Okay.......for some Net dating has been like shooting fish in a barrel, for others (do to comprehension levels) it has been a total waste of time and or money in some cases.
There are a ton of reasons why net dating is in fact a good resource for finding your next conquest or love of your life.
Today we will focus on why Net Dating has been given a bad rap and should be used only as a last resource in seducing women.
The list is but a few of the more popular concensus on net dating........
1) NET DATING 4 LOSERS-yup that sterotype is still alive today. Many people think finding a mate on line is for low self-esteem, fat, ugly, despret, pathetic, chumps. Even though they might be on a net dating site themselves women still think "why is this guy on a dating site". Illogical yes in deed but thats women for ya.
2) SAFETY-the old urban legend "some guy met a chic from the net and chopped her up in a bloody murder" keeps many people at bay. Some read the media reports/statistics on net dating success, afraid of a virus, spam, posting personal info,etc.
3) TOO MUCH WORK-you gotta have access to a computer, sign up, answer questions, write about yourself, write about whom you are seeking, submit your criteria list, post a picture,initiate emails, respond to emails, ask for contact info. Some view the process as too complex.
4) COST-yes there are people who will spend money on a new outfit, working out at a gym, getting their nails/hair done, buying bottled water, getting a new toy........for their pets, even paying a cover charge and buying drinks.....BUT ASK THEM TO SPEND 40 BUCKS TO MEET COUNTLESS POTENTIAL DATES...............OH HELL NO. So most opt for the free sites or go on social net worksites.
5) NO FAVORABLE RESULTS-some have tried it and gave up after getting no emails, rejected, or had some first dates from hell. A ton of people lose their manners and get all sexual and project the creepy "I will screw anything that moves" MENtality.
6) OVERWHELMING-chics who post any suggestive pics, say anything remotely associated with sex get BOMBARDED WITH EMAIL OFFERS. If they don't respond to all the fan mail some get angry emails. They meet tons of creepy virtual stalkers everytime they log on. The forum for meeting the one turns into a nightmare for their email inbox.
7) RESTRICTIONS-there are a ton of rules for: contact, posting pictures, what you can write, whom you may contact, the amount of people you may contact, etc. It's a structured enviroment that you must play by their rules but many refer to it as too controlling or lack of self expression/freedom.
8) COMPETTION-yup theres a ton of competition you will encounter from other men that have contact the ladies before you. Women often go on many first dates then choose the most appealing.
9) NOT VERY FLATTERING-some don't know what to write, don't photograph well, they are embarrassed about being single and actively seeking. It's not indicative of a true romance "we met on the net".
10) NO AUTHENTICATION-yes there are a lot of fake profiles, spammers, people prentending to be someone else, players, married, std carriers, cheaters, liars,etc. I assume in the future this feature will be addressed. For now.....people google everyone but thats not full-proof by any means.
11) ADDICTION-wasting time in the virtual world manifests into a favorite past-time for many. Some get all caught up in the ego boost from the fan mail or seducing many people simultaneously. They actually are larger than life while online.
12) PERPETUATES YOUR LACK OF CONFIDENCE-shy people can rejoice as they can now initiate contact virtually and hide from face to face rejections all from the safety buffer zone from infront of their computers.
13) VIRTUAL EXTRACTIONS-many find it difficult to display their TRUE sense of humor, sticky points and sarcasm often get mis-interpreted. Expressing oneself online is subject to interpretation. People read too much into a profile at times and base their opinion of you from one paragraph.
14) TIME CONSUMING-we mentioned the numerous criteria for posting an effective profile, reading all the responses, wedding out your fan mail, and responding to a select few. Some people write a novel (an example of information overload). Some want to chat or exchange emails all night long and may even send you a two or more page email informing you of everything they ever have done. Makign the phone call, setting up the date, then the meeting for date one.
15) CREEP FACTOR-communication frequently takes on a sexual charge early on. Men often rush things like begging for a phone number, asking for or sending nude pictures. Some ask for personal info (where do u work, where do you live, have you ever been to, etc). They appear pre-occupied with getting up in your "business" from the get go.
There are a ton of reasons why net dating is in fact a good resource for finding your next conquest or love of your life.
Today we will focus on why Net Dating has been given a bad rap and should be used only as a last resource in seducing women.
The list is but a few of the more popular concensus on net dating........
1) NET DATING 4 LOSERS-yup that sterotype is still alive today. Many people think finding a mate on line is for low self-esteem, fat, ugly, despret, pathetic, chumps. Even though they might be on a net dating site themselves women still think "why is this guy on a dating site". Illogical yes in deed but thats women for ya.
2) SAFETY-the old urban legend "some guy met a chic from the net and chopped her up in a bloody murder" keeps many people at bay. Some read the media reports/statistics on net dating success, afraid of a virus, spam, posting personal info,etc.
3) TOO MUCH WORK-you gotta have access to a computer, sign up, answer questions, write about yourself, write about whom you are seeking, submit your criteria list, post a picture,initiate emails, respond to emails, ask for contact info. Some view the process as too complex.
4) COST-yes there are people who will spend money on a new outfit, working out at a gym, getting their nails/hair done, buying bottled water, getting a new toy........for their pets, even paying a cover charge and buying drinks.....BUT ASK THEM TO SPEND 40 BUCKS TO MEET COUNTLESS POTENTIAL DATES...............OH HELL NO. So most opt for the free sites or go on social net worksites.
5) NO FAVORABLE RESULTS-some have tried it and gave up after getting no emails, rejected, or had some first dates from hell. A ton of people lose their manners and get all sexual and project the creepy "I will screw anything that moves" MENtality.
6) OVERWHELMING-chics who post any suggestive pics, say anything remotely associated with sex get BOMBARDED WITH EMAIL OFFERS. If they don't respond to all the fan mail some get angry emails. They meet tons of creepy virtual stalkers everytime they log on. The forum for meeting the one turns into a nightmare for their email inbox.
7) RESTRICTIONS-there are a ton of rules for: contact, posting pictures, what you can write, whom you may contact, the amount of people you may contact, etc. It's a structured enviroment that you must play by their rules but many refer to it as too controlling or lack of self expression/freedom.
8) COMPETTION-yup theres a ton of competition you will encounter from other men that have contact the ladies before you. Women often go on many first dates then choose the most appealing.
9) NOT VERY FLATTERING-some don't know what to write, don't photograph well, they are embarrassed about being single and actively seeking. It's not indicative of a true romance "we met on the net".
10) NO AUTHENTICATION-yes there are a lot of fake profiles, spammers, people prentending to be someone else, players, married, std carriers, cheaters, liars,etc. I assume in the future this feature will be addressed. For now.....people google everyone but thats not full-proof by any means.
11) ADDICTION-wasting time in the virtual world manifests into a favorite past-time for many. Some get all caught up in the ego boost from the fan mail or seducing many people simultaneously. They actually are larger than life while online.
12) PERPETUATES YOUR LACK OF CONFIDENCE-shy people can rejoice as they can now initiate contact virtually and hide from face to face rejections all from the safety buffer zone from infront of their computers.
13) VIRTUAL EXTRACTIONS-many find it difficult to display their TRUE sense of humor, sticky points and sarcasm often get mis-interpreted. Expressing oneself online is subject to interpretation. People read too much into a profile at times and base their opinion of you from one paragraph.
14) TIME CONSUMING-we mentioned the numerous criteria for posting an effective profile, reading all the responses, wedding out your fan mail, and responding to a select few. Some people write a novel (an example of information overload). Some want to chat or exchange emails all night long and may even send you a two or more page email informing you of everything they ever have done. Makign the phone call, setting up the date, then the meeting for date one.
15) CREEP FACTOR-communication frequently takes on a sexual charge early on. Men often rush things like begging for a phone number, asking for or sending nude pictures. Some ask for personal info (where do u work, where do you live, have you ever been to, etc). They appear pre-occupied with getting up in your "business" from the get go.
