Need some advice, quick! mad quick!

[Blue Hef]

Ok, so yesterday after work i went into this little clothing store to get my lil sister some gear for her b-day. I seen this hot chick (9/10) and went straight to her (even tho another ugly chick offered to help me hahah), i asked for her advice on what i should get n' all that. Then while i was paying, i made a lil small talk with her about work and all that bullsh*t, and i said "you're pretty by the way" (was that too soon??), she smiled and said thanks...Then she asks if I can deliver her free pizza (i was still in my pizza hut uniform so she knew i work at pizza hut)...I joked about it and said "i'll see what I can do"...then she said she'll be there tomorrow from 1-7...I wanted to ask for her number right then, but i figured I'd wait till tomorrow...Now here's my question: 1. Will that be considered being a "nice" guy if i brought this chick free pizza? should I wait a few days to bring it? or should i use it as part of my game??...2.What would be a smooth/good way to ask for her number??
real DJ'S help me out

 

[Mr.SomeoneElse]

Ok, so yesterday after work i went into this little clothing store to get my lil sister some gear for her b-day. I seen this hot chick (9/10) and went straight to her (even tho another ugly chick offered to help me hahah), i asked for her advice on what i should get n' all that. Then while i was paying, i made a lil small talk with her about work and all that bullsh*t, and i said "you're pretty by the way" (was that too soon??), she smiled and said thanks...Then she asks if I can deliver her free pizza (i was still in my pizza hut uniform so she knew i work at pizza hut)...I joked about it and said "i'll see what I can do"...then she said she'll be there tomorrow from 1-7...I wanted to ask for her number right then, but i figured I'd wait till tomorrow...Now here's my question: 1. Will that be considered being a "nice" guy if i brought this chick free pizza? should I wait a few days to bring it? or should i use it as part of my game??...2.What would be a smooth/good way to ask for her number??
real DJ'S help me out

Bringing her pizza wouldn't be a bad thing depending on how you presented it.
If you did it casually and you just being a good guy, that could actually work to your advantage.
If you feebly brought her pizza and smiled sheepishly when she said thank you etc.. she'd just automatically assume she's got you under her finger.
ONE thing ive been working on recently is being nice occasionally, its not a bad thing, it sets you apart in someways you just cant give them much control from that point onward.
For instance if you did bring her pizza and told her "Now you owe me one" or "now your in my debt"
Then you could joke about getting free clothing for yourself in the store, (if its a woman store you could make it into something funny) or you could joke about her having to look the other way while you steal stuff from the store because you stole the pizza for her, making you seem like a bad ass.

It all depends on how you act, there is nothing wrong with doing nice things for girls, at all. Just dont be a ***** about it, giving her a reward right off the bat is yeah, a bit afc, but you could also use it to your advantage if your smart.
You could say "Give me your number so when I need my room cleaned, my dishes done, a back massage, I can call you up"
Stuff like that.
Dont ask for the number sheepishly after giving her a prize, work in it like your a cool guy, be creative about it and demand the number

 

[Zarky]

It's interesting to read posts by guys who are still at stage 1. Or even stage 0 perhaps here.

OP, read, read, read. You have a long way to go. But you're young. Just stay on this path and you'll eventually be fine.

 

[Huffman]

Do not bring her pizza. At all. Ask her if she wants to grab a bite with you instead, then get the number.

This! Perfect solution.

 

[CrashOverRide]

This! Perfect solution.

I second this.

 

[Greasy Pig]

I third it.
Do not bring her pizza. That's a chump move and gives her the frame.

 

[betheman]

you should have offered her you 'meat feast special'

 

[Blue Hef]

Bringing her pizza wouldn't be a bad thing depending on how you presented it.
If you did it casually and you just being a good guy, that could actually work to your advantage.
If you feebly brought her pizza and smiled sheepishly when she said thank you etc.. she'd just automatically assume she's got you under her finger.
ONE thing ive been working on recently is being nice occasionally, its not a bad thing, it sets you apart in someways you just cant give them much control from that point onward.
For instance if you did bring her pizza and told her "Now you owe me one" or "now your in my debt"
Then you could joke about getting free clothing for yourself in the store, (if its a woman store you could make it into something funny) or you could joke about her having to look the other way while you steal stuff from the store because you stole the pizza for her, making you seem like a bad ass.

It all depends on how you act, there is nothing wrong with doing nice things for girls, at all. Just dont be a ***** about it, giving her a reward right off the bat is yeah, a bit afc, but you could also use it to your advantage if your smart.
You could say "Give me your number so when I need my room cleaned, my dishes done, a back massage, I can call you up"
Stuff like that.
Dont ask for the number sheepishly after giving her a prize, work in it like your a cool guy, be creative about it and demand the number

thanks for the advice yo, I was thinking about doing something like this ^

 

[razoor_mx]

ABC = Always Be Closing!

If you got a shot, go for it! "What's your number?" Not more, not less! There is no elegant way of it. You feel insecure about it, she feels insecure about it. You feel confident about it, she feels confident about it.

As you think, she will feel.

If you get rejected, that's fine. Because then you know that she was not into you.

Apparently, she works there fulltime. So don't show up for next couple of days or so. Approach other girls.

It is self-mastery, not women-mastery.

 

[DonJuanabe]

Do not tell a 9/10 that she is pretty. She knows that and all you're doing is verbalizing what every guy thinks. Don't be every guy.

Do not bring her pizza or any other present, other than yourself. Here is how you should be thinking: "Pizza? Dude (yes, to an HB 9/10's face you should call her dude), pizza is beneath you. You deserve a real dinner at a real restaurant, but you're going to have to wait for our 4th date before I know you're ready for that. What's your number we should hang out at ABC Coffeehouse tomorrow night."

 

[Mr.SomeoneElse]

Do not tell a 9/10 that she is pretty. She knows that and all you're doing is verbalizing what every guy thinks. Don't be every guy.

Do not bring her pizza or any other present, other than yourself. Here is how you should be thinking: "Pizza? Dude (yes, to an HB 9/10's face you should call her dude), pizza is beneath you. You deserve a real dinner at a real restaurant, but you're going to have to wait for our 4th date before I know you're ready for that. What's your number we should hang out at ABC Coffeehouse tomorrow night."

Man, I would never get laid if I waved a fancy dinner or dinner at restaurant in front of a girls face.
She would never want to sleep with me until I gave her that..fourth date? really?
To me that sounds like something someone would say if they wanted to begin a slow and steady relationship.
Maybe that's what he's into, but not me, I want her over in my room asap.

 

[Blue Hef]

Man, I would never get laid if I waved a fancy dinner or dinner at restaurant in front of a girls face.
She would never want to sleep with me until I gave her that..fourth date? really?
To me that sounds like something someone would say if they wanted to begin a slow and steady relationship.
Maybe that's what he's into, but not me, I want her over in my room asap.

^lmaoo word bro...


Bad news guys...Here's what ended up happening:
I mobbed in with the pizza around 6:00 pm, she smiled as soon as she seen me and said "you remembered!" ... and I told her that I was a man of my word, joked a lil bit blah blah blah...then I said, "you owe me one now, how bout you let me take you out?" she hesitated then said she had boyfriend but her co-worker thought i was cute (her co-corker was 7/10)...she told me to go talk to her but I was like "Nah, it's coo, I gotta get back to work"...and walked away...First time I've ever got rejected...didn't feel too bad though. Part of me is saying "f*ck her, move on" but the other part of me is saying "go back in there in a couple of weeks and try again"

 

[Mr.SomeoneElse]

**** man. That's ****ty
Pizza might have ruined that.
Also be careful with your wording

you owe me one now, how bout you let me take you out?

You bring her pizza and now as her paying you back she gets to go on a date with you?
That is the wrong attitude buddy.
I suggested earlier if you gave her pizza that her owing you would be playful banter about 'anything you want in the store' as you glance around like your about to take it.
Or that she'd give you her number for when you need your room cleaned or dishes done etc..
Get it?
Almost as if the pizza was a way to manipulate her into a greater plan of yours
By you saying that her LETTING you take HER out would be her 'favour' towards you or paying you back her debt, that attitude and phrasing just lowers your value.

Get it? Make sure you change that attitude man, its REALLY important

 

[Blue Hef]

**** man. That's ****ty
Pizza might have ruined that.
Also be careful with your wording


You bring her pizza and now as her paying you back she gets to go on a date with you?
That is the wrong attitude buddy.
I suggested earlier if you gave her pizza that her owing you would be playful banter about 'anything you want in the store' as you glance around like your about to take it.
Or that she'd give you her number for when you need your room cleaned or dishes done etc..
Get it?
Almost as if the pizza was a way to manipulate her into a greater plan of yours
By you saying that her LETTING you take HER out would be her 'favour' towards you or paying you back her debt, that attitude and phrasing just lowers your value.

Get it? Make sure you change that attitude man, its REALLY important

yea man, I get what you're saying...I actually thought about doing what you said but everything was happening so fast and i got a lil nervous and that was all I could think of at the time...you think I still have a chance at her or should i just move on?

 

[Trump]

i said "you're pretty by the way" (was that too soon??),

she smiled and said thanks...Then she asks if I can deliver her free pizza (i was still in my pizza hut uniform so she knew i work at pizza hut)...I joked about it and said "i'll see what I can do"...then she said she'll be there tomorrow from 1-7...I wanted to ask for her number right then, but i figured I'd wait till tomorrow...Now here's my question: 1. Will that be considered being a "nice" guy if i brought this chick free pizza? should I wait a few days to bring it? or should i use it as part of my game??...2.What would be a smooth/good way to ask for her number??
real DJ'S help me out

I never understand guys and their negotiating skills when it comes to girls. The same guys bargain for days on end to squeeze the extra cash from a buyer when they are selling something, but when it comes to a hot girl, their negotiating skills go out the window.

Bro as soon as she says "can you deliver me free pizza?", shouldn't you think, "a girl, who I hardly know but I think is hot, is asking me to give her something for free...hmmm something smells fishy....hmmm....maybe I should ask her what do I get out of it I deliver her something for FREE."

I would have said "My boss doesn't allow me to give out free pizza, but I might be able to get you a deal in exchange for a coffee date."

You saying "I'll see what I can do" means you have agreed to put in time and effort to find out from your boss, or pay for it yourself, in exchange for nothing. You have even damaged Pizza Huts brand by saying that.

 

[Blue Hef]

I never understand guys and their negotiating skills when it comes to girls. The same guys bargain for days on end to squeeze the extra cash from a buyer when they are selling something, but when it comes to a hot girl, their negotiating skills go out the window.

Bro as soon as she says "can you deliver me free pizza?", shouldn't you think, "a girl, who I hardly know but I think is hot, is asking me to give her something for free...hmmm something smells fishy....hmmm....maybe I should ask her what do I get out of it I deliver her something for FREE."

I would have said "My boss doesn't allow me to give out free pizza, but I might be able to get you a deal in exchange for a coffee date."

You saying "I'll see what I can do" means you have agreed to put in time and effort to find out from your boss, or pay for it yourself, in exchange for nothing. You have even damaged Pizza Huts brand by saying that.

^true...I actually stole the pizza from the warmer tho (i didn't pay for that sh*t)...and i don't really care about the pizza hut brand lmao...now i know next time though

 

[Mr.SomeoneElse]

I would have said "My boss doesn't allow me to give out free pizza, but I might be able to get you a deal in exchange for a coffee date."

To me that just sounds cheap. If I heard a guy say that I would instantly assume he's afraid to break any rules (not fun) and 'get you a deal in exchange for a coffee date' A) makes you sound cheap. B) again, like I stated above, why does you giving her a favor end in you doing her another favor?

WHY ARE YOU GUYS ACCEPTING DATES WITH YOU AS CURRENCY OR FAVORS??
YOU'RE doing her a favor by taking her out. You don't "get" to go on a date with her, she "GETS" to go on a date with you. Get it?

Guys be bold. Stop being pvssies. I say this with love. I wish I could godfather slap you while yelling "BE A MAN"

 

[Mr.SomeoneElse]

A for effort, I guess.
What did you get out of it? A big fat nothing. And you even went to the extent of stealing from your job to get it. As soon as she got what she wanted, your usefulness expired. NEXT!

I still stand by what I said earlier.
If he had brought the pizza and used it as a tool to help him, it could have done wonders.
Of course offering it up on a platter than leaving isn't going to do ****, but there are tons of ways you could play off doing something nice for a girl in a fun but challenging way.

Its not like giving something to a woman is going to blow everything up, its HOW you give it to them that will blow it up.

 

[AlexDP]

You should pick your favorite pizza and go over there again. Say hi to her and start eating your pizza. Do not offer her a slice. If she asks, tell her that working at pizza hut gets you free pizzas. Then say you like pizza.

 

[Young Juan]

Lots of different possibilities here. I typically try to go with what my gut is telling me to do. My brain is too fancy in trying to calculate these things so I just follow my gut/heart, live in the moment, and believe the best will happen.

When you saw her, you were attracted and wanted her number. Going straight to her was a boss move. +1 to the gut.

After you finished warming up with the small talk and told her she was pretty (guessing gut told you to do that, I don't really care when I do it cuz nowadays most guys don't say it because they're too cool) I would've gone into asking what her plans are for Friday night and then telling her she should erase them because I'm going to XYZ and she's joining me. Or maybe I would've gone into asking her if she's ever had ABC because she should join me on whatever day around whatever time to go XYZ and get some ABC. Just basically whatever I felt like at that time.

She may have still said no, she may have still told me she had a boyfriend, but I really wouldn't have cared since I would've had fun, flexed my balls, and maybe even still got her number.

As far as the pizza goes, I probably would've used it as a tool for a free date or even used it for some ****y/funny e.g. I just met you and you're already trying to take me out to eat? Dang you girls move fast nowadays!

But really, the deal would be that I bring a pizza if she sits down chats and eats it with me.

Next time, just go with your gut, try something and learn from it.

"...Do the best that you can do; You may fail, but you may conquer, See it through!"