Hey guys! I have to say, this is a damn cool site. Man, my buddy showed it to me and i have just been soaking up all the info for the past few weeks. The advice is excellent (in general), and it is great to find a place where us guys can talk about stuff that is important (seems to be women) to us. Anyway, this might be a bit of a long post, but here goes...ill give some info about myself first.
First off, im 29 years old, and most of my life i would like to think i have been pretty successful with women. I have had many steady girlfriends and have had sex with more than i can count on two hands. Not that that is something to totally brag about, but i digress. As you can see from my nick, I am ****y. I have been called an a**hole (almost always in a funny, endearing way) by most people i know. I wont brag, but i have the gift of gab and i am not ashamed to use it. All of my friends, and most people i know, are jealous of my conversational ability and wicked, sharp humor. Women usually do 2 things with me, laugh (a lot, as i said, i am very funny...again, not to brag) and secretly 'hate' my 'attitude'. Which, from what i have read in the 'Bible' and Pook's posts, is a 'good thing'.
I also would like to think (and, again, i have been told) that i am good looking ( i would rate myself about a 8.5) and well dressed. I am tall, blonde, blue eyed, with a thinner build (6'2" 165).Again, just a reminder, im not bragging at all.....i am not a huge self promoter, and im sure there are people on this forum who are worse
Anyway......i guess i should ask my question then huh?
Ok.....here goes.....back in April i met a chick (formally for the first time, but we have seen each other and talked many times before), and we exchanged phone numbers (the hook being that she had 'computer problems' and i was knowledgeable) and we started 'hanging out' within a week or so. The first 'date' we had, we went out for dinner, then went for a drive. We clicked INSTANTLY. My sense of humor kept her in stitches, and our conversation flowed like water. We drove down to a river area around my city, away from things, and sat and chatted for a while. She told me she was just getting divorce papers because her and her husband didnt work out after 3 years ( hopefully im not rambling, i know most of the posts on here are long Anyway, since we hit it off so well, she jumped on me and we started making out big time........
.......This continued to her place, where we sat and stared into each other's eyes and caressed and kissed until like 5 in the morning. It was like nothing i have ever experienced, and again, i HAVE plenty of experience ( i might also add, that she mentioned to me later on that she was at work one day and swooned so bad when she thought about kissing me that she almost collapsed. So, this happened 2 nights in a row. And then she started telling me how she wasnt sure, yada yada (FYI: her divorce STILL isnt final...although she assures me 'it is SO over')......and i was thinking......****ydude.....WTF......did you just get used?
Okay....so fast forward over the last few months. We chat on MSN, talk on the phone occasionally, we went out to a play a couple weeks ago. We also watched a movie at her place a couple weeks ago (here is the meat of the post), and all night, she was dropping signals like no tomorrow....putting her hand near mine on the couch......joking about kissing and making out.....and i KNEW what was going on......now, im not going to say i pulled an AFC, because i wasnt focusing on the movie, i was sitting there thinking what the possible outcomes could be if i jumped her (besides the sex part), and not that it scared me, but......her qualities make her real relationship material for me......and that is what i am looking for (and apparently, she is as well)......now, these type of things happen somewhat regularly with us, in all honesty......it is like an exciting game of chess.
I have confessed to her a little while back that i am crazy about her.....and she says she feels the same things, but then says she isnt sure about what she feels in 'her heart'.... but she is obviously in a position (divorce and all)....and how that can make her life situation more difficult is up for debate. So (finally, you all say!!), my question is........and dont AFC flame me for this..... but, it would seem to me that she has bigtime feelings for me (she has very obviously stated it in a few ways, but then again, like a woman, changes them here and there)......so.......
QUESTION!! IS IT POSSIBLE to salvage a killer relationship out of this 'friendship' we are having......because the tension is there......i know we both want it.....but she (obviously) makes it a little less clear. WHEW!!!!! Okay, thanks guys for reading my little story I now open up the floor for the debate And ill try to make future posts a little less lengthy
First off, im 29 years old, and most of my life i would like to think i have been pretty successful with women. I have had many steady girlfriends and have had sex with more than i can count on two hands. Not that that is something to totally brag about, but i digress. As you can see from my nick, I am ****y. I have been called an a**hole (almost always in a funny, endearing way) by most people i know. I wont brag, but i have the gift of gab and i am not ashamed to use it. All of my friends, and most people i know, are jealous of my conversational ability and wicked, sharp humor. Women usually do 2 things with me, laugh (a lot, as i said, i am very funny...again, not to brag) and secretly 'hate' my 'attitude'. Which, from what i have read in the 'Bible' and Pook's posts, is a 'good thing'.
I also would like to think (and, again, i have been told) that i am good looking ( i would rate myself about a 8.5) and well dressed. I am tall, blonde, blue eyed, with a thinner build (6'2" 165).Again, just a reminder, im not bragging at all.....i am not a huge self promoter, and im sure there are people on this forum who are worse
Anyway......i guess i should ask my question then huh?Ok.....here goes.....back in April i met a chick (formally for the first time, but we have seen each other and talked many times before), and we exchanged phone numbers (the hook being that she had 'computer problems' and i was knowledgeable) and we started 'hanging out' within a week or so. The first 'date' we had, we went out for dinner, then went for a drive. We clicked INSTANTLY. My sense of humor kept her in stitches, and our conversation flowed like water. We drove down to a river area around my city, away from things, and sat and chatted for a while. She told me she was just getting divorce papers because her and her husband didnt work out after 3 years ( hopefully im not rambling, i know most of the posts on here are long
Anyway, since we hit it off so well, she jumped on me and we started making out big time...............This continued to her place, where we sat and stared into each other's eyes and caressed and kissed until like 5 in the morning. It was like nothing i have ever experienced, and again, i HAVE plenty of experience ( i might also add, that she mentioned to me later on that she was at work one day and swooned so bad when she thought about kissing me that she almost collapsed
. So, this happened 2 nights in a row. And then she started telling me how she wasnt sure, yada yada (FYI: her divorce STILL isnt final...although she assures me 'it is SO over')......and i was thinking......****ydude.....WTF......did you just get used? Okay....so fast forward over the last few months. We chat on MSN, talk on the phone occasionally, we went out to a play a couple weeks ago. We also watched a movie at her place a couple weeks ago (here is the meat of the post), and all night, she was dropping signals like no tomorrow....putting her hand near mine on the couch......joking about kissing and making out.....and i KNEW what was going on......now, im not going to say i pulled an AFC, because i wasnt focusing on the movie, i was sitting there thinking what the possible outcomes could be if i jumped her (besides the sex part), and not that it scared me, but......her qualities make her real relationship material for me......and that is what i am looking for (and apparently, she is as well)......now, these type of things happen somewhat regularly with us, in all honesty......it is like an exciting game of chess.
I have confessed to her a little while back that i am crazy about her.....and she says she feels the same things, but then says she isnt sure about what she feels in 'her heart'.... but she is obviously in a position (divorce and all)....and how that can make her life situation more difficult is up for debate. So (finally, you all say!!), my question is........and dont AFC flame me for this.....
but, it would seem to me that she has bigtime feelings for me (she has very obviously stated it in a few ways, but then again, like a woman, changes them here and there)......so.......QUESTION!! IS IT POSSIBLE to salvage a killer relationship out of this 'friendship' we are having......because the tension is there......i know we both want it.....but she (obviously) makes it a little less clear. WHEW!!!!! Okay, thanks guys for reading my little story
I now open up the floor for the debate And ill try to make future posts a little less lengthy
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