The girl im goin out wid curently for no reason at all has got it in her head that i fancy this over girl. This over girl i have never even spoken to as a mater of fact but she still insists that i fancy her. This is a problem as ive spent ages tryin to get wiv ma current girlfriend who ive bin only goin out wid now 4 a week and now she thinks 4 no reason i fancy some one else! This makes no sense to me and i dont see why it should. she keeps talking bout it and making jokes bout it even going as far as asking the girl if she fancies me!!! I wana no how i should handle this as ive told her i dont fancy her and i think its gona ultimately split us up which id rather avoid (surprisingly)!?! got any ideas as to what i could do to make her think different?
New girlfriend thinks i fancy sum1 els!! WTF...
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You new girl is not looking to be a mother. She doesnt' want a guy who flips out everytime she expresses her opinion. You are acting like you need to bend over at her every wish. Just because she expressed it, that is her opinion which she is entitled too, that doenst mean you have to now take the defensive stance.
If she mentions it again, if you found her attractive say "yes she is a very attractive person". I tell my wife about girls I found attractive all the time, she even points them out and ask.
You girl wants a boyfriend not a son, stop backing down every time she expresses herself.
Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
First of all, learn how to ****ing spell. This isn't the streets, this is an internet message board. Ebonics will earn you no respect.
Secondly, be a man and stand your ground. You're allowed to fancy anything you want and so is she. Learn to accept it.
Secondly, be a man and stand your ground. You're allowed to fancy anything you want and so is she. Learn to accept it.
familyguyfan
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Yeah learn to type.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
typically when a girl says that you like another girl when you deny it she is either
1.) Right
2.) Insecure
Just My opinion
1.) Right
2.) Insecure
Just My opinion
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
she could be doing self-sabatoge and is insecure.
she's insecure, my girlfriend does that all the time. there's this one time that an acquantance had the hots for me, and my girlfriend just blew up on me and heck i wasn't EVEN interested in the girl. oh man, just totally makes me pissed off when she brings stuff like that and overanalyze the whole da.mn situation