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Complicated

Don Juan
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There is this woman that I am intrested in but I am not sure exactly what I should do at this point.

A little back ground......We grew up in the same town. She is about 4 years younger than me and we did really hang in the same circle. I knew who she was b/c my sister is the same age. About a year ago she comes into the local bar and we end up dancing. While we are dancing she tells me that she has always had this huge crush on me. Great right? Nope at this time she is engaged to be married and about a month later gets married.

Fast Forward to about a month ago......Someone out of the blue walks up to me and tells me this same woman is getting a divorce and moving back home. She is one of my myspace friends so I decide to send her a message and see what she's been up to. She replies, tells me she has been thinking about emailing me, tells me she is getting a divorce and moving back to town, and that we should get together. We exchange numbers.

The weekend before Thanksgivng I run into her at the bar she runs up to me and hugs me we talk for a few minutes then I have to go back to my date for the evening. She calls a few days later says it wld great to see me etc etc. I see her again the night after Thanksgiving same thing runs up to me hugs me we chat I go back to my date. Whe we were talking I tell her about this new bar that myself and some friends tried a few weeks before and she tells that she has heard about and that the two of us should go and check it out. Later that night a friend of mine tells me that the next night the new bar is suppose be kicking b/c of the band they are having. So later that night I tell her about is and ask her to join me the next night. She tells me that she would like to go and to call her the next day. I call her that next afternoon and she is not sure if she can go tells me she will call me back. She calls back says she can't go, but that she will be moving back home in a few weeks and that we definately needed to go then. i act like things don't bother me and tell her I'll talk to her later.

At this point I'm not really sure what my next move should be.
 

Charm

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Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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