Need some advice

[gUiLe]

Ok, I work in NYC. First off, I'm married. I just basically want to
score with this chick who works in my company. She is SOOOO
hot and I kept getting good vibes from her in the elevator. The
last time I saw her, she chatted with me then as we got off
the elevator, she waited for me to walk with her. This took me
by surprise since I hadn't seen her in quite a while. I said the
next time I see her, I'm gonna ask her out to lunch. So yesterday,
I see her as I'm getting my lunch. We are chatting and I'm hoping we will get an empty elevator (we did) so I can ask her out.

I was very nervous because I knew I only had a few floors to
ask her, but I didn't want to punk out. Just before she got off
the elevator, I said "Would you like to have lunch with me?" and
she was like "Absolutely!" I think I probably could have made out with her in the elevator but hey, one step at a time. Now I have her number at work but was wondering the best way to play it.
This happened Tuesday afternoon but I still have not called her.
I would have liked to go today, but my manager just got back from vacation, and I will most definately have lunch with her today. I am also having lunch with another girl (hottie) I work with tomorrow. Should I just give her a call and ask her to go to
lunch someday next week? Should I wait until I return from lunch
tomorrow to call her since I will most likely have a nice buzz from
drinking at lunch? Should I make her wait until next week? I really don't want to screw this up because she is whole other league
hot. Help me out here guys!
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[Leykis]

Ok, I have the perfect solution to your problem.

1) Get a divorce

Thanks,

Leykis

 

[xblitz44x]

Relax and call her as soon as you have time. I believe 100% that it doesn't matter when you call, just how you call. Be confident and cool about it. Realize that the more you are YOU, the better chance you have for things to work out. and you can't be YOU if you're hiding behind this boring, cautious, shy shell. Call her up and tell her you'd like to take her to McDonalds to treat her to a nice meal, and to take advantage of the dollar menu. Make a joke out of it. Then just ask her what day she is free, if you are free that day - then accept. If she gives you a day, but then cancels, repeat the process.. If she does it yet AGAIN, drop her.

-Blitz

 

[gUiLe]

Originally posted by Leykis
Ok, I have the perfect solution to your problem.

1) Get a divorce

Thanks,

Leykis

Since I did mention I was married, I guess I can't be surprised by
this response. I am in a pretty crappy relationship but I have
two wonderful kids. If I can get along with my wife to the point of
being civil, that will work. Want to know WHY I wouldn't get a
divorce?? Well....you can go to nomarriage.com and see. As
the old saying goes, it's cheaper to keep her. Sorry, but I just like to **** around. Wait a minute...I'm not sorry.
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[uniassign]

Geez,

Just give her a call. The more you analyse the situation, the more she sense the "stalker/psycho" vibe from you and the more she will reject you.

Call her whenever and set something up. The worst she can do is to tell you to f&*k off (which is highly unlikely).