slickone
Don Juan
Appreciate all the great posts and advice, need some advice on my own.
I'm married and I cheated last November. The chick was from work, unbelievable piece of ass. Single mother, whose former boyfriend was like 15 years older than her.
We hit off great, just talking about stuff at work. Later I found out that she picks up just about everyone at work.
She invites me over to her house one day. We have some unbelievable sex. She thinks that I am single.
One day she calls the house and my wife hands me the phone. This chick is all pissed. I leave the house all pale and get her on the cell.
She is pissed off and threatens to spill the beans of this one week fling. I get all nervous and she says that she will keep her silence for $5000. I'm thinking, how do I come up with that?
So while I'm still on the phone she calls my home with her cell phone and spills the beans!! I rush home my wife is pissed and sad.
Things at home get resolved. I don't talk or see the chick. Three weeks later I get an email "wassup?" and "When are you working?" She's all talking about when am I going to come work again or come by the house.
I find out more things about her. Usual troubled past. Likes to juggle guys and have a few around to play with. Likes to have one or two long distance relationships. Meanwhile "falls in love" with me. Maybe because of my financial situation or because of my personality or the great sex. Talks all of the time about imagining us married, etc.
Has some partners that she loves and leaves and maybe 1 or 2 steadies.
The other day she mentions that we haven't had sex for 3 weeks. She worries that I am getting some, somewhere else. She worries that I'll never leave my wife. She gets all fired up when we are alone but then stops short of sex. She states that she thinks I am worried about ending things with her cause she might try to get back at me. She says that she wouldn't do that, though. She gets all tearful with the prospect of me leaving her and can't imagine being without me. She freaks when she doesn't hear from me, ie email or phonecalls. She states that she would never rat me out again.
I don't know what to do.
I keep wanting to leave her.
The pros unbelievable sex (when I can get some) and that is it.
The cons I'm cheating on my wife, she would probably go psycho on me if I break it off, and I like having her around. She has a really checkered past, sometimes ****s for the hell of it with strangers. And lately can't get up the muster to **** me (cause her psych meds, supposedly) but when some out of town "BF" comes around she ****s him. She is big time with KINO loves to grab my ass and package, tells me that she's my girl, etc.
How do I tell her I don't dig her disrespect? She fires back, "you're married" if I ever do. How do I end this?
I'm married and I cheated last November. The chick was from work, unbelievable piece of ass. Single mother, whose former boyfriend was like 15 years older than her.
We hit off great, just talking about stuff at work. Later I found out that she picks up just about everyone at work.
She invites me over to her house one day. We have some unbelievable sex. She thinks that I am single.
One day she calls the house and my wife hands me the phone. This chick is all pissed. I leave the house all pale and get her on the cell.
She is pissed off and threatens to spill the beans of this one week fling. I get all nervous and she says that she will keep her silence for $5000. I'm thinking, how do I come up with that?
So while I'm still on the phone she calls my home with her cell phone and spills the beans!! I rush home my wife is pissed and sad.
Things at home get resolved. I don't talk or see the chick. Three weeks later I get an email "wassup?" and "When are you working?" She's all talking about when am I going to come work again or come by the house.
I find out more things about her. Usual troubled past. Likes to juggle guys and have a few around to play with. Likes to have one or two long distance relationships. Meanwhile "falls in love" with me. Maybe because of my financial situation or because of my personality or the great sex. Talks all of the time about imagining us married, etc.
Has some partners that she loves and leaves and maybe 1 or 2 steadies.
The other day she mentions that we haven't had sex for 3 weeks. She worries that I am getting some, somewhere else. She worries that I'll never leave my wife. She gets all fired up when we are alone but then stops short of sex. She states that she thinks I am worried about ending things with her cause she might try to get back at me. She says that she wouldn't do that, though. She gets all tearful with the prospect of me leaving her and can't imagine being without me. She freaks when she doesn't hear from me, ie email or phonecalls. She states that she would never rat me out again.
I don't know what to do.
I keep wanting to leave her.
The pros unbelievable sex (when I can get some) and that is it.
The cons I'm cheating on my wife, she would probably go psycho on me if I break it off, and I like having her around. She has a really checkered past, sometimes ****s for the hell of it with strangers. And lately can't get up the muster to **** me (cause her psych meds, supposedly) but when some out of town "BF" comes around she ****s him. She is big time with KINO loves to grab my ass and package, tells me that she's my girl, etc.
How do I tell her I don't dig her disrespect? She fires back, "you're married" if I ever do. How do I end this?
