and did not run when she saw me coming anymore. Still, she had my blocked online and did not talk to me.

Today, I snapped. When she walked swiftly by me without a word and hugged and talked to some kid I really dislike (he doesn't give anyone any intimate space, as he wraps his arm around everyone and is also an a**hole). That was it - I had to do it. I went to her locker and, like a man on a mission, got my point across (no more Mr. Nice Guy). I "said" that I haven't seen her around lately. She said she was really busy, but choked on her alabi. I said "eh nooooo....I dunno about that." Then, as I left, I said "good luck" cuz she was wearing her V-Ball uniform and by the time she said thanks, I was long gone.

NEXT!! :woo: :woo:

P.S. Every person I talked to had absolutely no clue what the girl was doing. No one, not even her guy friends knew about this and for the one guy friend she has that I know, he said what she is doing is very weird. He'll try to get out of her why she's doing it. My friend did a little victory dance for correctly guessing the girl is likely crazy. He told me that he sees the girl as a big tease and a person who likes to play mind games (to increase her "power").

 

[GateKeeper]

You handled that...gracefully...

I honestly don't think I would have been that nice... lol

 

[Anomalous]

Wow, seems like you really respect bluelemond.

Anyways, how did homecoming go? Who did you go with?

Oh, don't act like you need her, YOUR THE MAN, SHE IS TRYING TO WORK FOR YOUR APPORVAL.

Your a senior so, don't get played by a softmore. Act like your the sh*t and don't act a nice and such, because your older than her, don't bring yourself down to her level.

I see it over, so at least you learn a lesson.!

 

[The Comeback Kid]

Originally posted by whyshy
Wow, seems like you really respect bluelemond.

Anyways, how did homecoming go? Who did you go with?

Oh, don't act like you need her, YOUR THE MAN, SHE IS TRYING TO WORK FOR YOUR APPORVAL.

Your a senior so, don't get played by a softmore. Act like your the sh*t and don't act a nice and such, because your older than her, don't bring yourself down to her level.

I see it over, so at least you learn a lesson.!

Homecoming isn't for another month, so I got time.

I know I may have been a little "nice" about the whole thing, but again, it's really the first time I ever did it (I also had to get to class in one minute, but I won't get into that). Also, if she tries anything again (either like this or if she wants us to get together), then I keep nearly the same demeanor, except not as nice (consistency). So when she tries one of her mind games, it isn't going to work, and i'll let her know that.

As for Bluelemond, no, I didn't do it solely b/c he said so. When he said it, I actually disagreed with him. As the week went on, I started playing out some possible scenerios in my head and when the girl was going a little over the top in her mind games, I got really pissed. When that happened, I went right up to her and did my thing - which did end up being what Bluelemond said.

She's a Junior (I am a Senior though) and don't worry - I'm not going down to her level. Considering her friends even thought this was weird (and they didn't even know about it), I don't think I really did much wrong. As you said whyshy, yes, she is working for my approval - I have control.

Originally posted by GateKeeper
You handled that...gracefully...

I honestly don't think I would have been that nice... lol

As I mentioned before, I know I was a little "nice". One other reason for beling a little leiniant is that I don't want to completely burn the bridge between us. I don't want it to be so we hate each other. He**, I bet she doesn't even realize what I did yet. But, if I put a little "nice" in there, then it doesn't completel knock out us getting along (like as friends). Anyway, think how fun it will be if she starts coming back to me. :crackup:

 

[S-lemond]

lol well bluelemond is decent most of the time! so i do appolade u for taking his advice

 

[S-lemond]

but remeber sometimes ppls advice can go wrong...becuase we might not know exactly how the situation is going(ie: u might of left some detail out)

 

[The Comeback Kid]

Originally posted by E_ze05
but remeber sometimes ppls advice can go wrong...becuase we might not know exactly how the situation is going(ie: u might of left some detail out)

Well, I didn't update this thread lately.

Apparently, I found out what is probably happening. I happen to know and get along with her best guy friend (he's usually a good guy who can be counted on for these situations) and in short, he told me she's a b*tch. Now, he didn't actually say this, but I think he was trying her get around it (this is paraphrased so the idea flows smoothly):

"The girl is just being herself. If she doesn't want to be bothered with, she'll make it noticable. Also, if she's not acting like a friend to TCK, then TCK shouldn't act like a friend to her. The girl wants to be left alone - that's just the way she is."

He also advised mke to just stay away from her right now so no big blowups emerge.

There you go - that's what's been up with this girl (most likely). I know I shouldn't totally believe everything he says, but I can see the girl acting like this.