Kevin86
New Member
hey guys im new here but thought i would try it out. I need some good advise on how to hook this great girl, so here is the story...
I have been friends with Ashley for over a year now. I would consiter our friendship to be pretty close, consitering that we both know everything about eachother and we are totally comfterble around eachother, anyways. Over this last summer I found myself having strong feelings for her. Actually she was liking me at this point also, but nothing ever happened because of the risk of losing the friendship. well, after a while it all blew over and she lost total intrest in me (other than our friendship). But, my intrest didnt go away, not at all, it actually got worse. After a few months, i found myself getting extrmeely jealous of her, over everything. the jealousy got soo bad i actually tried to stop talkking to her for a while, but that didnt work because i couldnt stand not being around her. anyways to this day i still have the relationship talk with her sometimes, about whay would happen if we were together and stuff. All that happend there is that she gets mad and she doesnt talk??? so, on last friday night something hapened, i finally kissed her, after a year of wanting to do it, i just went for it. and it was perfect (in my mind), not so much in hers. well it all happened in my house, we were all wrestleing around and i tackled her onto the stairs, she said
" you better get off of me or ill end up kissing you." and i said
"well would that be a bad thing?" then she replied
"well i dont want to hurt you anymore, so i cant."
" then i said" then don't." right after that i went for the kiss, it was great too. anyways, scince then i have talked about this with her. her opinion was that it was just a drunk kiss (we had been drinking) and that if she hadnt been drinking then it would have never happened. this remark made me feel like dirt. but i made a point to say that i would have done it at any moment, and that i have wanted to kiss her for a long time.
so, the story now is that for the last two nights, my best friend has been over at my house, and so has ashley. and its almost like ashley makes a point to flirt with him. I know that she thinks he is extremely hot, every other girl does, but still she shouldnt make it a point to flirt right in front of me. she knows it pissed me off, is there a reason for this????
Well my actual question is how can i get this girl to be mine? i am not worried about ruining the friendship because i feel like it is already ruined in a way. I just want her to be mine, she is perfect in every way for me.
any tips?
I have been friends with Ashley for over a year now. I would consiter our friendship to be pretty close, consitering that we both know everything about eachother and we are totally comfterble around eachother, anyways. Over this last summer I found myself having strong feelings for her. Actually she was liking me at this point also, but nothing ever happened because of the risk of losing the friendship. well, after a while it all blew over and she lost total intrest in me (other than our friendship). But, my intrest didnt go away, not at all, it actually got worse. After a few months, i found myself getting extrmeely jealous of her, over everything. the jealousy got soo bad i actually tried to stop talkking to her for a while, but that didnt work because i couldnt stand not being around her. anyways to this day i still have the relationship talk with her sometimes, about whay would happen if we were together and stuff. All that happend there is that she gets mad and she doesnt talk??? so, on last friday night something hapened, i finally kissed her, after a year of wanting to do it, i just went for it. and it was perfect (in my mind), not so much in hers. well it all happened in my house, we were all wrestleing around and i tackled her onto the stairs, she said
" you better get off of me or ill end up kissing you." and i said
"well would that be a bad thing?" then she replied
"well i dont want to hurt you anymore, so i cant."
" then i said" then don't." right after that i went for the kiss, it was great too. anyways, scince then i have talked about this with her. her opinion was that it was just a drunk kiss (we had been drinking) and that if she hadnt been drinking then it would have never happened. this remark made me feel like dirt. but i made a point to say that i would have done it at any moment, and that i have wanted to kiss her for a long time.
so, the story now is that for the last two nights, my best friend has been over at my house, and so has ashley. and its almost like ashley makes a point to flirt with him. I know that she thinks he is extremely hot, every other girl does, but still she shouldnt make it a point to flirt right in front of me. she knows it pissed me off, is there a reason for this????
Well my actual question is how can i get this girl to be mine? i am not worried about ruining the friendship because i feel like it is already ruined in a way. I just want her to be mine, she is perfect in every way for me.
any tips?
