Originally posted by Waldo27th
I am in the early stages of getting to know a woman from a dating site. We have not met yet - just the typical get to know each other stage. So far, she seems very nice and has a similar personality than I do. I got an email from her yesterday that was quite thought provoking, and I would appreciate advice on how to respond in a way that will make her melt. She is quite playful and fun. Here is what she wrote - thank you in advance.
"Yesterday I had one of those moments when I was working on a project that required the skilled hands and stregnth of a man. I am sure there are instances where you really wish you had a woman, or you probably would not be looking for one. Brings me to a question...........In what ways would a woman enhance your life?"
Ok, I'll take a stab. I'm not talking about a ridiculous F**k Buddy, or an Attention Wh0re. I'm not talking about a female friend, either. I am talking about that special woman out there, who is beyond a F**k Buddy, but a better friend than the female friend, and is an Attention Wh0re for YOU only, that is she wants YOUR attention, and could care less of the attention of other men.
1. Sex. Sex with a F**k Buddy isnt bad. But it aint all that either. Sex with a woman you have stong emotions for, and are VERY sexually attracted to, turns into the most erotic, Kama Sutric, spiritual, and mind blowing experience ever. Sex whenever you want it, with this woman you cannot keep your mind/hands off of, sex late night, after the bars close, sex early morning, that sleepy naked, warm sex, where she isnt even fully awake, sex in she shower, sex on special occasions, sex for no reason at all, other than you both want and need each others bodies, and that certain connection you have when you are inside her looking into her eyes as you thrust even deeper.
2. Companionship. The pals are fine. Great to discuss the fights with, and the game on Sunday, and to have beers with. But that certain female companionship with the woman you are sleeping with is second to none. You have someone who is there for you, on the tough days life sometimes throws in our face, you have emotional support. Someone to kiss at midnight on New Years Eve, and someone to share Xmas Eve with, someone to take to a special dinner on Valentine's Day, and someone to enjoy birthdays with. And just regular day to day living, so important with that special somebody who can turn an average Monday into such a perfect day/night.
3. Intangibles. You get to get out of the dating scene, have someone to sleep with every night, and a life partner, who is there for you, and is your personal cheerleader. Who does things for you "just because, and you social status is even elevated as a result.
