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conan2120

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Hi everyone,I,m new to this forum,and I have a little problem with a woman I really like,and hoping I could get some advise.Imet this woman about 6 months ago,at a local tavern I frequent,and noticed her standing with a girlfriend of hers.We exchanged glances at each other,then we started talking,we exchanged numbers,shared a dance,then Iwent home,being careful not to overstay my welcome.Afew days go by,I get a phone call asking if I,m going out,so I did.I get there,she practically ignores me,only talking to me on an occassional basis,so instead of getting angry or upset,I asked to get together,take in movie,go to dinner,she accepts,only to blow me off at the last minute.OK, I let it go,asking if she would like to go to my Christmas party with me,which was a month in advance,she accepts,only to blow me off again,an hr before the party,saying her dad was sick in the hospital.OK,who could argue with that except for the fact she was able to go out with her friends that night at the tavern I go to,which kind of got me angry.So I put it to the side,I asked her to dance,then from outta nowhere,this guy comes up shouting and cussing,saying all this stuff about he did this for her and that for her,that she used him-lalala.So I asked what,s going between them,she says they,re just friends,that he,s been chasing her for over a yr. So that night I told her that I,ll call her,and maybe get together.Now it,s 6 mo. later and still every time Iask to get together and make definate plans,she keeps coming up with excuses like,I,ll call to see if she gonna make it,her son or daughter will answer and say oh she just went to the store.Sometimes I see her out and she,ll call me to the side saying how sorry she is,that I,m the kinda guy she wants,we,ll do something this week,but never happens.Then one night I heard her say to this guy she nkows,that he,s the kinda guy she wants,Then Iconfronted her about it,asked if I could take her to car,then tells me she wants to be with me.Tonight she blew me off again no phone calls,no excuses,Icalled,she went to store,again.I,ve talked to a few people about it,they say dump her,some say I,m too nice,someone said to play head games with her.I,m not too good at head games,but could you give me some pointers,and also,how could Ibecome more mysterious.Sounds weird Iknow,but I,m just so confused here.Thank you for your time,and hope to chat with you all soon.Mike:confused:
 

Golden Arms

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Good lord almighty !!

Why are you still even thinking about this chick ? This has been going on for over half a year now ??

Dude, you need to forget about her, cut off all commications and move on to other women. Note I said "women" not "woman".. It's obvious that this girl's just an attention wh0re who's fucced in the head. Seriously, stop calling her, stop talking to her, stop thinking about her - IMMEDIATELY.

Have you read the DJ Bible ?

Welcome to sosuave
 

DJ Hawtness

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Dude, why in the hell would you waste 6 months of your life on this retarded girl? YOU are something special, not her, don't EVER, EVER, EVER waste time on a girl like this if she's ignoring you.

In fact, after the first time she agrees to a date and doesn't meet you at your dating spot, FORGET THAT SHE EXISTS.

Don't have mercy, don't have sorrow, don't have ANY emotion for this woman. She wants to double cross you, so she's not even worth talking to.

In fact, if you can, get other women and have a great time where she can see you. Then when she really wants you, double cross her ass and laugh maniacally. :crackup:

j/k

Dude, seriously...you have a life, get with it.
 

conan2120

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Thanks for the replies

Hi guys,thanks for the feedbacks.I saw her last night and completly ignored her,I didn,t say hi or nothing,and when see looked or walked my way,I went the other way.So I,m just getting on with my life.Thanks again.:D
 

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Wear garlic

Dear sir

Don't waver. Wear garlic to make sure she doesn't come back in your life.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

al77

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You are right guys... he should NEXT her as soon as possible.
Why does it happen so often to us guys? Because at some point of time we are not confident enough that we can get a new better girl..... ok and how we can get more confident, and get it fast? Here is what works for women and some businesses, I am sure it would work for men too: team work.

Look at how team oriented women are: they chat together about relationships, guys and all kind of men related stuff.
Do guys talk about women more than "Oh she is hot!". No, unfortuntaly, if ment would discuss it deeper, it would be perceive as "not very masculine".. which is complete BS fed to us from the culture.

So, I guess, it would be great to go discuss women\relationship with friends more often and more in depth. I wish there'd be a Men's support group sort of :) Not online online forum (which is great anyway)
 

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i'm glad you finally grew a pair and ignored her.
ignore this chickie the rest of your life. life is tough enough already to put up with stupid broads.
 
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