need some help

[Frost]

I'm dealing with a 45 year old women, who has seen me at my weakest points in life, she has always been there for me. Point being she doesn't want to have sex anymore because it was getting to much like a relationship. She has been married twice. She explain she just wants to take time for herself. In the past I have been over bearing, to available, AND TO CLINGY, AND MAYBE NEEDY. I think she is afraid it will go back to the same behaviors I showed in the past. I just want to continue to have sex with her but I'm having trouble with this. What are somethings I could do to improve my chances of having sex with her again. Without all the other shi.. that was experienced before. ANy help on this matter would be great....Frost

 

[joekerr31]

ya, stop wanting to have sex with her and she'll start wanting to have sex with you.

she's telling you that you aren't giving her the things she needs in your relationship with her.

when a man isn't giving a woman what she needs she withholds the only thing he cares about... sex.

what else are they going to withhold from you? they got little else to offer that men care about.

J

 

[MightyMate]

Aint this woman too old for You? She was always for You. Sounds like You found kind of mother in her..