New Brasilian chick text convo... Opinions?

[astrn]

I am really willing to change myself...

2 days ago I met a HB7+ chick in my friend's party. She seems interested (not only me but everybody) I started to chat with him with some jokes about her looks like a bartender and asked to prepare me some drinks. She declined of course. After a while we chatted with usual stuff etc. then she mentioned about her tattoo on her hand something about dont give up your dreams, be more of yourself...

Then I stopped paying attention to her and apporached others, mostly girls... She eye contacted me a few time after that...

A few hours later when she is about to leave she approached everybody and say goodbye. I was talking with a friend when she approached last to us to say goodbye then I asked her facebook and said willing to take her pictures (I am photographer). She added herself then leave.

2 days later (today) send her a message from FB (almost 5-10 min between each messages):

ME: Hey. Guess what I saw!
SHE: Hello!!!
SHE: What? Tell me
ME: Just looking random photos for inspiration to my next photoshoot and saw a tattoo that reminds me yours!

Then she stopped...

I saw later after my messages on my FB wall that she was with her female friend in a restaurant... (She went there before I sent her the first message).

I expect her next answer will be about "Sorry couldnt answer. I was outside with a friend bla bla..."

So should I wait a bit after she reaches me like a few hours or 1-2 days and try another topic and change the subject or keep the same convo as I left?

 

[Greasy Pig]

Anything less than a full apology for the delayed reply within two days should result in you immediately blocking her and hitting on new chicks.

 

[BetterCallSaul]

Yep, sounds like you should have seized the moment at this party and tried to bang her then. Trying to set the stage for laying pipe via facebook "game" is going nowhere.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Invite her to drink with you at a specific place, on a specific day and time. You're wasting your time and hers with the smalltalk.

This. Plus 5.


ME: Just looking random photos for inspiration to my next photoshoot and saw a tattoo that reminds me yours!

This, this is just ghey; shows the following....

-You are thinking about her in her absence.
-You are thinking about her body, but not acting on it.
-You are thinking along the same lines as her girlfriends.
-You are thinking that all of the above will impress her.

She's not.

 

[Donaldinho]

I'm not sure about the whole "hey I'm a photographer, I'd like to take pics" thing. You should've went for a number close.
That would've prevented the Facebook messages and you could've gone straight to planning a date.
"Just looking random photos for inspiration to my next photoshoot and saw a tattoo that reminds me yours!" that right there makes it an uphill battle. Try one more time for a date and if she flakes, forget her.

 

[astrn]

She replied back this morning. I don't bother to answer yet.

SHE: Ah great!
SHE: Show me

Invite her to drink with you at a specific place, on a specific day and time. You're wasting your time and hers with the smalltalk.

Espi you seems right. Actually that was the thing I am willing to do last night. Something like;

ME: Hey little curious bartender. How about meeting tomorrow 9pm at X? I will show you there...

So what about this reply...

I am still at early stages of red pill... So playing a little bit safer and discovering what options leads what by forcing myself btw.

 

[jurry]

Theres no playing it safe. Theres going for what you want risking rejection, or pvssyfooting around on social media hoping for a response while some other guy takes her out.

By asking for her facebook instead of asking her to go out sometime at the party, you put yourself in an ambiguous position and didnt make your intentions clear. Either you go direct or slow play it with the "let me photograph your vag" social circle game, assuming you're not in a rush and will see her through friends frequently.

In either case, relax, be genuine, and just see what happens.. Keep lookin for other girls too.

 

[astrn]

I asked her number too while I was asking her facebook but she told me (didnt sound like a red flag to me because she seems still interested by her eyes) she is gonna leave in 1 week back to her country and she said using her home country number.

Theres no playing it safe. Theres going for what you want risking rejection, or pvssyfooting around on social media hoping for a response while some other guy takes her out.

By asking for her facebook instead of asking her to go out sometime at the party, you put yourself in an ambiguous position and didnt make your intentions clear. Either you go direct or slow play it with the "let me photograph your vag" social circle game, assuming you're not in a rush and will see her through friends frequently.

In either case, relax, be genuine, and just see what happens.. Keep lookin for other girls too.

Ok you got another point also. Shoot immediately as you see!

It was a low key party in a apt. with alot of friends. Just convo and drink. So nobody pursuing nobody there.

The place that I am planning to invite her is a low key bar but during Xdays it will be really crowded. I saw her there once with her friends dancing. So even if I invite there on Xday she will be come with her friends highly. So try to invite her alone in another day or with friends on Xdays?

 

[jurry]

Shes leaving in a week man let it go.

Shoot her an invite to go out one night and move on to the next.

 

[astrn]

Send her a message a moment ago...

"You curious. Tomorrow 9pm at O'haras. I will show you there..."

Lets see...

 

[astrn]

Ok she is in texting game and now tries to change the subject...

SHE:
SHE: Why there?
SHE: Can u do me a favor? Send me the pictures about that night at apt. (Begging emoticon) Please! Thank you (alot of kiss emoticon)

What would be the best reply? I think skip it and NC for a while or reply something like that I only do favor to my friends...

 

[Greasy Pig]

NC. Now. She obviously doesn't want to meet you, she just wants you to send the pics and then she'll blow you off.
Mauser's sage advice in such situations is thus:
You: NC
Her: Why haven't you answered me?
You: Been really busy. What's your schedule like this week? I'm keen to check out this new bar in Fvckville. I can meet you there on Wednesday night.
Her: Can't you just send me those photos pretty please?
You: NC.

And repeat as necessary.

 

[jurry]

Haha she is talking to you like a puppydog who she wants to roll over for a treat.. Brutal!

This girl sounds like a seasoned dîck-wrecker, good luck!

 

[pyros]

this thread is hilarious. THis is what happens when you have DJ overdose...it makes you behave as a robot.

OP, why did you send "You curious. Tomorrow 9pm at O'haras. I will show you there..."

It doesn't make any sense, is out of context and is ridiculous at the same time. Why? well, you just kind of ordered her to meet you somewhere at 9 pm just because, and you're kind of blackmailing her (if you wanna see the pics, meet met at X. Wtf? it's not playful, its just plain weird. You do not "negotiate" hanging out with a girl)

What on Earth were you thinking? what were you expecting to happen???
something like:
her: oh sure I'll be there just because you're worth it! and I'll drop anything I have to do just to meet you tomorrow at the time you said, because you're the s-hit! I'm wetting my panties now!

First of all, she did not seem interested in you by the brief fb conversation you provided, and secondly, the way you 'asked her out' was weird as hell.

Forget about her and for the next girl ask her out like a normal person would do: ask her when is she free, if she tells you when, then arrange a place and a time that is ok for BOTH of you. Do not give absurd commands to girls you barely know, and do not "negotiate" a date.

 

[astrn]

Appreciated! Next one!

 

[Alvafe]

Appreciated! Next one!

you do know everything she did was just being friendly and educated right? did not show any interest on you, it will also depends on what region of Brazil she is.

also note you would still need to invite her out for anything to happen, and you was just masturbating the idea and did nothing, more action, less IF's.

 

[astrn]

Been NC 2 days, she become curious. She liked a few pics of mine I added yesterday with some of my 2 girl friends were kissing me from cheek.

Now she send a msg.

SHE: I didn't see u at X

(I didn't went this place, instead I was with another friends)
I think I gonna try one more strike after a few hrs. Something with

"been busy with important stuff, tomorrow same time same place..."

or

"mine either, because of the bartender girl! she obscured my view (or me)..."

If she deflects, next for good...

 

[astrn]

I wouldn't invite her to drink. You already did that. You disempower yourself when you repeat invites.

I would wait until tomorrow aft to respond. I'd keep it real brief and vague: "Yep."

She knows you want her to meet you. Let her come to you now. Let her bring up the date invite and you instantly control the frame.

Gotcha. Like the idea...

Still learning :rockon: