New Years Resolution... I will revamp my self completely.

[jdawgmcb]

Yes, i am still considered a high school student, but i AM attending a college most of the time, with a few classes at high school... I wanted the input of the pick up masters so i posted it here.

I will be posting updates daily/weekly/monthly, whenever i feel like it.

"Don't be yourself, improve yourself." -Unknown

Cliffnotes for lazy people:
Tired of being a gym rat that gets nothing accomplished
Tired of people treating me beta
Found PUA community a few months ago, fell in love
Want to revamp 2008, for it to be great.

Alright guys, it's almost time for 2008... The year where I will be great. (no pun intended)

I'm ready to completely step up my game and lose that v-card of mine.

I've watched videos, read several different books, and i'm ready to completely revamp my game.

My GOALS for the new year(By The End):
Number Close at least 5-10 times a WEEK
Date at least once a week
Open at least 50 sets per week
Sleep with at least 5 women by the end of the year (unless LTR happens..which probably won't )
Be able to successfully enter and win over a 5 set with 4 AMOGs..alone

What has been done:
Lost old look, completely revamped clothes...Diesel jeans, armani, SOME abercrombie (not much), INC, CK, D&G, new fragrances...completely revamped look.. much <3 to the end of the year prices

Solid workout regiment for the last few years, but been to reliant on it... now know that the gym is a healthy medium to picking up...not all of it.

Learned that there is no such thing as "not in my league" for women.

Learned to identify IOIs and IODs

Here's my goals set by the months:

January:
Number close a set successfully
Set up a date
Open at least 200 sets
At least 50 cold approaches, 25 with wing, 25 without
Develop a reliable wingman, someone that knows well

February:
Kiss close a cold approach set
Open at least 200 more sets
50 cold approaches, solo
Have date BY valentines day


March:
Engage in intercourse for the first time with a pick up using the method
Open 200 more sets
Set up at least 5 number closes

April:
Successfully use the Boyfriend Destroyer from a known approach (someone previously acquainted/known)
200 more opens
Begin cold approaching older women

May:
Successfully open a set with AMOG present and blow him out of set
200 more opens
Open a hired help (waiter, cashier, etc)

June:
100 cold approaches at random locations (not school), completely solo
Number Closed at least 20 classmates
Cold approach an AMOG 4 set with 3 AMOGs and one HB and blow all 3 AMOGs out

July:
**Summer Starts**
Go out at least 3 times a week
Cold approach at least 100 times a week
Number close at least 20 sets

August:
Have successfully completed the game on at least 3 targets by birthday
At least number close HB that's 5 years older
Continue Cold approaches

September:
Be able to out AMOG biggest football player in a group
Successfully use boyfriend destroyer at least 5 HBs...Cold approach or acquaintance
Acquire PUA status

October:
Successfully have a student Number close a cold approach
Be known as the "alpha" male
More cold approaches

November:
Successfully finish 5th completion by thanksgiving
Have people ASKING me to teach them

December:
Successfully complete 2 targets before christmas
Be known as a "PUG" (pick up guru)
Completely enjoy life to the fullest extent.

 

[3countriesPlan]

You are going to be known as an "alpha male" starting in October? It will be hard to assess if you have met your goals. Good luck, remember to that once you start revamping yourself, there is no going back. You can do it!

 

[jdawgmcb]

Well, by "alpha" male, i mean that everyone knows that... Of course i still will try to convey an alpha personality, even now.

 

[saber]

6-7 sets a day is a little lofty but better to overshoot than under

 

[delta545]

dude, that's a good plan. I'm still new to this, but I hope you can follow all that schedule of yours. For me, I'm just going to take it week by week.

 

[j0n024]

Good job man!!!!! Hopefully it works out for you but remember you gotta pop some fireworks so the magic can happen lol... UPDATE!!!! regulary

 

[jdawgmcb]

I will be posting updates as soon as my new years party that i attend is over ... best to get a good start at the beginning!

I really appreciate the support guys...and as far as 6-7 sets a day..im gonna do it....or at least try to, i really need to work on my 3 second rule following.

 

[jdawgmcb]

Alright, my wardrobe is coming into play a little bit more, i've picked up some stuff from stores like express, armani, banana republic, etc...

I'm just having a hard time finding some peacocking necklaces and other items.

Can you other DJ's help meo ut before the end of the year?

 

[j0n024]

I got a wristband but that's all I dont think you need to go super crazy just buy things that you like you know....Good luck and cant wait!!!!!

 

[jdawgmcb]

Thanks.

Alright, i have one more problem...

None of my friends are very developed with the whole wingman thing, they don't understand how to properly "remove" any obstacles i may face in a set, and are, quite frankley, too dumb to understand how it works.

How can i go about finding someone that knows the direct rules of the wingman game? I've done it for them multiple times.

 

[synergy1]

sorry to say it, but you will not go from virgin to taking girls away from athletes in a matter of a year. Unrealistic expectations can make an otherwise admirable effort very sour.

 

[PrinceBeavis]

Yeah, New Years Resolutions are crap. It's got to be an everyday thing.

 

[jdawgmcb]

sorry to say it, but you will not go from virgin to taking girls away from athletes in a matter of a year. Unrealistic expectations can make an otherwise admirable effort very sour.

Then what do you recommend?

 

[The Deacon]

I like your attitude for the most part. The only real problem I see here is that you're kind of addressing your "outer game" stuff. Wearing nice clothes is good, going to the gym is good, but it just sounds a tad ridiculous to me to just have like, this step-by-step process, but you know what? If this gets you the women you want, I am required by man-law to respect a player, even if what you're doing sounds a little ridiculous.

If you want to have success with women throughout the year,though, I highly suggest you be aware that your "inner game" is far more important than the clothes you wear and how big your muscles are. The most important thing is that you keep pushing the boundaries of your comfort zone until you're calibrated enough to handle any social situation. Don't be too discouraged by failure and all that stupid stuff.

Oh yeah, a little side note: if your frame is strong enough, a girl will be interested even if she gives you visible IODs. It's hard to explain, but imagine you're the star quarterback of the Green Bay Packers and you just won the superbowl, and right after you win the game you go to a bar with your big@$$ ring and put the moves on a chick. What would you do?

I personally would take out my cell phone and say "what's your number," and if she gives me IODs it wouldn't matter because I would be so thoroughly convinced that I was the shiznit she would end up supporting my frame.

Alpha males tend to draw people with weaker realities into their own reality. This also helps explain why you'd hear some hot chicks say "I don't like him, he's a ****y jerk" but end up making out with him the next week. Although she has communicated what seemed like disinterest, her reality wasn't strong enough to overpower his, and the so-called "****y jerk" gets the girl. You know what the funny part is? The chick loves every second of it, no matter what bullcrap she'll tell you about "being nice," but you already knew that from reading the posts here.

 

[synergy1]

Then what do you recommend?

Tyler Durden was the kind of guy who thought it was necessary to obliterate his competition. Ultimately, I believe this is his fatal flaw. Rather than try to out alpha male these guys, you are much better off with alternative approaches.

I have been to parties with athletes at the professional level. One thing I will say is good luck trying to pull girls from them. I was the kind of guy who at parties could make new friends as quickly as the old friends left, and used this to my advantage. I made friends with the guys who were running the party, and had them bringing girls to us. Appeal to anyones self interest in a tactful manner, and you'll find that 100 times more useful than trying to "out alpha" them.

 

[jdawgmcb]

Alright, here's how i've been working on "inner game" for those of you.

I did 3 cold approaches today, none of them turned out so well, i need to work on the opening...and build of confidence.

Essentially, the clothes, gym, etc is just to help me build confidence in itself.

As far as completely obliterating the competition, that's not what i'm out to do... I want to have as much sexual selection as possible, because, if i am unable to attract women of my liking, i am, by definition, sterile.

It's not that i want to take girls away from athletes, but if i'm interested, i'm going to approach them normally... I don't want to let a simple little obstacle like a boyfriend get in the way.

 

[jdawgmcb]

Alright, unfortunately, i was unable to find a new years celebration that i could attend with HBs available at it for sarging (yeah, bummer, believe me)

However, i can't let that ruin my resolution at all, 2008 is going to be wonderful, and everything is gonna start all over again.

I've been working on my inner game more, and i need to work on my kino escalation as well as my openers...otherwise i'm pretty good

 

[jdawgmcb]

Update on the first day of school after new years.

Alright, here's my problem..there aren't very many HBs for me to choose from at my school, so i may transfer or begin to do some heavy sarging..

I had two successful opens today that did some rapport devleoping, but the problem is that these people have known me for a while.

I did manage to blow an AMOG out of a set when he tried to invade though, that raised my confidence a LOT.

 

[MooseGod]

It's good to have goals man, but come on... goals on number closes? approaches? Trying to be an "alpha male" overnight? You're putting too much pressure on yourself and taking all the fun out of something that is supposed to be just that...fun.

Learn to flirt. Have fun. Smile more. Be positive. Talk to everyone you meet. Being self-possessed and confident goes way farther with girls than being more of an alpha male douche than the other guy. It's easy to tell when people are trying too hard.

Props for realizing something has to change and working to affect it. Good luck in the new year.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Im gonna bookmark this threak and maybe ill do the same as you .. i like ur goals for this year .. by the end of the year ur gonna be mPUA i think .