Need help with starting a conversation my brothers

eba

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Today I finally got the courage to talk to some womens. I went up to these girls sitting outside at this picknic table. This is pretty much how the convo went...

ME: "Hey can I sit here."
No answers.
GRL3: "No."
ME: "So are you girls new here?"
GRL1: "Yeah, I'm in your Spanish class."
ME: "Oh yeah. So do you like it here."
GRL4 starts laughing.
ME: in a joking way "Aw thats not right you're making fun of me?"
GRL4: "No I'm making fun of her."
A few seconds pass, while these girls giggle. All the while I'm making eye contact with GRL1...
ME: "Well, I'll be over here if you guys need me. Don't forget to call."
As I walk away they all giggle, which didn't really bother me since I was joking around, and I walk over to the table with my homies.

As you can tell O my brothers, is that I have no skill. I don't know WHAT to talk about. Maybe its just these people don't like me. I don't know. I was being friendly/funny/confident I don't see the problem. So does anyone have any advice?

Thanks in advance.

P.S. - I think I will talk to GRL1 and find out her name tomorrow in Spanish class. :)
 

eba

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Holmes I read the bible. I printed that bish out. But the section on conversations doesnt really help. All it says is "Dig into their mind" or some ****. It doesn't say how to go about doing that. Like (to continue from my story):

"Do you like it here?"
"Yeah."
"So whats your elective?"
"Computers."
"Really?" and I thats pretty much all I can go to. Its not like I have problems talking to people in general but I find it more difficult to find things to talk about.

Thanks GigaloDJ..for nothing.
 

Canadianpimpology

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You blew it, but not too hard. Your problem: you have little confidence. You even told us that you have no skill. You need to believe that you can do it. Also with GRL1, I think you have a decent chance, but try to be as suave as possible from now on if you want pvssy fast.
 

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ME: "Hey can I sit here."
No answers.
GRL3: "No."
That's pretty much "game over" right there. Unless she said it in a joking sort of way.

By brothers you mean your friends right?

Oh, and don't just read the bible. Go to the "Tips" section and read an search for stuff there. Lots of stuff on convo if you search for it. Try searching for "nouning".

Hope that wasn't too "wack". Oh, and the best tip ever, STOP OVER-ANALYSING.
 
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