Need some advice/help please

[hockeyfreak79]

The damaged is done, she dumped for a reason and those reasons still exist. IT WILL NEVER BE THE SAME. She was getting busy banging her ex during those 6 weeks of no contact! He's done with her now and she's playing you like a fiddle! You are nothing but her emotional tampon right now that will take her to dinner! Please tell me you did not pay!

Her feelings plateaued = tingles are gone & are never coming back

She lives 2 hrs away, go back to no contact! Erase, delete everything! Move on man it's over.

Start reading the bible!

 

[sodbuster]

There is NO getting her back. Get your balls out of her purse and leave her alone. You ARE playing second fiddle right now, don't give us the "I don't play second fiddle" line. Are you banging her? No, is she setting up an opportunity where it COULD happen? No She's wasting your time. Find a new girl closer to where you are, or bang her friend.

 

[CMNILS87]

Yeah she had made some comments about that before she dumped me....saying her feelings have plateaued or whatever....then she ends things.....then fast forward 6 weeks, she's telling me she wants to talk, so she's texting/snapchatting me...then calls me...we have a great phone convo...then we meet up and it went fairly well...then she tells me we can hang out another time(she already had plans) and it was very good to see me

my first thought was yeah she wants me back and still has feelings for me...especially based on how our convos and her snapchats/texts went and what she was saying

then all of a sudden out of no where she's jumping down my throat about being top friends with one of her friends on snapchat...which i didnt think was a problem...i even asked her friend about it and she said that she never told my ex anything about it...so it makes it weird...and i dont understand why she'd care anyways? my only thought is she is jealous

then on friday my ex sends me a random snap of her face-swapping a co-worker at her work...i never replied...but my ex always looks at my stuff on my story.....so what the hell is the reason for all of this?

is she that insecure about her feelings and still have feelings for me or what? i mean why the hell would she say that stuff about her family and us possibly having a future together down the road...im not wrapped around her finger by any means, but i do miss/care about her(she is not aware of this...i never even once hinted at this while we were talking)

is it possible to get her back? and if so, how?

and yes, i am already talking to other women lol

1. She's not happy with herself
2. She's not happy she left you and went back to an ex and he ejected her and her feelings
3. She's super insecure and jealous
4. She hates that you're still friends with Er close friend. (Secretly her monkey brain thinks you're gonna **** her friend)
5. **** her friend

Who cares, you don't want her back. You want the ***** back. You really want all that emotional issues from her now that you know she has them???? Dude just stop

 

[hbkfan]

fair enough guys you all make good points!!....she was claiming that she hasnt talked to anyone nor gone on any dates(which i actually believe)...and was acting all jealous about me doing so...she even admitted to creeping on my date on facebook....and she was even asking if i had gotten laid and stuff....i understand the feeling thing, everyone has that with their spouse from time to time...it just threw me off when she said she wanted to still be friends/remain in contact/not rule anything out for the future between her and i...she just 'isnt ready to date right now' she said....like its obvious she still has feelings for me so yeah...plus with the whole 'youre in my area and didnt tell me line...you need to tell me when youre in my area' things that she said


honestly its just hard guys it really is.....i've been with 4 women since her and i still miss/want her....its just hard to forget about her