Need Help with this girl...PLEASE!!

[sunkist]

Hi everyone,
I really need help with this girl. There is a girl who works in my college's gym who I know definitely likes me without a doubt. But my problem is that we have never talked before and I really don't know how to approach her to ask her out for a date or something like that. We always have eye contact and she looks away anytime I catch her looking at me. The problem is i really don't know what to say without sounding creepy..lol...I need help concerning this chick. Any advice would be greatly appreciated..THNKS IN ADVANCE

 

[Mike32ct]

If she is attracted to you, then you can say anything and it will work. (If she isn't attracted to you, nothing you say will work.)

Ask how she's doing and get her name. Chat about anything then after a while tell her you'd like to call her sometime. Then get the number.

Don't worry about sounding creepy. That is only for guys she isn't attracted to. You won't know for sure where you stand until you approach and see her reaction.

I'll refrain from sarcasm or jokes at this time. But let's just say we've had plenty of "front desk girl at the gym" threads recently.

Either way, give it a shot. Good luck man.

 

[Skalioppe]

The best way to talk to a woman randomly is ask for their opinion / advice on something first just to break the ice, then make them laugh or chuckle once you are chatting - you can escalate from this to flirting in no time at all. This approach makes them feel respected, (as you are tapping their brain for an opinion) rather than just randomly hitting on them, so they'll lower any anti-slut defences they normally put up to deflect lame chat up lines.

When you approach her smile the biggest smile, it always works, smiles are contagious and when talking to her look into her eyes confidently.

Good luck, fella.

 

[Desdinova]

You have approach anxiety. You can fix that by learning how to start conversations with strangers.

You approach her, don't say hi, and don't ask her out right away. Start conversing about something. You can talk about anything happening around the college, something she's wearing, or anything in your surroundings. Converse with her for a bit, try to make her laugh, and then go for the number.

 

[sunkist]

Thanks for all the advice guys..really appreciate it

 

[WomenAreEasy]

Bro....you already answered this one yourself. You guys are at the gym together! Walk up to her and make a joke about some big dude lifting weights, "I.E: I didn't know Schwarzenegger lifted at this gym with us?!?" she will laugh and then tell ask her for her name and tell her you have seen her here before. Then ask that slore if she wants to go out to eat sometime or something around your area to do. OR if you are too shy to make a joke...then ask her to spot you or something dumb on an exercise that does not require spotting. Or just ask her if she wants to go running sometime around campus. I have gotten a fair share of women by asking them to go running and impressing them with that stamina boy! After a nice long run you can walk it off and get in a solid conversation then work your way into her pants. Hahaha do any of these things and she will be all yours bro.

 

[JohnChops]

Bro....you already answered this one yourself. You guys are at the gym together! Walk up to her and make a joke about some big dude lifting weights, "I.E: I didn't know Schwarzenegger lifted at this gym with us?!?" she will laugh and then tell ask her for her name and tell her you have seen her here before. Then ask that slore if she wants to go out to eat sometime or something around your area to do. OR if you are too shy to make a joke...then ask her to spot you or something dumb on an exercise that does not require spotting. Or just ask her if she wants to go running sometime around campus. I have gotten a fair share of women by asking them to go running and impressing them with that stamina boy! After a nice long run you can walk it off and get in a solid conversation then work your way into her pants. Hahaha do any of these things and she will be all yours bro.

aka your showing off, very beta my friend and a rookie mistake. Girls want a a confident guy not a ****y guy, so you dont need to make any special effort to make her see you lifting big. If shes interested she would have already noticed that! No need to try and impress her, that gets old real fast. Just do what Desdinova said and get over your approach anxiety. Good luck man.