Welcome to the forum newbies and thank you for taking the time to read the newbie FAQ. We enjoy new contributions to the forum; however, make sure you try to find the answer to a question before asking it. The answers to most of your questions can usually be found in the bible, by using the search function, and throughout the DJ website. Do not waste our space and time by posting questions that have already been posted before. We refuse to answer these questions until an honest effort to find the answers elsewhere has been made. Whether you know it or not, many good posts are lost due to your repetitive questions and we find this to be a great disrespect to those who took their time and effort to post good advice many can benefit from. You simply cannot expect for everything to come quick and easy all the time. Remember, patience is a big part of becoming a DJ, you cannot rely on Instant Gratification to provide your every needs. Show some respect for those who post good advice and quit wasting our space. Thank you for your time.
Q: There's this one girl that I like, how do i get her to like/love/want to sleep with me?
A: This has to be the most commonly asked newbie question... ever! Let me ask you something, if you could have more attractive, smarter, nicer girls attracted to you, would you still want that girl? Of course not! Your in high school, your not ready to get married! The solution? Forget about the girl, love yourself, improve yourself, become a DJ. Even if you still want her after all this (which i can assure you, you wont
) you could have her whenever you want. I know this from personal experience.
Q: But this girl is different, she's not like other girls...
A: Stop!! I don't want to hear it, do what i said, then come back.
Q: This girl, she looked at me/flipped her hair at me/talked to me/approached me/etc. Does she like me?
A: Don't worry about the signs she gives. Stop trying to analyse her every move. The key to confidence is to assume she's into you and have fun with her. Do NOT put a woman on a pedestal.
Q: But, what if she's not into me...
A: Don't worry about that. By assuming she's already into you, you'll portray an aura of confidence, thus attracting her and soon she will be into you. Your thoughts will become self-fulfilling prophecies!
Q: There's this girl that I want to approach, how do i do it?
A: There are alot of answers to this stuff all over this forum, but you dont want to go searching for it do you? Then the best advice i can give you is: Grab your balls and do it! (Not literally) By doing that you get used to approaching, and it gets your confidence up.
Q: She rejected me! Im going to die, what should i do?
Okay, it's not that bad, she misses out not you! Just move on for more girls. Remember, rejection builds to your character, you start to get used to rejection and it adds to your confidence. Rejection = Confidence, Confidence = Less Rejections.
There's only a couple of questions there I know, but i will add more later, feel free DJ's to add a Q/A that you find excessively repetitive. I will add any i notice.
This was the working of Sammo and Bedford.
P.S This isn't short because im lazy it's short because we have come to the assumption that alot of newbie's dont want to read.
Q: There's this one girl that I like, how do i get her to like/love/want to sleep with me?
A: This has to be the most commonly asked newbie question... ever! Let me ask you something, if you could have more attractive, smarter, nicer girls attracted to you, would you still want that girl? Of course not! Your in high school, your not ready to get married! The solution? Forget about the girl, love yourself, improve yourself, become a DJ. Even if you still want her after all this (which i can assure you, you wont
) you could have her whenever you want. I know this from personal experience.Q: But this girl is different, she's not like other girls...
A: Stop!! I don't want to hear it, do what i said, then come back.
Q: This girl, she looked at me/flipped her hair at me/talked to me/approached me/etc. Does she like me?
A: Don't worry about the signs she gives. Stop trying to analyse her every move. The key to confidence is to assume she's into you and have fun with her. Do NOT put a woman on a pedestal.
Q: But, what if she's not into me...
A: Don't worry about that. By assuming she's already into you, you'll portray an aura of confidence, thus attracting her and soon she will be into you. Your thoughts will become self-fulfilling prophecies!
Q: There's this girl that I want to approach, how do i do it?
A: There are alot of answers to this stuff all over this forum, but you dont want to go searching for it do you? Then the best advice i can give you is: Grab your balls and do it! (Not literally) By doing that you get used to approaching, and it gets your confidence up.
Q: She rejected me! Im going to die, what should i do?
Okay, it's not that bad, she misses out not you! Just move on for more girls. Remember, rejection builds to your character, you start to get used to rejection and it adds to your confidence. Rejection = Confidence, Confidence = Less Rejections.
There's only a couple of questions there I know, but i will add more later, feel free DJ's to add a Q/A that you find excessively repetitive. I will add any i notice.
This was the working of Sammo and Bedford.
P.S This isn't short because im lazy it's short because we have come to the assumption that alot of newbie's dont want to read.