New here...some things to discuss.

Sean Stock

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When and where I am an idiot, tell me.

First, introductions...feel free to ignore this part:

My name is Sean, and I´m a 23 year old college student, and will be for the next decade or so. I attend San Diego State. I have about 6 days experience in even realizing such a community exists, and right now am perusing, reading and chatting.

I tend to do well with women, or well enough. I can approach pretty confidently, and have some decent openers and mid-game conversations that I like to use. Unique ones too, since I never have discussed this stuff. I might post my ****ty game, later.

I actually found out about this community after writing a 2 page post/guide to meeting women on a car racing forum. Someone else pointed out that I was reinventing the wheel. ****. I´ll post it here later so you guys can read it and laugh about what you think is wrong, and congratulate me on what you think is right.

I prefer long term relationships, in general, but plan on taking a good while off from that due to me leaving a 15 month relationship and wanting some freedom. Thus; here I am.



Next: having read around a bit, I´m not sure I want to be here or somewhere else. I found this site first, bought The Game and Mystery Method, read those, and then came back here. This sequence has left me a bit confused as to whether I want to study the PUA literature or the DJ literature more, and which path I want to follow. I think the DJ approach is a bit classier, and perhaps more fulfilling, but The Game has obviously tipped my interest toward those techniques. I want to take a look around the internet and look at sites related to both. To thast end, what is the largest/best PUA forum, so I can compare? Is there a PUA sub-community here? What forums should be avoided?



Third, I want to spend some money on peacocking, call it a way of seperating my post-involvment lifestyle from my pre-involvment lifestyle. Nothing too outrageous, but 200 to 500 dollars is within reason. What are some good ideas? I am currently thinking of a watch, but it seems a bit dull.

Basically, what are good things to look for or look at? Things that could be openers in and of themselves, are interesting, and perhaps useable for anchoring?

I know this isn´t nessecary, and in fact unimportant in someways, but I am doing it for myself as much as for women, so ignore whether I should or not. ;) I want to.


Fourth and finally. I am in a foreign country, and would like to approach women with whom a large langauge barrier exists. I can make simple concepts understood. Has this ever been discussed, or am I dreaming? Let me know.

Chau.
 

KontrollerX

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You should click the DJ Bible link at the bottom of the forum and read The Book of Pook.

He was pretty much the greatest poster this site has ever had and the idol to most people here.

Since he has evolved his thinking with his blog he's picked up some haters but almost all would universally agree his material here found in the DJ Bible is inspirational and a damn good enlightening read.

Anyway the PUA stuff just teaches you to be a pickup artist and to use routines to achieve success.

The DJ difference is total self improvement in every area of your life and becoming a fully mature man and a true nice guy with confidence not what was previously mistaken by most when thinking they were nice guys a.k.a being a wuss.

Also a true DJ does not rely on techniques as it is their inner game that guides them. In short a true DJ believes what he is saying as it is from his heart whereas with a PUA its just a rehearsed line to get in a chick's pants.
 

Sean Stock

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KontrollerX said:
You should click the DJ Bible link at the bottom of the forum and read The Book of Pook.

He was pretty much the greatest poster this site has ever had and the idol to most people here.

Since he has evolved his thinking with his blog he's picked up some haters but almost all would universally agree his material here found in the DJ Bible is inspirational and a damn good enlightening read.

Anyway the PUA stuff just teaches you to be a pickup artist and to use routines to achieve success.

The DJ difference is total self improvement in every area of your life and becoming a fully mature man and a true nice guy with confidence not what was previously mistaken by most when thinking they were nice guys a.k.a being a wuss.

Also a true DJ does not rely on techniques as it is their inner game that guides them. In short a true DJ believes what he is saying as it is from his heart whereas with a PUA its just a rehearsed line to get in a chick's pants.
I will read it ASAP.

There is nothing wrong with having more tools in your tool box. One can have routine to fall back on and still be confident and mature. One can understand why PUA techniques work, and what triggers womens responses, without being manipulative or shallow.
 

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"There is nothing wrong with having more tools in your tool box. One can have routine to fall back on and still be confident and mature. One can understand why PUA techniques work, and what triggers womens responses, without being manipulative or shallow."

That is true.

But what has been pointed out to people time and again here who find the PUA material first then have initial success fvck the girl but then can't keep her is they only learned how to pick her up and fvck her.

They just learned routines without killing their inner AFC and come here wondering why they have fallen flat on their face when trying to get a relationship going with one of their fvck buddies.

Anyway doesn't look like you have this problem.

You know the score and ultimately I think you will choose the DJ path rather than any other.
 

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Welcome Sean! For me personally, the DJ path is the way because it focuses more on self-improvement issues. Once you improve yourself from the inside (inner game), the rest will follow. You will also learn how to keep that girl once you reel her in.

Peacocking. It's an interesting idea from Mystery and I use it SPARINGLY. There's no way I could, or would want to, pull off the looks he and his bro's have. Fuzzy hats? Nah. Not for me. Pretty much think of dressing in layers and incorporate some accessories. A watch is a good start. Nixon makes some pretty sick watches (I have "The Player." Go figure) for relatively inexpensive prices. They make a good conversation piece. Understated wrist bands, a funky belt buckle (front of shirt tucked in, it draws their eyes to your junk), nice watch, maybe a thumb/pinky ring.Search the forum and you'll find plenty on this topic.

Welcome and congratulations on your new journey.
 

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Mystery's lounge and Fastseduction.com
 
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