De La Soul
Master Don Juan
"You can have anything you can imagine yourself as having." - Henry Ford
The trick is to LET yourself have it. The main thing that gets in the way of so many people achieving what they want with women is their fear, otherwise known as 'nervousness'or 'fear of rejection'.
Here are my tips for combatting the more immediate type of fear, nervousness:
-Use the 3 second rule! If you see a girl you like the look of, go up and talk to her within 3 seconds.
-You can imagine yourself as someone like John Wayne or James Bond to make yourself feel super-suave
-Remind yourself that "human potential is limitless and that you can have anything you can imagine yourself as having; all you have to do is stop putting road-blocks for yourself in your mind. Because. in the end, they are only in your mind."
-If you're going on a date make sure you look your best. Don't be afraid to use hair-gel (just don't put on too much or you'll end up looking like an elvis impersanator)
-Play some music to pump yourself up!
-If you're at a party, act like you're the host; talk to as many people as possible
-Stop caring about what everyone else thinks/might be thinking!
-Remember that women are not your whole life, just a small facet of it, so take control and don't take their ****!
[This message has been edited by De La Soul (edited 03-15-2002).]
The trick is to LET yourself have it. The main thing that gets in the way of so many people achieving what they want with women is their fear, otherwise known as 'nervousness'or 'fear of rejection'.
Here are my tips for combatting the more immediate type of fear, nervousness:
-Use the 3 second rule! If you see a girl you like the look of, go up and talk to her within 3 seconds.
-You can imagine yourself as someone like John Wayne or James Bond to make yourself feel super-suave
-Remind yourself that "human potential is limitless and that you can have anything you can imagine yourself as having; all you have to do is stop putting road-blocks for yourself in your mind. Because. in the end, they are only in your mind."
-If you're going on a date make sure you look your best. Don't be afraid to use hair-gel (just don't put on too much or you'll end up looking like an elvis impersanator)
-Play some music to pump yourself up!
-If you're at a party, act like you're the host; talk to as many people as possible
-Stop caring about what everyone else thinks/might be thinking!
-Remember that women are not your whole life, just a small facet of it, so take control and don't take their ****!
[This message has been edited by De La Soul (edited 03-15-2002).]