Need Help

[777boy]

Hellooooo,

Need some advice.

Have a date with a 8/10.....over this weekend.

I approached her but since then have been playing it cool....shes been texting and calling me several times.

She now wants us to meet.....

Am acting like its no big deal meeting her and am in no hurry to meet...its driving her crazy.

I am going to meet her but am wondering do i still play cool when i meet her or can i warm up a bit to her....i dont
want her to think im totally not interested......

I havent even said shes pretty or anything....do i go through the entire date without acknowledging that fact or ?????

One more thing i keep crossing this chick who after i dated her once just ignored me......have seen her a few times and she tried smiling but i pretended not to have seen her...

Getting awkward acting though since i keep crossing her....shes actually one of those chicks who are full of themselves..

Do i look at her point blank and not smile or do i just keep ignoring........

Cheers

 

[joekerr31]

personally i never directly fawn over a girls beauty. women, the moment you tell them they are beautiful, get egos the size of mack trucks.

if i want to tell a woman she's beautiful ill first talk about how some OTHER woman is beautiful (pick your favourite movie starlet, doesnt matter). This will upset her but she won't say anything.

THEN you can say "you know, you have the most beautiful eyes I think i've ever seen."

this does a few things...

1) lets her know that she's going to have to REALLY work to be seen as the most beautiful woman in the world in your eyes
2) really makes her appreciate your comment
3) you rattle her insecurities, THEN make her feel secure and good about herself
4) most importantly you've let her know that if she ever wants to try to use her beauty to manipulate you that she should always think twice, because there are other beautiful women in the world and you are keenly aware of that.

most AFCs will do the exact opposite and say sh*t like "pamela anderson? god no, she's not that beautiful. her breasts are way to big. you're more beautiful than her"

you've just shot her ego full of heroine saying that. now she thinks that if you think shes THAT beautiful she can do whatever the hell she wants with you and you won't leave.

its great to tell a woman shes beautiful, just make sure that before you do you pre-emptively keep her ego in check.

just my 2 cents.
J

 

[TheTrimReaper]

Great advice Joe. I've done this with success before.

And may I add something to that. One thing I've done is mention an actress I liked that was totally different than the woman I was with. For example, my ex was blond/blue. But on our first date, I mentioned how I thought Halle Berry was hot. Really I prefer blond/blue, but I was trying to mess with her a little more.

 

[bossdog]

goodjob man u got this one in the bag dont **** it up.

you have her chasing you. this is exactly how you want it.

The key here is to be confident. dont worry so much about words its more about attidue. be yourself do what u do playa. church