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Don Juan
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Hey guys. So there is this girl I have been crushin' on at work and I need some serious advice as to how to keep it going and keep it alive without it fading or getting awkward. I ask this because I know when you work with someone, you see them more than usual, and you can easily do things to mess it up and lose the attraction and mystery. Here's a brief background on the situation and about the girl:
She is a newer employee and I always thought she was cute but didn't see much of her or think anything of it. The more we started talking I became friends with her, more just work friends than anything. Every time she saw me she would talk to me and act like she was interested. Then I heard recently through the grapevine that she thought I was cute so now I'm really interested. There was a moment we worked together and she went to whisper something in my ear and I mistakenly turned my head the wrong way and we almost kissed - it was funny, awkward, and we just laughed about it but I believe that moment changed things cause it had us both imagining what that would actually be like. Then the other night I was playing basketball at the place I work (we have an arena) and I missed a shot and I heard her yell "nice shot" and she went back to working out, so when I got a break I came up behind her and grabbed her while she was on the treadmill to scare her in a flirty way. it was actually the first time we really touched and I could tell she liked it. So now we are texting more (she will initiate it sometimes, as will I) and we keep flirting and hinting at hanging out. So my question is: I am really into this chick, and I know she is into me too, so how do I keep this going? How do I keep the attraction alive without her losing interest? Thanks a bunch guys, I look forward to the feedback.
By the way, we are both in our 20's and in school if that makes any difference.
She is a newer employee and I always thought she was cute but didn't see much of her or think anything of it. The more we started talking I became friends with her, more just work friends than anything. Every time she saw me she would talk to me and act like she was interested. Then I heard recently through the grapevine that she thought I was cute so now I'm really interested. There was a moment we worked together and she went to whisper something in my ear and I mistakenly turned my head the wrong way and we almost kissed - it was funny, awkward, and we just laughed about it but I believe that moment changed things cause it had us both imagining what that would actually be like. Then the other night I was playing basketball at the place I work (we have an arena) and I missed a shot and I heard her yell "nice shot" and she went back to working out, so when I got a break I came up behind her and grabbed her while she was on the treadmill to scare her in a flirty way. it was actually the first time we really touched and I could tell she liked it. So now we are texting more (she will initiate it sometimes, as will I) and we keep flirting and hinting at hanging out. So my question is: I am really into this chick, and I know she is into me too, so how do I keep this going? How do I keep the attraction alive without her losing interest? Thanks a bunch guys, I look forward to the feedback.
By the way, we are both in our 20's and in school if that makes any difference.