Hi guys, I just wanted to introduce myself.
I'm new on this forum, but have been visiting sosuave.com and this forum for about 2 years now. Great stuff! It's done a lot of good for me as far as how I view myself and females. I now carry myself with confidence, and I'm proud to be who I am.
Now for the not so good. I've realized that I am a real man, an alpha male, in every aspect of my life except with women.
I can catch fish all day long while everyone else is catching rocks, if my Jeep breaks, I can fix it with a pack of gum and a rubber band, I can turn a tree into a fine piece of furniture, ect, ect; in other words I'm a dude that a lot of other dudes want to be (and women want to be with). My buddies view me as a real man with real skills, and they ask me how to do things. In a lot of ways I'm their leader.
But I can't get a chick. I can't even imagine what it would be like to get a chick at this point, because its been so long since I've even had a chance. Now that I realize who I am, what I am, and what I want to be, girls are noticing me, because I am carrying myself like a man, not a chump, and not an arrogant tool either. How do I get to the next stage, where I can actually just go up to the chick that I want, club her over the head and drag her into the cave (metaphorically speaking of course!)? I've been reading this DJ stuff for a long time; I refer the the bible and this site all the time, and I really try to change my mental state. However, I can't seem to shake the irrational and emasculating fear that I get when I see a girl that I like. And even if I do muster up the huevos to talk to her, I end up messing up something and turing her off.
Things were bad when I was down on myself and I thought that no woman would ever want me, but its 10x worse now that I know that lots of females want me and I don't know what to do about it.
I need some help!!!
TIA.
I'm new on this forum, but have been visiting sosuave.com and this forum for about 2 years now. Great stuff! It's done a lot of good for me as far as how I view myself and females. I now carry myself with confidence, and I'm proud to be who I am.
Now for the not so good. I've realized that I am a real man, an alpha male, in every aspect of my life except with women.
I can catch fish all day long while everyone else is catching rocks, if my Jeep breaks, I can fix it with a pack of gum and a rubber band, I can turn a tree into a fine piece of furniture, ect, ect; in other words I'm a dude that a lot of other dudes want to be (and women want to be with). My buddies view me as a real man with real skills, and they ask me how to do things. In a lot of ways I'm their leader.
But I can't get a chick. I can't even imagine what it would be like to get a chick at this point, because its been so long since I've even had a chance. Now that I realize who I am, what I am, and what I want to be, girls are noticing me, because I am carrying myself like a man, not a chump, and not an arrogant tool either. How do I get to the next stage, where I can actually just go up to the chick that I want, club her over the head and drag her into the cave (metaphorically speaking of course!)? I've been reading this DJ stuff for a long time; I refer the the bible and this site all the time, and I really try to change my mental state. However, I can't seem to shake the irrational and emasculating fear that I get when I see a girl that I like. And even if I do muster up the huevos to talk to her, I end up messing up something and turing her off.
Things were bad when I was down on myself and I thought that no woman would ever want me, but its 10x worse now that I know that lots of females want me and I don't know what to do about it.
I need some help!!!
TIA.
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