I'm dating this girl and she has been acting hot and cold towards me the last two weeks. I have decided to start going mildly NC over the weekend, and I think it's catching her attention. (e.g. I flaked on a movie date and spent Sunday having my own adventure. She left a comment on FB saying she's slightly envious of my fun Sunday.) I'm wondering how long I should keep up this minimal attention.
The other thing is, there are plenty of guys around interested in her. My major/class has a very high male:female ratio, and they're all waiting to swoop in. I'm not exactly the best looking guy, or the most social guy, or the tallest guy. (I am, however, the most valuable guy. That much I know, but not sure if I've demonstrated that sufficiently.)
One final thing, her birthday is on Friday, and there's a huge major/class event/bbq party thing going on. I'm attending but it'd be hard to get alone time--she's one of the hosts. In any case, should I keep up NC with her until past her birthday? And should I get her a present? (We've been dating for a month, but it's very casual and not exactly "official.")
btw. First post... Been a lurker for a while.
The other thing is, there are plenty of guys around interested in her. My major/class has a very high male:female ratio, and they're all waiting to swoop in. I'm not exactly the best looking guy, or the most social guy, or the tallest guy. (I am, however, the most valuable guy. That much I know, but not sure if I've demonstrated that sufficiently.)
One final thing, her birthday is on Friday, and there's a huge major/class event/bbq party thing going on. I'm attending but it'd be hard to get alone time--she's one of the hosts. In any case, should I keep up NC with her until past her birthday? And should I get her a present? (We've been dating for a month, but it's very casual and not exactly "official.")
btw. First post... Been a lurker for a while.