Hi everyone,I,m new to this forum,and I have a little problem with a woman I really like,and hoping I could get some advise.Imet this woman about 6 months ago,at a local tavern I frequent,and noticed her standing with a girlfriend of hers.We exchanged glances at each other,then we started talking,we exchanged numbers,shared a dance,then Iwent home,being careful not to overstay my welcome.Afew days go by,I get a phone call asking if I,m going out,so I did.I get there,she practically ignores me,only talking to me on an occassional basis,so instead of getting angry or upset,I asked to get together,take in movie,go to dinner,she accepts,only to blow me off at the last minute.OK, I let it go,asking if she would like to go to my Christmas party with me,which was a month in advance,she accepts,only to blow me off again,an hr before the party,saying her dad was sick in the hospital.OK,who could argue with that except for the fact she was able to go out with her friends that night at the tavern I go to,which kind of got me angry.So I put it to the side,I asked her to dance,then from outta nowhere,this guy comes up shouting and cussing,saying all this stuff about he did this for her and that for her,that she used him-lalala.So I asked what,s going between them,she says they,re just friends,that he,s been chasing her for over a yr. So that night I told her that I,ll call her,and maybe get together.Now it,s 6 mo. later and still every time Iask to get together and make definate plans,she keeps coming up with excuses like,I,ll call to see if she gonna make it,her son or daughter will answer and say oh she just went to the store.Sometimes I see her out and she,ll call me to the side saying how sorry she is,that I,m the kinda guy she wants,we,ll do something this week,but never happens.Then one night I heard her say to this guy she nkows,that he,s the kinda guy she wants,Then Iconfronted her about it,asked if I could take her to car,then tells me she wants to be with me.Tonight she blew me off again no phone calls,no excuses,Icalled,she went to store,again.I,ve talked to a few people about it,they say dump her,some say I,m too nice,someone said to play head games with her.I,m not too good at head games,but could you give me some pointers,and also,how could Ibecome more mysterious.Sounds weird Iknow,but I,m just so confused here.Thank you for your time,and hope to chat with you all soon.Mike