need some advice

[ddubdubw]

Ive been single for a little over a month now. heres the story...My GF (well, X) and I broke up last month. I had been dating her since I was 15, almost 5 years. Things were bad this past year and a half. We kept arguing and she said that she felt neglected cuz I was hanging around my friends a little more. Shes a great girl but i started wondering what else is out there. She was the type that expected me and her to get married. Also, neither one of us had ever had another GF/BF. She was my first kiss and vice versa.

Well yesterday I went to her house to see her family cause I hadnt seen them in forever. She and I are on good terms and we all talked for a while. She asked me what I was doing that night. I said that I had to run to walmart and get some stuff adn that I was going home. She asked if I wanted to go to the local fair. I said no that I was thinking about going but did not want to pay 5 bucks to get in. I also didnt think it was a good idea to go with her anyway.

Heres the question. I dont want her back cause I know it will become the same old ****t. She calls me this morning to tell me that she was glad I stopped by yesterday and liked seeing me. Here it is.... I want to date other girls but should I mess around w/ her? I would tell her that we can fvck but I want to see other ppl. I dont want a relationship w/ her. More or less a fvck buddy. I was tied down long enough and now Im trying to become a DJ.

thanks, Donnie

 

[jdr120]

You have too much history to be FBs... If you decided to try it out, it will be ok for the first few times, then you 2 will either:
- Start acting like a couple again, because that's the behaviour you're used to with eachother
- Things will get "akward" between you 2, will result in talks about "your status", why you broke up, and possibily more argurments...

Go out and find some fresh FBs!!!

 

[DAMY]

ok

If you want to get back together and date, then date.
Otherwise
Move on and find someone new.
I would not hang onto her as a FB.....
My 2 cents.

Damy

 

[TurboLover]

Originally posted by ddubdubw
She asked if I wanted to go to the local fair. I said no that I was thinking about going but did not want to pay 5 bucks to get in.

Holy crap, I almost pee'd myself when I read that. LMAO

Move on. FBs both have the same intentions, which is not the case with you and her.

 

[ddubdubw]

thanks guys! Thats what I need to hear. Who knows, we may get back together later down the road but I wanna see what I've been missing during those 5 years.