never fear being single!

peaky

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Life is meant to be enjoyed, pursue life as a man with ambitions. Abnormal relationships are not healthy, they poison the man. So many a time the man is in control of his life, he is almost don juan like and then enters the woman. Months path of happyness and healthy fun but the man gradually becomes lazy, he starts to see the the woman more and more. He is oblivious to what is happening. He cannot see it as he still loves the woman deaply. This is the absorbing nature of women but it is not their fault however because the man lost his way. All his ambitions, his passions and dreams that got him the woman in the first place, that made him the man that he was are know gone. He looks at his life and sees nothing, he is a bum, worse off than he was before the woman.

This is nature of woman, as she absorbs the man for all he has. What a gross mess the male has become. If the man kept his dreams and passions and kept leading a normal relationship he would not have ended up in such a muddle. What is a normal relationship?

It is where the female becomes but a part of the man's life. He still follows his goals, he still does fun stuff with his mates, he still has a life. THIS IS THE ONLY WAY to enjoy a lasting relationship period.

Many guys become lazy in a relationship with women. They lose all that they stod for, all that the woman loved in her man. This is testimony to the fact that women love the man for his life. His ambitions and dreams promise a greater and more fulfilling (non dull) life. His strength, his power comes from his skills as does his happiness. Nature has it that women attach themselves to the man who has created a life for himself. No wonder the guy got dumped, he was a disgusting mess of nothingness, no wonder they were fighting all the time, having domestics and all. He tried to figure it out but never could pin point the cause.

You silly fool, step back and take a look at yourself, your woman has more backbone than you. The most attractive bum in the world is useless to a girl in a relationship as he has nothing to offer. There is no world for her to enter. This type of guy is good for one nighter, to be used like a toy for her own pleasure.

Never fear being single because it's when you have to turn women down because you are in the middle of fulfilling your wildest fantasies and you dont have time for her, it is then that you know you are doing something right. It can and will happen to anyone who tries. It does take effort, to thrust yourself from the addiction of women and their attention but be aware that you will have more womanly attention than you can handle if you just attend to your own life. Forget women for the moment, forget following the chick youve been following for a while know. You are obviously not good enough for her, ATM ; ) Build up the life that women want a part of. Challenge yourself, beat your flaws and what is holding you back from your dreams. You don't want to become lazy again and suffer the same fate as last time do you?

Just realize that until you are a man and are following your passions and dreams you cannot command a healthy relationship. Maybe youll become so addicted to improving yourself that youll have no time for women.

Dream no further my friends, it is time to grab life by the scruff of the neck and demand more! Away you womanly temtations, you only distract me, come see me when i have more time on my hands.
 

DjDreamer

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Splendid post...

What I like about your posts is that you discuss passion with a passion. You don't intellectualize. You don't seem to be posting to convince yourself. You behave very natural.
 

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I destroyed my relationship because of what happened to this exact post. Now that I am single, I feel myself again, I'm not stopping myself from anything anymore and nobody is anchoring me down. Good Post. ~Zappa
 

syemour

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I will take it! Thank You Sir.
 

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Excellent!

I just got out of a relationship exactly like you posted about. I am now happier than ever, and am on my way back to the top of my game.

The main reason I would not break up with her, was b/c I had gotten so comfortable, and I was afraid of having to search and find another girl as good as her. I was afraid that I would never find anyone better than her. I was so wrong. I've been single for 3 weeks now and I've already met so many girls it's not even funny. If I'd a only known then, what I know now...
 

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Great look on women....

Hmmmmmmmm.. let's look at your statements. As you talk your Sh*t, you dig a deeper hole from love then you can even imagine. Have you lost all morals and dug yourself a trap that digs the new decade of all mankind


As Jim Morrison would say ( i know you don' t give a F*ck,) "your all a bunch a Fu**ing idiots!!!!!!!!!!!
 

DJ_Dork

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This is the same deal for women. What good is a woman if she has no goals/pursuits of her own? Why would a man want a house woman... yo women.. this is modern times, grow up - get a job fools.. don't let men do all the work you feminists.
 

Brak

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Great post,
This is all so very true. Women are not looking for someone that is a sure thing to be there everytime they call or come over.
We all want what we cant have, they want a challenge not a sure thing.
Women are not as complicated as some may think.
 
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being single kicks ass.

Its almost like you have a bunch of girlfriends to casually date with rather than being exclusive.

No compromises, No wasting your money or gas with just one chick. And overall you can basically do whatever the hell you please with whoever.
 

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I love you.

This is why I broke up with my girlfriend of 16 months (bleagh). I ceased to be the man that I wanted to be, and became a subhuman being. Now that I am single, I am loving life much more. She sees it, and wants to be wiht me again, but I say NO! Stay away from me, evil succubus!

Triple_ultima - single and loving it.
 

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Great post that I came across today. What this man says is true. You must live your life to the fullest and as Rollo says, "complement" your already bad a$$ life with a woman or two.
 
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