Need some advice with this

[captain55]

cliffs
- met girl through sister in law and she’s amazing
- went out a few times started getting closer
- why haven’t i ****ed her? she’s 26 and lives at home and the dad is super possessive of her. He literally calls her up every time I’m out with her.
- she currently has no free time because she studies 12 hours a day for some big accounting exam. She even seemed like she got jealous of me when I was out with my friends because she hasn’t seen a friend in months and barely has tile to get to the gym 3 days a week. She asked me if I would wait for her until after exam is done and she has all the time in the world and I said yes.

Am I better off ghosting her until she passes this exam or do I need to continue to text her to keep the rapport? Texting her is the only reason I got as far as I did in the first place. I felt like if I would of kept pushing I would of probably ****ed her but it was becoming too much work for me and I don’t want her blaming me if she doesn’t pass the test

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Spin more plates. Go balls deep. #nextset

Its funny how women respond to when you got options.

Not in the mood means #next!

High interest level = women claw the eyes out of every man, women, child to get to the alpha male.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I would not ghost her, and if it were me, I would also take the time to meet and at least chat with her father, if at all possible.

 

[AJ84]

cliffs
- met girl through sister in law and she’s amazing
- went out a few times started getting closer
- why haven’t i ****ed her? she’s 26 and lives at home and the dad is super possessive of her. He literally calls her up every time I’m out with her.
- she currently has no free time because she studies 12 hours a day for some big accounting exam. She even seemed like she got jealous of me when I was out with my friends because she hasn’t seen a friend in months and barely has tile to get to the gym 3 days a week. She asked me if I would wait for her until after exam is done and she has all the time in the world and I said yes.

Am I better off ghosting her until she passes this exam or do I need to continue to text her to keep the rapport? Texting her is the only reason I got as far as I did in the first place. I felt like if I would of kept pushing I would of probably ****ed her but it was becoming too much work for me and I don’t want her blaming me if she doesn’t pass the test

if you like her I would suggest you stay in touch because if you don’t of course she will assume you are not interested. Wouldn’t you if it was the other way around? But that doesn’t mean you should put off meeting up with other girls, if the opportunity for that arises, unless you and this girl discussed not seeing other people. If you didn’t and she expects you to wait for her and not meet other women well that’s asking a lot I would think but it’s your choice depending on how much of a connection you have with her.

 

[captain55]

Spin more plates. Go balls deep. #nextset

Its funny how women respond to when you got options.

Not in the mood means #next!

High interest level = women claw the eyes out of every man, women, child to get to the alpha male.

I never said she said she wasn’t in the mood. I pretty much had the ball in my court. She asked me if I would wait for her, said she will talk to me after the exam because she gets too stressed and horny, I said ok that’s cool. Next day she texts me with a sexy video saying “oops” and I just said haha hey and didn’t bother with her.

I liked how into me she was, I have no issue texting a chick if she’s putting out...but it was too much effort for the little amount of time I would get with her. I’m not going to let a girl blow my phone up for Hours a day Monday to friday just to see her for two hours once a week for some frozen yogurt and a makeout session.

I ghosted her two weeks...we are talking again. But my patience is limited

 

[captain55]

if you like her I would suggest you stay in touch because if you don’t of course she will assume you are not interested. Wouldn’t you if it was the other way around? But that doesn’t mean you should put off meeting up with other girls, if the opportunity for that arises, unless you and this girl discussed not seeing other people. If you didn’t and she expects you to wait for her and not meet other women well that’s asking a lot I would think but it’s your choice depending on how much of a connection you have with her.

I know for fact she would lose interest in me if she found out I was talking to other women. She has her guard up big time with me because my brothers fiancé told her what a player I was and about all the chicks I ****ed. Took me a while to break down her walls

 

[AJ84]

That’s the side effect of sleeping around. The reputation can increase interest in certain types of girls but can deter other girls who are not easy and don’t want to get used.

As a female I don’t advocate deceiving girls into pretending you want a relationship when you just want to get laid. No one likes being used and that come back to bite you in the butt big time because she’s in your circle and will trash talk you.

But, I know what site I’m lol on so:

Whether you just want to bang her or you want something more and see her as a potential girlfriend, you will have to run a serious comfort game while also passing whatever tests she throws your way for you to prove to her that she isn’t just going to be another casual sex plate.

So if your patience is already running thin then it will only run thinner while you try to convince this girl that you are not what you are reputed to be.

Is it worth it to you? That’s what you need to ask yourself.

 

[R.U.G.]

I find it's a waste of time dating a woman who still lives with her parents. I'd say the same for single mom's with little kids. In our age bracket, you may have to date single moms. However, if you have to, aim for one's with teenage children. The reason would be so you can have some time with her and the children can be out doing their thing while you're doing her. I did this once, but had to end it.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I never said she said she wasn’t in the mood. I pretty much had the ball in my court. She asked me if I would wait for her, said she will talk to me after the exam because she gets too stressed and horny, I said ok that’s cool. Next day she texts me with a sexy video saying “oops” and I just said haha hey and didn’t bother with her.

I liked how into me she was, I have no issue texting a chick if she’s putting out...but it was too much effort for the little amount of time I would get with her. I’m not going to let a girl blow my phone up for Hours a day Monday to friday just to see her for two hours once a week for some frozen yogurt and a makeout session.

I ghosted her two weeks...we are talking again. But my patience is limited

No man with option waits.

Waiting is the mating call of the loser.

Not in the mood, her father, school, female logic etc is code for low interest level.

Chad or Tyrone will beat it rotten and run a train on her ass before he drops her for younger, thinner, hotter.

Next set. spin more plates. Get more baeee. Better yet, get a life.

If you have options, you aren't messaging about a oneittus.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

T

I find it's a waste of time dating a woman who still lives with her parents. I'd say the same for single mom's with little kids. In our age bracket, you may have to date single moms. However, if you have to, aim for one's with teenage children. The reason would be so you can have some time with her and the children can be out doing their thing while you're doing her. I did this once, but had to end it.

There's absolutely no excuse for train wrecks Aldo known as single moms. You never do this. Its worst then dating cratered SMV. You are playing house then with Chad and Tyrone's booty call. You are then subscribing to being a stooge and cuck.

 

[Tilex]

If she's almost 30 and still lives with her controlling parents, that's ridiculous!
Dating these type of chicks in high school and having to dealing with their controlling parents was already bad enough.

 

[speed dawg]

She doesn't sound like she's into you. Girls that are into you are very clear in their intentions. Even if she was very busy, she'd go out of her way to let you know about it. Even the super weird girls, who are all scared, will still give attraction signals.

 

[AJ84]

She likes him doesn't she?

 

[captain55]

She doesn't sound like she's into you. Girls that are into you are very clear in their intentions. Even if she was very busy, she'd go out of her way to let you know about it. Even the super weird girls, who are all scared, will still give attraction signals.

What are you talking about? She was calling me daddy and sending me nudes. Had me pick her up from her work and we hooked up we just didn’t ****

 

[AJ84]

She likes him doesn't she?

I mean deterred from getting to close due to fear of getting hurt.

 

[captain55]

I mean deterred from getting to close due to fear of getting hurt.

You hit the nail on the head. She even admitted to me she has problems opening up to people. I’ve gotten her to open people before but if i stop talking to her for a couple days she closes right back up.

 

[captain55]

other side of the coin is she loves the chase and the excitement of it. This is just cat and mouse hamstering. She wants to tame the beast. Otherwise she would not even have bothered to begin with.

I think she wants to **** me but doesn’t trust me. Also think she is using me for validation.

My mindset with women is this...I like you, you like me, so are we going to hang out or what?

The game can only go on so long. I’ve spent more time texting this chick than the last girl I dated for two years. My ex made things easy...the way it should be. The only time you should text a chick is to meet up. I think she’s worth it long term so I’m playing along

 

[R.U.G.]

T


There's absolutely no excuse for train wrecks Aldo known as single moms. You never do this. Its worst then dating cratered SMV. You are playing house then with Chad and Tyrone's booty call. You are then subscribing to being a stooge and cuck.

Partially true, but if one is new to the game, you can use them for practice so you can get your game under control.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Partially true, but if one is new to the game, you can use them for practice so you can get your game under control.

I'd then suggest getting **** sucked or taking the ass. Neither can you get pregnant. Regardless, it IMHO shouldn't be considered game or pulling if not for top form SMV lol

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I think she wants to **** me but doesn’t trust me. Also think she is using me for validation.

My mindset with women is this...I like you, you like me, so are we going to hang out or what?

The game can only go on so long. I’ve spent more time texting this chick than the last girl I dated for two years. My ex made things easy...the way it should be. The only time you should text a chick is to meet up. I think she’s worth it long term so I’m playing along

Burn every set to the ****ing ground. As in, no regrets. Pull or next her ASAP.