Just a little background info.
I'm Male 22 years old. Started College a year ago. I've been with a couple of girls, but not as many as I would want too (I'm sure everyone is in this same position, heh). Before coming into College I was in rehab. Before rehab my #1 priority was to party my second was probably to get girls, which I really didn't get many. Now that I'm clean/sober I haven't hooked up with any chicks from college (I thought it was going to be a piece of cake, but if you don't do sh*t to get them I'm sure they won't come to you). I'm somewhat introverted, lack some social skills, but I'm not 100% quite all the time. I try to talk to people once in a while.
I have some questions...
How important is your physical appearance? I was in OK shape when I started college but I've gained some 15-20 pounds since I came. I'm trying to get fit right now, but should I wait until I get fit to start trying to hook up with girls?
Something that I really don't know how to do is get a girl interested in me. How can I do that? Most of the girls I've hooked up in the past took the initiative, and I just followed. How can I get her to keep talking to me or interested in me? Any suggestions? I'm sure you need some sort of "hook" to lure her, and to keep her from wanting more of you..
I'd appreciate any suggestions...
I'm Male 22 years old. Started College a year ago. I've been with a couple of girls, but not as many as I would want too (I'm sure everyone is in this same position, heh). Before coming into College I was in rehab. Before rehab my #1 priority was to party my second was probably to get girls, which I really didn't get many. Now that I'm clean/sober I haven't hooked up with any chicks from college (I thought it was going to be a piece of cake, but if you don't do sh*t to get them I'm sure they won't come to you). I'm somewhat introverted, lack some social skills, but I'm not 100% quite all the time. I try to talk to people once in a while.
I have some questions...
How important is your physical appearance? I was in OK shape when I started college but I've gained some 15-20 pounds since I came. I'm trying to get fit right now, but should I wait until I get fit to start trying to hook up with girls?
Something that I really don't know how to do is get a girl interested in me. How can I do that? Most of the girls I've hooked up in the past took the initiative, and I just followed. How can I get her to keep talking to me or interested in me? Any suggestions? I'm sure you need some sort of "hook" to lure her, and to keep her from wanting more of you..
I'd appreciate any suggestions...