backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Alright here is the story.
Around 2 years ago, this girl who I basically worshiped stopped talking to me... Pretty much becuase I got fed up and told her that she needed to either put out or get out. She choose to get out and we haven't spoken since (This was right before I found this site).
Alot has changed since then. I could go on but it would be poinless bosting to make myself feel better about what I have done, but let's just say I made myself into a more well rounded person. More importantly, I now know how women operate.
Here is the deal:
yesterday, I got a letter at my office that was forwarded from my old address where i used to live (I get all my old mail forwared to my office). It was hand written which was extremely rare, and I remembered the address it was from. It was this girl. Talk about out of the blue. I hadn't forot about her, but at the time she was the last thing on my mind.
Anyway, here is what the letter said:
Brandon ! (My name)
Guess who
I don't know how to get ahold of you so I decided to write your mom's address (I hope this gets to you!)
Can you believe it's been 2 years? Instead of writing you about what I've been doing for the past 2 years, I'd like to hear from you by phone. You were such a good friend and I appreciate everything you did for me.
Old Friends
(This girls name)
Address (like I didn't know it)
Now, first let me state that she is a looker, and honestly besides the normal teenage girly things, she is a good person. The only thing with her is that she is hot as hell and not only knows it, but knows how to take advantage of it.
I am thinking the following:
a) It's not like she gave me a phone call to see how I was doing, she dug up my address, and i know it couldn't have been that easy because she never wrote me before.
b) You don't not talk to someone, and espically the way we split ways, and then talk to them 2 years later and not want something in specefic, although I don't know what exactly yet.
I am thinking that a) she is genwiinely interested in how I am doing, whichI think is slim to none
b) she saw me in public without me seeing her and something resparked her interest level
c) She simply ran out of men to boss around and I was pretty easy at that time, so decided to give an old friend a call.
I will write her back; although she is good looking, I am not looking for a relationship, I really would like some company to keep me occupied from time to time, and like I said, she could be a pretty good friend when she wanted I also don't think she wrote me becuase she is sexually interested in me, but that could and probably will change once we see each other again.
I am not trying to "get back at her for doing me wrong" or anything along thoose lines and I am not trying to "win her over"; far from it. I just would like to have a friend who Ic an call up from time to time to take out to eat or something along thoose lines, with no strings attached, and maybe some nokie from time to time.
Also note that although she didn't want a relationship with me, there were times, although I was to blinded or to scared to see it that she wanted me just as bad as I wanted her.
How accurate do you think I am of this assessment, and does anyone have any tips on how to proceed?
Around 2 years ago, this girl who I basically worshiped stopped talking to me... Pretty much becuase I got fed up and told her that she needed to either put out or get out. She choose to get out and we haven't spoken since (This was right before I found this site).
Alot has changed since then. I could go on but it would be poinless bosting to make myself feel better about what I have done, but let's just say I made myself into a more well rounded person. More importantly, I now know how women operate.
Here is the deal:
yesterday, I got a letter at my office that was forwarded from my old address where i used to live (I get all my old mail forwared to my office). It was hand written which was extremely rare, and I remembered the address it was from. It was this girl. Talk about out of the blue. I hadn't forot about her, but at the time she was the last thing on my mind.
Anyway, here is what the letter said:
Brandon ! (My name)
Guess who
I don't know how to get ahold of you so I decided to write your mom's address (I hope this gets to you!)
Can you believe it's been 2 years? Instead of writing you about what I've been doing for the past 2 years, I'd like to hear from you by phone. You were such a good friend and I appreciate everything you did for me.
Old Friends
(This girls name)
Address (like I didn't know it)
Now, first let me state that she is a looker, and honestly besides the normal teenage girly things, she is a good person. The only thing with her is that she is hot as hell and not only knows it, but knows how to take advantage of it.
I am thinking the following:
a) It's not like she gave me a phone call to see how I was doing, she dug up my address, and i know it couldn't have been that easy because she never wrote me before.
b) You don't not talk to someone, and espically the way we split ways, and then talk to them 2 years later and not want something in specefic, although I don't know what exactly yet.
I am thinking that a) she is genwiinely interested in how I am doing, whichI think is slim to none
b) she saw me in public without me seeing her and something resparked her interest level
c) She simply ran out of men to boss around and I was pretty easy at that time, so decided to give an old friend a call.
I will write her back; although she is good looking, I am not looking for a relationship, I really would like some company to keep me occupied from time to time, and like I said, she could be a pretty good friend when she wanted I also don't think she wrote me becuase she is sexually interested in me, but that could and probably will change once we see each other again.
I am not trying to "get back at her for doing me wrong" or anything along thoose lines and I am not trying to "win her over"; far from it. I just would like to have a friend who Ic an call up from time to time to take out to eat or something along thoose lines, with no strings attached, and maybe some nokie from time to time.
Also note that although she didn't want a relationship with me, there were times, although I was to blinded or to scared to see it that she wanted me just as bad as I wanted her.
How accurate do you think I am of this assessment, and does anyone have any tips on how to proceed?
