need some advice

[churchwin77]

Ok heres the deal there is this girl who ive known for about 4 months now. I asked her out 2 times back in March but she was busy both times so I nexted her and we pretty much just became friends. And for the last two weeks she has been sending me IM's to my cell because I have IM Forwarding saying stuff like i miss you, i love you, and call me and all this stuff but I just pretty much ignore it because from the last time I checked she was dating someone. She also says that I'm mean to her even though I am just playing around even her friends know that I'm playing around but she still takes it serious because she isnt used to it. Anyways I talked to her today for the first time in like a week and she wants to hang out with me tomorrow. So I asked howcome she wants to hang out with me if she thinks im mean to her. She responded saying that maybe I'll change. She also said she loved me even though I'm mean to her. I do admit I like this girl a lot and wouldn't mind having a relationship with her. But I guess I'm asking if anyone else has been in this situation and if I should go ahead and call her up tomorrow to do something. Sorry for the long post and thanks for the helpful replies

 

[Ronny_Neumonic II]

I'm not sure whether to laugh or cry, cause I'm not 100% sure on who is playing who in the story. JUST ASK HER OUT and see what happens. No need to keep playing games if you wanna be with the girl...

 

[xanderbaz]

Originally posted by churchwin77
So I asked howcome she wants to hang out with me if she thinks im mean to her. She responded saying that maybe I'll change.

Never ask a question like that... Kills the game and seems a bit insecure, don't you think?
Go out with her, see if it works out. It's not quantum mechanics, you know. If she turns out to be a bytch, drama queen, attn wh0re, or any combination of the three, next her. If you can get along well, then go for date #2.
And first of all, relax.

 

[Sax God]

Just do it. If you're really interested, she certainly seems willing, so ask her out. If she starts up her old games again, however, you need to fix that right away or next her.